Professor Zeng Shiqiang said: The best childbearing age for women is 24 to 35 years old. Once you are over 40, try not to have children. That would be dangerous and difficult to take care of the children. This sentence
has been well confirmed by the 42-year-old female star.
She is Chen Qiaoen 's best friend Zhao Xiaoqiao .
If you can get pregnant naturally, who would want to do test tube ?
Why didn't she get pregnant naturally, and why did she choose to go through so much hardship to do in vitro fertilization ? This is what many people don’t understand about 42-year-old Zhao Xiaoqiao.
Who would want to go through in vitro fertilization if pregnancy goes smoothly and naturally? Zhao Xiaoqiao responded helplessly. Zhao Xiaoqiao's husband Liu Liangzuo is 54 years old. He and his ex-wife have a son Liu Ziquan . He is now 19 years old and is a freshman in college.
It seems that Zhao Xiaoqiao's problem will be bigger. After all, her husband already has a son. People are usually like this. When they are young, they want freedom. When they get older, they want to have children of their own.
In February 2021, Zhao Xiaoqiao made up his mind to start the road of in vitro fertilization. After experiencing one artificial failure and two in vitro fertilization failures, she successfully became pregnant for 4 months. Later, the fetus stopped.
Zhao Xiaoqiao never gave up on the road to pregnancy. Huangtian paid off and she finally got pregnant successfully. She is now 8 months pregnant.
Every day, Zhao Xiaoqiao has a "homework" that must be done. That means inserting a needle into your pregnant belly. In her words, not every pregnant mother who undergoes in vitro fertilization has to do this, but her body is special.
Zhao Xiaoqiao injects into her pregnant belly every day, and must continue to inject until the child is born. Her pregnant belly was basically blue and purple.
As long as she thinks that the fetus in her belly is healthy, she is full of happiness and hope every day.
Women are weak by nature, but mothers are strong. This sentence is best confirmed by Zhao Xiaoqiao.
Finger joint pain at 8 months of pregnancy
Every girl’s body is different, and her reaction to pregnancy is naturally different. The third trimester of pregnancy is generally hard because the fetus is growing day by day.
Jiang Qinqin once revealed that when she gave birth to her first child, she could not lie down to sleep in the late stages of pregnancy and could only sit on the sofa to sleep every night.
Zhao Xiaoqiao's body has undergone great changes since the eighth month of pregnancy. Her thigh turned purple-red and began to swell. As long as she pressed it with her hands, it would not recover for a long time, but would become a white patch.
In response, Xiaoqiao started soaking his feet every day.
I never expected that something more serious would happen. The joints of her ten fingers continued to be painful and swollen 24 hours a day, especially when she first got up in the morning, to the point where she could not make a fist or even hold her mobile phone.
Stretch marks also appear on the calves
It is very normal to have swollen feet, stretch marks on the inner thighs, and stretch marks on the pregnant belly during the middle and late stages of pregnancy.
However, getting stretch marks on your calves is a very rare thing.
Stretch marks vary from person to person. Some pregnant mothers rarely get stretch marks, while some pregnant mothers still get stretch marks even if they apply oil.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang’s words still make sense. Once a woman reaches the age of 40 and becomes pregnant and gives birth to a child, she will encounter many more difficulties and dangers than younger women.
46-year-old Yi Nengjing felt swollen all over when she was pregnant with her second child. The wound still suppurated and bled after the delivery. This is the danger that Professor Zeng Shiqiang talks about.
Women still have to do the right thing at the right time.
Love is sometimes a kind of loyalty.
Yang Lan said: The strongest bond in marriage is not children or money, but spiritual common growth. Love is sometimes a kind of loyalty.
Zhao Xiaoqiao and Liu Liangzuo have been together for 11 years. In the past 11 years, they have not given birth to a child of their own, and their love is still as sweet as ever.
She didn't dislike him for being ugly, divorced and raising a child, and she didn't dislike him for not being wealthy. Liu Liangzuo's home looks like a very ordinary house. From the living room, you can see that the house is not big, but it is full of fireworks and warmth.
With Zhao Xiaoqiao's fame and status, he could have married an outstanding single man with better conditions back then. But she chose the divorced man Liu Liangzuo without hesitation.
Who says love is not a kind of loyalty?
Liu Liangzuo already has a son. At the age of 54, he no longer has much desire for children. Every time he saw his wife Zhao Xiaoqiao trying hard to do in vitro fertilization, he was filled with heartache and even advised her to give up.
He didn't want his wife Zhao Xiaoqiao to experience physical and mental exhaustion, let alone let her body suffer again.
Having children is also Zhao Xiaoqiao’s obsession. The 42-year-old longed to have a child of her own. After a successful pregnancy, even though she had to stick a needle in her belly every day, as long as the baby was healthy, she was happy with it.
What is it like to have a great teammate? The simplest thing to say is to take the initiative to do everything before your wife even speaks. It ranges from three meals a day, to attending every prenatal check-up, to being by my side tenderly, and even giving me massages and foot baths.
Behind every happy pregnant mother, there must be a super teammate who is always considerate. Zhao Xiaoqiao's husband Liu Liangzuo is such a great teammate.
Every morning at 7 o'clock, he would get up on time to prepare breakfast for his pregnant wife, and also cook his wife's favorite pasta breakfast. For lunch, in order to take care of his wife's taste, he specially ordered his wife's favorite takeaway.
After every meal, Liu Liangzuo is responsible for clearing the dishes and table. As his wife was in her late stages of pregnancy, he also worked from home every day and stayed with her around the clock.
After dinner, he would accompany his pregnant wife for a walk. On a quiet path, two people hold hands and chat about daily life and the future. Who says that this is not the simplest kind of happiness that can be realized?
's most thoughtful gesture was that Liu Liangzuo squatted on the ground to massage and wash the feet of his pregnant wife. Seeing this scene, one understands why the young and beautiful Zhao Xiaoqiao married Liu Liangzuo, a divorcee who was 12 years older than her and had a child.
Liu Liangzuo is really a good man who is down-to-earth, reliable and responsible.
Zhao Xiaoqiao bent down and kissed her husband's forehead deeply.
Behind this kiss, there was not only gratitude, but also full of love.
Liang Shiqiu once said: Marriage based on love is unparalleled happiness in the world.
