I accidentally saw a confession video of Cecilia Cheung, in which she expressed her views on love: Love is incalculable! If you want to calculate, that love is not love at all. Looking at Cecilia Cheung's emotional line along the way, even if it is bumpy, she is always true to he

accidentally saw a confession video of Cecilia Cheung, in which she expressed her views on love: Love is incalculable! If you want to calculate, that love is not love at all.

Let’s look at Cecilia Cheung’s emotional line along the way. Even though it is ups and downs, she is always true to her character. Whether you think she is brainless or too hard, she has always been as she said and has never done any calculating behavior.

What is different from the sensibility and recklessness of most women is that men are much more rational when dealing with feelings. They will care about the cost and know their own efforts. There is a saying in the Book of Songs: "A man's indolence can still be freed. A woman's "Danxi, you can't take it off" directly expresses the differences between men and women in relationships.

Girls have such inherent disadvantages. If by chance they meet a shrewd and calculating man in love, they must take care of themselves.

1 After the divorce, I worry about the living expenses for my son

Among my WeChat friends, there is a female friend. Usually her circle of friends is always inspirational and gives people positive energy.

But for a while, she seemed to disappear from the circle of friends, without any updates.

Suddenly one night, when it was almost 12 o'clock, I was about to go to bed after checking the Moments. I saw the messages she had posted on the screen. There were four or five Moments in a row. Each one was very long. I had a hunch that something big must happen to her. .

took a careful look at her WeChat Moments, and sure enough, she was divorced.

The divorce is not a big deal. The main reason is that it was divorced at the beginning of the month. At that time, the child was awarded to her and the man had to pay the woman 500 yuan every month as child support.

Seeing that it was the end of the month, her ex-husband still hadn’t called her for living expenses. When she pressed her, he said some shocking words to defend himself.

The man said that the divorce was divorced this month, so the child support should be paid from the next month, and he resolutely refused to pay this month's child support of 500 yuan.

made the girl angry at that time. It was only 500 yuan, and it was for the child. The original 500 yuan was not worth anything. Moreover, they had just divorced at the time, and the woman was embarrassed to go back to her parents' home with the child, and there was no money to rent a house outside. many.

Relying on a woman’s natural maternal love, the man would rather treat himself badly than his children. After the divorce, he still has to worry about a mere 500 yuan, forcing the woman to suffer.

It was only after the divorce that this girl understood why her ex-husband chose to marry her. Because the girl had been having an affair with her ex-husband during their relationship, her ex-husband thought that such a woman was good and saved trouble and money, so he married her.

An emotional writer describes the difference in how men and women treat love: A woman's love is like an open faucet, with water flowing in a gush regardless of cost; while a man's love is like squeezing toothpaste, which is given out bit by bit .

So some men know this characteristic of girls and take advantage of women's weaknesses. They are shrewd, calculating, and have no regrets. On the contrary, they feel how capable they are, are complacent about their "smart" methods, and end up regretting it painfully. They are all girls who don’t know people well.

2. Don’t say it yourself if you want to break up, but force the other person to say it.

There are also some men who are good at calculating feelings. They always have a set of self-consistent logic: I do this because I have no choice, and all the choices are yours. Yes, it has nothing to do with .

Colleague Qingya is 28 years old. She is still not married or in a relationship. There seems to be no movement in her relationship.

It was not until I got to know her well that I understood her sad past.

She once had a beautiful campus romance, and after graduation, the relationship was also very good. Later, when they lived together, her boyfriend persuaded her to abort a child by putting her career first. During this period, the boys took good care of her.

Until two years later, boys became more and more indifferent to her, and because she had aborted a child, her body became weaker and weaker, and her unwillingness and resentment made her temper worse.

In a certain quarrel, the girl said anxiously: "Let's break up."I thought that the boy would sue for peace, and the two reconciled as before. Unexpectedly, the boy took the opportunity and said, "Okay, this is what you said!"

Since then, the girl has been unable to contact her, and it was not until her former classmates that she found out that the boy had already They got married, not long after they broke up.

Boys have probably been determined to break up for a long time, but they don’t want to say it themselves, so they use cold violence to force girls to say it first. What girls say about "breaking up" is just to attract boys' attention, but they fall into the boy's "trap".

When you are in love, both parties are full of joy, but when you break up, the person you once loved is so passive. Resisting the pressure to say "break up" and setting a trap for the other person is a plan that disrespects the other person and bullies their intelligence.

03, ’s calculation after the breakup, taking advantage of the other party’s popularity

Chen Wenqian was once called “the smartest woman I have ever seen” by Li Ao, but such a smart and dexterous woman also has the experience of being used by men.

When Chen Wenqian was in a relationship with Song Zhengyu, after they broke up, Song was rumored to have said something like this: "I must consume Miss Chen well."

After Chen Wenqian broke up with the other party, she once felt sorry for the excessive attention she brought to the other party because of her public figure.

But when he learned that the end of this relationship was such a recognition in the man's heart, everything was relieved.

Chen Wenqian later said that the reason for the breakup was that the two parties had different values. The other party tried to take advantage of her privileges, and the beauty clinic owned by the man tried to use her to advertise the clinic.

The most important thing for people to know each other is sincerity! Becoming friends or lovers should be a fate that should be cherished by each other, but some men will even disgust you when they break up!

4. What do smart and calculating men look like?

Some men who are good at calculations may be calculating your life in addition to your money, your feelings, and your residual value.

There is a case of killing his wife and defrauding insurance that has made a lot of news in the news. A Tianjin man bought his wife a 30 million insurance policy and deliberately killed her in a swimming pool in Phuket, Thailand.

Of course, you don’t have to stop eating because of choking. In fact, those men who are good at calculations have their own characteristics:

1, the thief shouts to catch the thief

In fact, some men will write a "disclaimer" in advance, saying that they are weak and behave in a weak way. Many white rabbits The girl suddenly couldn't resist, and she played into the opponent's hands.

also talks about the irresponsibility of various men from the side, giving you the illusion that he is not this kind of person. In fact, there are really no exceptions. How can a real straight man even think of saying this?

2. Paying too much attention to things other than you

This part of the boy will pay attention to your family, your education, your job, your brothers and sisters, and even your parents’ pension, but you feel that he just doesn’t care about you personally.

It's not scary to meet a man who likes to calculate. What's scary is that girls can't see clearly time and time again and can't stop losses in time!

Just like the song says: keep a few points for yourself! A woman’s unique talent for innocence and gentleness should be reserved for those who truly love you!

Author: Ling Xia, a student of Tang Xiaoxiao Writing Class.

All pictures come from the Internet

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