saw this question on my mobile phone, so I went to the computer to answer it angrily because it touched me so deeply. I guess I will write very long. There are a lot of personal feelings mixed in, and the conclusion is at the end.
is a male respondent who graduated from a third-rate private college in Xi'an in 2008. With 2,000 yuan in my pocket, I bought a train ticket and came to Shanghai. I donât have any relatives or friends here. Even because I skipped classes, the school at that time temporarily withheld my diploma. The only reason I came to Shanghai is because I like the Internet. Here, I live in a shared apartment with 9 people. The monthly rent for a small single room is 650 yuan. There is only room for a bed and a laptop in the room.
htmlThe sun in July is really too hot, so I basically rely on 12580 for job hunting. I go to the job fair at the Shanghai Stadium every weekend and encounter a sudden heavy rain. Getting soaked is nothing to worry about. I run around every day in fear. Who would want me if I donât even have a diploma?A month later I met my first supervisor at work. That day I got lost while applying for a job. I walked a kilometer and was sweating profusely when I found the company where I was interviewing. The whole clothes were soaked, the sweat on my hair looked like it had been washed, and I could hardly stand due to heat stroke. He handed me a glass of water, and then asked me to talk about his views on SNS. He probably felt pity for my downfall, so he gave me The boss called me and said he didn't want my diploma for the time being, but would first check my work performance.
I joined a very excellent domestic Internet company, although the salary was only 1,800. But I didnât mind at all. It was the first time I attended a regular meeting. I was surrounded by a bunch of colleagues from Xunlei, Alibaba, Tencent, and Baidu. I learned about the position of product manager. The person was two years younger than me and was hired by the company from Shanda. Come, he can use Axure, he can use mind maps, he can quickly extract the essence during meetings, and he has clear product analysis capabilities. Analyzing the Internet is much more thorough than me. After meeting the regular army, I understood for the first time that there is a world out there, and the little knowledge I showed off in the past was not even enough to get started.
I get up at 6:30 in the morning, squeeze into the subway, and basically skip lunch in order to save money. While others were having dinner, I went up to the rooftop alone and stared at the high-rise buildings in Shanghai. The bathroom faucet in the bathroom of the rented residence needs to be shared by 9 people. You have to queue up every night to cook. There is only one toilet for going to the bathroom. If you go to the bathroom for a long time, you will be scolded by your roommates. You have to wait for a long time for the hot water in the electric shower to be used by others. . I would go home and write analysis reports until two o'clock at night every day. If I was too sleepy, I would set the alarm clock for six o'clock in the morning, and then go to sleep. Four hours of sleep is enough for me. When I reached 300-150, I bought a lot of Internet books and read them like crazy. On weekends, I attended various product manager gatherings. I didn't dare to speak, so I just sat at the end and listened quietly. I listened to their analysis and talked about a bunch of words that I didn't understand at all, and then I wrote them down in my notebook and looked them up on Baidu when I got home.
During the National Day holiday, all my colleagues who were close to home went home. I worked overtime for all my colleagues in the department. The three times salary allowed me to buy my first smartphone, Meizu m8, in one week.
Fortunately, I met two good buddies of my life, a PHP programmer and an advertising salesperson in the company. The three of us were inseparable like the three people in "China Partners". Both of them are in Shanghai. people. In my eyes, he is considered a second-generation rich man in sales, but he is extremely hard-working and motivated. He works harder than many foreigners I have seen in Shanghai. This guy is a person who deals with people, and his ideas are more genuine in all aspects, and the locals are also confident. , who helps me get through every situation. Finance, career, relationship... For our project, he even lived in the company. The programmer is a very honest and somewhat introverted boy. He has strong execution ability and is very suitable for being a programmer. In short, the three of us wear the same pants. Of course,
's efforts must be rewarded. In 2010, group buying was just emerging, and we began to be responsible for the group buying navigation in the company. This is a very important project of the company. The three of us worked hard every day. At that time, we never considered whether we were equal to the treatment provided by the company. We all pursued the ideal of starting a business.
saw this question on my mobile phone, so I went to the computer to answer it angrily because it touched me so deeply. I guess I will write very long. There are a lot of personal feelings mixed in, and the conclusion is at the end.
is a male respondent who graduated from a third-rate private college in Xi'an in 2008. With 2,000 yuan in my pocket, I bought a train ticket and came to Shanghai. I donât have any relatives or friends here. Even because I skipped classes, the school at that time temporarily withheld my diploma. The only reason I came to Shanghai is because I like the Internet. Here, I live in a shared apartment with 9 people. The monthly rent for a small single room is 650 yuan. There is only room for a bed and a laptop in the room.
htmlThe sun in July is really too hot, so I basically rely on 12580 for job hunting. I go to the job fair at the Shanghai Stadium every weekend and encounter a sudden heavy rain. Getting soaked is nothing to worry about. I run around every day in fear. Who would want me if I donât even have a diploma?A month later I met my first supervisor at work. That day I got lost while applying for a job. I walked a kilometer and was sweating profusely when I found the company where I was interviewing. The whole clothes were soaked, the sweat on my hair looked like it had been washed, and I could hardly stand due to heat stroke. He handed me a glass of water, and then asked me to talk about his views on SNS. He probably felt pity for my downfall, so he gave me The boss called me and said he didn't want my diploma for the time being, but would first check my work performance.
I joined a very excellent domestic Internet company, although the salary was only 1,800. But I didnât mind at all. It was the first time I attended a regular meeting. I was surrounded by a bunch of colleagues from Xunlei, Alibaba, Tencent, and Baidu. I learned about the position of product manager. The person was two years younger than me and was hired by the company from Shanda. Come, he can use Axure, he can use mind maps, he can quickly extract the essence during meetings, and he has clear product analysis capabilities. Analyzing the Internet is much more thorough than me. After meeting the regular army, I understood for the first time that there is a world out there, and the little knowledge I showed off in the past was not even enough to get started.
I get up at 6:30 in the morning, squeeze into the subway, and basically skip lunch in order to save money. While others were having dinner, I went up to the rooftop alone and stared at the high-rise buildings in Shanghai. The bathroom faucet in the bathroom of the rented residence needs to be shared by 9 people. You have to queue up every night to cook. There is only one toilet for going to the bathroom. If you go to the bathroom for a long time, you will be scolded by your roommates. You have to wait for a long time for the hot water in the electric shower to be used by others. . I would go home and write analysis reports until two o'clock at night every day. If I was too sleepy, I would set the alarm clock for six o'clock in the morning, and then go to sleep. Four hours of sleep is enough for me. When I reached 300-150, I bought a lot of Internet books and read them like crazy. On weekends, I attended various product manager gatherings. I didn't dare to speak, so I just sat at the end and listened quietly. I listened to their analysis and talked about a bunch of words that I didn't understand at all, and then I wrote them down in my notebook and looked them up on Baidu when I got home.
During the National Day holiday, all my colleagues who were close to home went home. I worked overtime for all my colleagues in the department. The three times salary allowed me to buy my first smartphone, Meizu m8, in one week.
Fortunately, I met two good buddies of my life, a PHP programmer and an advertising salesperson in the company. The three of us were inseparable like the three people in "China Partners". Both of them are in Shanghai. people. In my eyes, he is considered a second-generation rich man in sales, but he is extremely hard-working and motivated. He works harder than many foreigners I have seen in Shanghai. This guy is a person who deals with people, and his ideas are more genuine in all aspects, and the locals are also confident. , who helps me get through every situation. Finance, career, relationship... For our project, he even lived in the company. The programmer is a very honest and somewhat introverted boy. He has strong execution ability and is very suitable for being a programmer. In short, the three of us wear the same pants. Of course,
's efforts must be rewarded. In 2010, group buying was just emerging, and we began to be responsible for the group buying navigation in the company. This is a very important project of the company. The three of us worked hard every day. At that time, we never considered whether we were equal to the treatment provided by the company. We all pursued the ideal of starting a business.The salesman went to Beijing on a business trip. We talked about products from 8 pm to 12 pm. During the four-hour long distance, he would give me first-hand information about visiting customers. I quickly made product requirements and then submitted them to programmers. Programmers Work overtime and do product iterations that night. Sometimes we would suddenly come up with an idea at two o'clock in the middle of the night, and then I would call to discuss it. It was too common to work overtime until three o'clock in the night. Zhangjiang was full of street lights and empty streets. Then I would block the car and send the subordinates home, and then go back. I slept for a few hours at home and then rushed to work at the company the next day. Sometimes I find a page bug at 1 o'clock in the night and call the technical team. He will also get up and correct it immediately.
This is the dedication of people working in Shanghai to their work. The vast majority of people will not blame you no matter how late you disturb them as long as it is their job, and they are very responsible. The hard work of the three people soon paid off. Within a few years, I became the manager of this project. I have a small team of nearly ten people. They are also the backbone of their respective businesses.
The pace of life in Shanghai is very fast. , you feel that one day you will fall behind if you don't work hard, which gives you the motivation to study hard. Her supporting facilities are very good. The convenience store downstairs in Zhangjiang has many 24-hour services. You can work overtime until three o'clock in the middle of the night when you are hungry. When you are there, go downstairs and go into any restaurant to eat oden or ask the clerk to heat up a chicken nugget bento for you in the microwave.
After I gained a job and income, my living situation also changed. I could go shopping in Tianzifang with my girlfriend on weekends. See the scenery of various countries from the World Expo, go to ChinaJoy to take photos with cute girls, go to Chongming Island to catch crabs, go to Yangcheng Lake to eat hairy crabs, go to Songjiang University Town to drink coffee, and sit in a small shop to watch the sunset. You are free to take your girlfriend to do what you want to do and go where you want to go. With my salary, I can easily afford an IPAD and IPHONE. Most of the items I buy online arrive the next day, with free shipping.
I have also met many people that I admire throughout my life, they are experts in various fields. They are knowledgeable, courteous, intelligent, fashionable and well-dressed, speak just the right words, and do things in an orderly manner. Men and women are so smart. When you meet them, you will think, I must work hard to be like this.
Later, my sales buddy began to take me to meet customers, eat and chat, and taught me to overcome my weaknesses and communicate with others. Being too introverted is my weakness. With his help, I dare to speak at the company's strategic meetings to fight for resources and interests for the team. The team has a genuine master's degree in Chinese from Fudan University and a master's degree in journalism from Shanghai Normal University. Yes, as their manager, I am a junior college student from a third-rate private university in Xi'an who almost didn't get a diploma.
when leaving. Monthly salary 10k. 14 months of salary per year. I know that this salary is not high in Shanghai, but, in fact, I think it is worthy of my own efforts. At least the company I work for provides 3 times the salary on holidays, extra pay for overtime at night, and free meals in the restaurant. Bread, biscuits, instant noodles, coffee, ham sausage, free breakfast. Various systems are strictly implemented. There are colleagues around
who earn more than me, but they are indeed better than me. Educational qualifications, work ability, and how to deal with people. I was convinced to lose. Then just learn quickly.
Shanghai is a magical city. She doesn't ask about your origin, education, or despise your family conditions. She only looks at whether you work hard, really.
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In May 2013, my mother was diagnosed with lung cancer. The pleural effusion could not be stopped and she almost lost her life. I left Shanghai for my mother and returned to my hometown. In this not-so-small city where I have lived for 20 years, I still cannot adapt.
The conditions at home are not bad. My parents were doing business and suffered a fire in their early years, but my life is still not rigid. As an only child, my parents live in one apartment at home. They bought me an apartment for my wedding in 2005. Last year, civil servants divided the apartment and bought another apartment for rent. In addition to the several shops purchased for rent in the early years, of course, every penny of these things is the hard-earned money of my parents in this life. My restraint in Shanghai was just because I always had the belief that I didnât want to spend my parentsâ money after graduation. In fact, I did.
âs hometown is a third-tier city and is not too far behind economically.But after I came back, I was still not used to it. The public buses were basically not on time, and the service staff had no sense of service. When I checked into the hotel, I was waiting for my room card, and two waiters were discussing what to eat for lunch. After finishing the check-in and entering the guest room, I found that the previous guest had left and the room had not been tidied up. You know, this is not a small hotel. When the town of Lugang is busy, I have to order more than three times to eat a dish, and the waiter looks reluctant. The service of the waiter in the restaurant makes me always have the urge to complain. I think of the Red Pepper and ordinary Sichuan restaurants in Shanghai. The waiter is always watching your movements, helping you take off your coat and pouring you tea. Everyone in this city is living very seriously, so sometimes, they start to feel disappointed in their hometown.
First of all, there is no suitable job:
After I returned to my hometown, it was not easy to find a professional job. My hometown was lagging behind in logistics and the Internet, and e-commerce was lagging behind by a lot. Later, despite my objections, my mother got me into a government agency or public institution by giving gifts and relying on connections. You can get your career establishment after one year. Go to work, go to work endlessly, maintain stability. There is basically nothing to do at work, there is a canteen and a dormitory, and everything is free of charge. I just wonât let you go home. I go home for several days and can only stay at home for one day. Sometimes it feels like I'm in a nursing home. You don't need to have good computer knowledge. You can reinstall windows and set up printers and routers. You are an expert here. If you know how to Taobao, you are simply a master.
Secondly, ability is nothing, interpersonal relationships and family power are basically everything:
Every day, there are some dissatisfied people in the agency service hall, some quarrel and some cry. I was very surprised when I first went there, but my colleagues are used to it. . He even kindly reminded me: Donât worry about it. It's your business. The small leaders of the
organization are very powerful and arrange various jobs for me. In this kind of organization, if you are capable, then you should work more, and if you are not capable, you can just dawdle. Anyway, everyone got the same salary at the end of the month. After a while, she found out that I was a relative of a certain leader, and her attitude towards me completely changed. She didnât need me to do anything, and she immediately gave me an advanced rating, which made me dumbfounded.
You must admit that this is the current working situation in small cities. It is useless for you to work hard, because it is the leader who has the final say who should be reused and promoted, and connections and backstage are everything.
As a result, the new non-establishment temporary contract workers were working endless jobs with the lowest wages in the entire agency. For most of those who have obtained the establishment, their day-to-day work consists of playing games, eating, sleeping, chatting, and surfing the Internet.
again: Your career is completely about flattery and flattery, and people around you are trying to persuade you: This is completely normal.
As a newly appointed leader, his daily job is to fight landlords. Every day at noon, he chats with a superior and subordinate leader, and then helps the leader wash the dishes to show his courtesy. Three months later, he was quickly promoted to director... I was surprised after returning home. When I mentioned it to my mother, she said it was normal. Instead, he talked to me seriously and said that I was too rigid and didn't know how to flatter others. I can't defend myself, my outlook is broken.
Finally, the standard by which everyone judges whether you are successful is the civil servant:
I have a relative who entered the police system through trust. The 35-year-old earns more than 4,000 yuan and drives a car worth more than 200,000 yuan. His workplace has a canteen and the food is very good, but he always goes out to eat with a bunch of friends. In his words, this is a network of connections. I had a quarrel with my parents because I fell in love with a villa but they refused to buy it. He often asks his parents for money. He is such a person. My mother is extremely envious and thinks he is very good. He is a civil servant, goes out in style, has gray income, and has a secure life. All this deeply hurts my heart. I have Sometimes I really want to leave home. Itâs just that I canât bear to leave my mother who is weak after chemotherapy. On the one hand, she worked two jobs when she was young, built two houses and several shops for me from scratch, and gave me everything in her life. On the other hand, she tried to change my values ââand told me You must always be on guard against others in the office and learn to flatter others. She didn't allow me to do business or find a job in a private company. She just wanted me to work in an agency and eat from a big pot.
This is really not a case of my family, it is the value of almost everyone in this small town.Everything depends on relationships.
Moreover, there is a group here, a large group of relatives who basically have the same views. The topic after dinner is whose family has good conditions, whose children have high income, and whose daughter-in-law slapped her mother-in-law. Participating in family gatherings teaches you endlessly how to lead smoothly, to be diplomatic, to be more sensible and not to be so kind. If you don't attend family gatherings, it means you are ignorant and unsociable.
Unless you do exactly what they want.
Actually, I know that people from the two worlds cannot understand my inner thoughts because they have no experience. Maybe I donât understand their good intentions either. I hardly talked to my father in the six months since I came back because he always stubbornly felt that with so many people working hard in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, how many of them have succeeded? It's better to go back to your hometown and become a civil servant.
What they want is for you to go home, have a job as a civil servant with a guaranteed rice bowl, find a kind girl who can take care of you, get married as soon as possible, have a child, and live a perfect life in their eyes. Life is meant to be mediocre.
Today I am living in this kind of dissatisfaction, living in a state of seemingly prosperity but a bit of pain and uneasiness. I know that I will never suck up to the leader and wash the dishes for the sake of promotion. I cannot be myself. I was the person I looked down upon the most, and I would never have a future in the government.
I even know that I will return to Shanghai one day, even if it means I will become a mortgage slave. I don't care whether I have a house or not, because I have ideals. Staying in Shanghai and letting my descendants have a better life is my biggest ideal in this life.
answers your question:
I also know that my hometown is stable and I have no worries about food and clothing. I donât need a penny loan in my hometown to buy a good car and lead a girl to live an ordinary life. Have a meal and watch a movie. On the 1st of every month, I wear big slippers and go to the tenant to collect rent.
I also know that the housing prices in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are so high that you may have to live in a house slave for life. You have to queue up to buy a cup of soy milk. Taking the subway is crowded like a hamburger. When buying a car, you have to be lotteryd. A broken license plate costs 80,000 yuan.
The price I paid for my childish skipping breakfast in order to save money is that I now have to observe the polyps on my gallbladder that are ready to be removed at any time during my annual physical examination.
Do you think I donât understand family ties, so I gave up my hometown for a little money and went to a city 4,000 kilometers away to work hard in the dark, unable to see my parents getting older, just to come back and drink coffee at the New Year party with a smile and tell you that my income is higher than yours? ?
You still say that I am vain, selfish and have distorted values?
I know that I will never meet the girl who stayed with me in a 650 house for a month, hurt my fingers while cooking and learning to peel potatoes, and knelt on the ground all night to change my towel when I had a fever.
I will never meet those loyal buddies who argue over the user experience of a page and make an appointment to have hot pot after get off work while laughing and calling each other stupid.
no longer gets scolded by the manager in the office and then goes home and works hard to revise a user experience report until 2:30 in the middle of the night.
Those who gave up the prosperous life in their hometowns and went to first-tier cities to work hard are children with ideals and hope. They are the hope for change in all fields of this country.
Who is the one with distorted values, the struggling children in big cities and the pampered children in small cities? Could you please tell me about it?
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But after I came back, I was still not used to it. The public buses were basically not on time, and the service staff had no sense of service. When I checked into the hotel, I was waiting for my room card, and two waiters were discussing what to eat for lunch. After finishing the check-in and entering the guest room, I found that the previous guest had left and the room had not been tidied up. You know, this is not a small hotel. When the town of Lugang is busy, I have to order more than three times to eat a dish, and the waiter looks reluctant. The service of the waiter in the restaurant makes me always have the urge to complain. I think of the Red Pepper and ordinary Sichuan restaurants in Shanghai. The waiter is always watching your movements, helping you take off your coat and pouring you tea. Everyone in this city is living very seriously, so sometimes, they start to feel disappointed in their hometown.First of all, there is no suitable job:
After I returned to my hometown, it was not easy to find a professional job. My hometown was lagging behind in logistics and the Internet, and e-commerce was lagging behind by a lot. Later, despite my objections, my mother got me into a government agency or public institution by giving gifts and relying on connections. You can get your career establishment after one year. Go to work, go to work endlessly, maintain stability. There is basically nothing to do at work, there is a canteen and a dormitory, and everything is free of charge. I just wonât let you go home. I go home for several days and can only stay at home for one day. Sometimes it feels like I'm in a nursing home. You don't need to have good computer knowledge. You can reinstall windows and set up printers and routers. You are an expert here. If you know how to Taobao, you are simply a master.
Secondly, ability is nothing, interpersonal relationships and family power are basically everything:
Every day, there are some dissatisfied people in the agency service hall, some quarrel and some cry. I was very surprised when I first went there, but my colleagues are used to it. . He even kindly reminded me: Donât worry about it. It's your business. The small leaders of the
organization are very powerful and arrange various jobs for me. In this kind of organization, if you are capable, then you should work more, and if you are not capable, you can just dawdle. Anyway, everyone got the same salary at the end of the month. After a while, she found out that I was a relative of a certain leader, and her attitude towards me completely changed. She didnât need me to do anything, and she immediately gave me an advanced rating, which made me dumbfounded.
You must admit that this is the current working situation in small cities. It is useless for you to work hard, because it is the leader who has the final say who should be reused and promoted, and connections and backstage are everything.
As a result, the new non-establishment temporary contract workers were working endless jobs with the lowest wages in the entire agency. For most of those who have obtained the establishment, their day-to-day work consists of playing games, eating, sleeping, chatting, and surfing the Internet.
again: Your career is completely about flattery and flattery, and people around you are trying to persuade you: This is completely normal.
As a newly appointed leader, his daily job is to fight landlords. Every day at noon, he chats with a superior and subordinate leader, and then helps the leader wash the dishes to show his courtesy. Three months later, he was quickly promoted to director... I was surprised after returning home. When I mentioned it to my mother, she said it was normal. Instead, he talked to me seriously and said that I was too rigid and didn't know how to flatter others. I can't defend myself, my outlook is broken.
Finally, the standard by which everyone judges whether you are successful is the civil servant:
I have a relative who entered the police system through trust. The 35-year-old earns more than 4,000 yuan and drives a car worth more than 200,000 yuan. His workplace has a canteen and the food is very good, but he always goes out to eat with a bunch of friends. In his words, this is a network of connections. I had a quarrel with my parents because I fell in love with a villa but they refused to buy it. He often asks his parents for money. He is such a person. My mother is extremely envious and thinks he is very good. He is a civil servant, goes out in style, has gray income, and has a secure life. All this deeply hurts my heart. I have Sometimes I really want to leave home. Itâs just that I canât bear to leave my mother who is weak after chemotherapy. On the one hand, she worked two jobs when she was young, built two houses and several shops for me from scratch, and gave me everything in her life. On the other hand, she tried to change my values ââand told me You must always be on guard against others in the office and learn to flatter others. She didn't allow me to do business or find a job in a private company. She just wanted me to work in an agency and eat from a big pot.
This is really not a case of my family, it is the value of almost everyone in this small town.Everything depends on relationships.
Moreover, there is a group here, a large group of relatives who basically have the same views. The topic after dinner is whose family has good conditions, whose children have high income, and whose daughter-in-law slapped her mother-in-law. Participating in family gatherings teaches you endlessly how to lead smoothly, to be diplomatic, to be more sensible and not to be so kind. If you don't attend family gatherings, it means you are ignorant and unsociable.
Unless you do exactly what they want.
Actually, I know that people from the two worlds cannot understand my inner thoughts because they have no experience. Maybe I donât understand their good intentions either. I hardly talked to my father in the six months since I came back because he always stubbornly felt that with so many people working hard in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, how many of them have succeeded? It's better to go back to your hometown and become a civil servant.
What they want is for you to go home, have a job as a civil servant with a guaranteed rice bowl, find a kind girl who can take care of you, get married as soon as possible, have a child, and live a perfect life in their eyes. Life is meant to be mediocre.
Today I am living in this kind of dissatisfaction, living in a state of seemingly prosperity but a bit of pain and uneasiness. I know that I will never suck up to the leader and wash the dishes for the sake of promotion. I cannot be myself. I was the person I looked down upon the most, and I would never have a future in the government.
I even know that I will return to Shanghai one day, even if it means I will become a mortgage slave. I don't care whether I have a house or not, because I have ideals. Staying in Shanghai and letting my descendants have a better life is my biggest ideal in this life.
answers your question:
I also know that my hometown is stable and I have no worries about food and clothing. I donât need a penny loan in my hometown to buy a good car and lead a girl to live an ordinary life. Have a meal and watch a movie. On the 1st of every month, I wear big slippers and go to the tenant to collect rent.
I also know that the housing prices in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou are so high that you may have to live in a house slave for life. You have to queue up to buy a cup of soy milk. Taking the subway is crowded like a hamburger. When buying a car, you have to be lotteryd. A broken license plate costs 80,000 yuan.
The price I paid for my childish skipping breakfast in order to save money is that I now have to observe the polyps on my gallbladder that are ready to be removed at any time during my annual physical examination.
Do you think I donât understand family ties, so I gave up my hometown for a little money and went to a city 4,000 kilometers away to work hard in the dark, unable to see my parents getting older, just to come back and drink coffee at the New Year party with a smile and tell you that my income is higher than yours? ?
You still say that I am vain, selfish and have distorted values?
I know that I will never meet the girl who stayed with me in a 650 house for a month, hurt my fingers while cooking and learning to peel potatoes, and knelt on the ground all night to change my towel when I had a fever.
I will never meet those loyal buddies who argue over the user experience of a page and make an appointment to have hot pot after get off work while laughing and calling each other stupid.
no longer gets scolded by the manager in the office and then goes home and works hard to revise a user experience report until 2:30 in the middle of the night.
Those who gave up the prosperous life in their hometowns and went to first-tier cities to work hard are children with ideals and hope. They are the hope for change in all fields of this country.
Who is the one with distorted values, the struggling children in big cities and the pampered children in small cities? Could you please tell me about it?
-------------------------------------------------
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