"Their Names " finale, the three heroines found their names on their own life path.
After a short rest, Thunderpin returned to the board of directors. She loves work and life. In the workplace, she is a decisive strong woman, and in life she is a cute little radar full of girlish hearts.
Shen Jianan and Qin Tian finally got married. Not only did she take Qin Tian home to have dinner with her parents, she also started her own new business and was no longer the impulsive girl who had just entered the workplace.
Ren Duomei did not divorce Zhang Weichen, but she was no longer defined by Mrs. Zhang's label, but had her own career. She decided to run the marriage with a more frank attitude.
may seem to many people that this ending is a bit of a forced perfection, but in fact, it is precisely because of this that I feel it is real. Except for Ren Duomei's decision, the endings of the other two heroines are quite consistent with the character.
The free and easy thunder particles.
Lei Li is a very capable career woman. Of course, she has also suffered a lot of pressure in the workplace and has suffered calculating and betrayal.
When she left the company, we once hoped that she could have a better place and development and no longer return to the place where she didn’t know how to cherish her, because with her talent, she could make a world wherever she went. But in the end, she chose to go back.
This shows that Lei Li is a very clear and free woman.
During the time she lost her job, Yu Feifei once recommended other places for her to go, and her conditions and salary were very generous. But at that time, Lei Li said this:
Actually, I don’t care. I am not short of money now and don’t want to work, so I just want to have a good rest.
This free and easy attitude will really make many women envious. Of course, it is indeed something that many women cannot envy. She can be so free and easy because she has the confidence and capital to be free and easy, and this confidence and capital was achieved by her past efforts.
This is something that Ren Duomei, who earns her husband's monthly salary of 20,000 yuan, and it is something that Shen Jianan, who is determined to draw a clear line with her father.
However, if a woman wants to live freely and freely, she just works hard and works hard, and she must have a clear mind.
When Yu Feifei told Lei Li that Chen Chaosheng had divorced and left the house with nothing, she thought Lei Li would applaud, but she said calmly that knowing that he was going to get married was the real relief, because that was the torture for him. Now that he is divorced, as long as he is still fighting, he will do well in the future.
There is no way to let go of the ex who has hurt him or not, no insult to the insult, only objective evaluations and calm blessings. This seems to be generous to the ex, but in fact it is a cherishment of himself. It is precisely because of her such transparency that she can live so freely.
is also true for Gao Xu. She said that perhaps they can meet better each other in the future, not pessimistic or forceful, and fight for what should be fought for, and let the rest go naturally. This is exactly the true attitude of a free and easy woman towards emotions.
Shen Jianan's growth.
This girl, Shen Jianan, actually, at the beginning, I didn’t like her very much. She always felt that she was too childish, too impulsive, and was too self-centered in doing things. She only cared about her own preferences and did not consider other people’s feelings.
But in the finale, we can clearly see that Shen Jianan has grown up.
There is a deep gap between her and her father. She believes that her father is unfaithful to the marriage and interferes with her mother, wanting her mother to divorce, but her mother not only refuses to divorce, but also is full of tolerance for her husband, which makes her very dissatisfied. She also transformed this dissatisfaction into resentment towards her father, so that she didn't even care about her father's illness.
What does this mean? This shows that Shen Jianan was very immature at that time. Let’s not talk about what kind of person her father is. Just looking at marriage, it shouldn’t be decided by others.Her parents are the main body of the marriage. The mother is unwilling to divorce her father. Those who are daughters should respect this decision.
Shen Jianan wants to protect her mother, so she can take other methods, such as communicating well with her father, or encouraging her mother to go out of the family and change her mentality. If their marriage is really unfortunate, then the mother's mentality changes and the decision will naturally change. In any case, there is no need for her to force her mother to divorce or fight against her father.
When the finale came, we saw that Shen Jianan took Qin Tian home to have dinner with her parents, and the whole family was having a happy time. This also shows that she had reconciled with her father, at least her attitude had changed, which was a very obvious growth.
I believe that after growing up, she will surely make achievements in her career, be able to better understand the meaning of marriage, and be able to better manage her feelings.
Ren Duomei is unexpected.
Among the three heroines of "Their Names", Ren Duomei is the only one with an unexpected ending. This is not because she is so good, but because Zhang Weichen is so disappointing.
To be honest, Ren Duomei's marriage was not favored from the beginning, and both of them had too many thoughts and calculations. But if we want to compare them, I think Zhang Weichen is even more unforgivable.
That's right, Ren Duomei is snobbish. She broke up with Qin Tianqian because of his poverty, and then married Zhang Weichen. It's hard to believe that she is not greedy for Zhang Weichen's material conditions. But she also paid a price in this marriage. She carefully pleased her husband and mother-in-law, and even her own parents did not let her enter. As she said herself, she never caused any trouble to Zhang Weichen.
In contrast, Zhang Weichen, he clearly had physical defects, but he falsely accused his wife of infertility . And when Ren Duomei filed for divorce, he actually felt that Ren Duomei was cruel.
When Ren Duomei questioned him that if he had not had a physical examination, he would be kept in the dark and lived in the pain of not having a child. Who is this cruel? Zhang Weichen said this:
But I have been telling you, don’t be too anxious to give birth to a child, to relieve your anxiety, right?
If you listen to this, Ren Duomei will be grateful to him because of his understanding. From this we can also see that until the end, Zhang Weichen did not feel how serious his problem was. People like him could not really repent. But Ren Duomei decided to give him another chance, which was what surprised us the most.
I always think that Ren Duomei is a very smart woman, but her intelligence always seems to be in the right place. She wanted to overcome the hurdles in marriage and manage the marriage better, which was no problem, but the problem was that she had never seen the essence of Zhang Weichen, which was destined to be unable to live as transparent and free as thunder particles.
Conclusion:
Why do I think this ending is real?
Because everyone in our lives is different. Some people are free and easy, some are brave and decisive, and some are careless.
In many cases, we cannot avenge revenge. We must learn to self-relieve under the fatigue and pressure of the workplace, learn to reconcile with each other in the contradictions and dissatisfactions of life, and learn to compromise and manage in the complaints and grievances of marriage.
Sometimes, we choose the right choice, and sometimes, we choose the wrong choice. But this is everyone's different life.
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