I think what she said is reasonable and what she said is ugly is right. The girls' high school was originally a school for poor girls to study. If the students finally graduated from college and became full-time wives, she would definitely object.
Shangguan News reported on October 28 that Zhang Guimei, the principal of Huaping Girls’ High School in Lijiang, Yunnan, became popular again, this time because she opposed students becoming full-time wives.
As the first fully free public girls' high school in the country, Huaping Girls' High School has a total of 1,804 girls who have left poverty-stricken mountain villages and entered university. Recently, in an interview video, Principal Zhang Guimei recalled the story of students who were unwilling to accept donations because they became full-time housewives. The remarks in the video, "I am most opposed to being a full-time housewife," triggered a discussion on the Internet about "full-time housewives." hot discussion.
At noon on October 25, Huang Fuyan saw this news link in the group of classmates of Huaping Girls' High School, "It felt like it was talking about me." On the same day, she forwarded the news link to WeChat Moments, and added a forwarding sentence - "Our boss with personality."
Recently, Zhang Guimei, the principal of Yunnan Huaping Girls' High School, caused heated discussions on the Internet with her remarks about "full-time wives". Picture from Weibo screenshot
A photo of Zhang Guimei, the principal of Lijiang Huaping Girls' High School, being interviewed by a reporter from Shangguan News in July.
Huang Fuyan is the first student enrolled in Huaping Girls' High School after its establishment. She enrolled in 2008 and was admitted to Inner Mongolia Normal University in 2011, majoring in primary school education. After graduating from university, she chose to come to Shanghai to pursue her career. After becoming pregnant in 2017, she resigned and returned to her husband's hometown of Guizhou.
In 2018, Huang Fuyan returned to her alma mater, Huaping Girls' High School, to donate money, but Zhang Guimei rejected it. The first time they met, Huang Fuyan clearly saw the joy on Zhang Guimei's face. After asking about the current situation, the principal's face turned serious and the smile disappeared. "I didn't meet her requirements." At that time, the child was less than one year old, and Huang Fuyan was unemployed and took care of the child full time. "She doesn't want us to go to school and still be like the older generation, living around our husbands and children at home. We need to be independent and have our own careers and finances."
The following is Huang Fuyan's story
Donation rejected
I am a Huaping woman The first graduate of high school, now works as a special post teacher in a rural primary school in Puding County, Anshun, Guizhou.
I often forward the news about Women’s High School and Principal Zhang in my circle of friends. My husband is very familiar with the situation of Women’s High School and admires the greatness of Teacher Zhang. The two of us discussed how much we can help the school.
When we graduated from high school, Teacher Zhang told us not to go back to a girls' high school, for fear that we would feel pressured. Therefore, I did not contact Teacher Zhang directly, but quietly inquired from a classmate who was a math teacher at a girls' high school. When I learned that Teacher Zhang was in school, I rushed back.
"You have children and are not at work now. Please contact the school later if necessary," she declined politely. We are studying in a free girls' high school. I know that the school's funds are not generous and it needs money at any time. I don't want to contact her when she needs it, as she said.
She made a face, and I was a little disappointed, but there was no disappointment. I know that I failed to meet Teacher Zhang's requirements and failed to handle work matters well, which disappointed her.
On that day, someone in the classmate group posted a Weibo link about Teacher Zhang’s opposition to being a full-time wife. I clicked on it and saw that it felt like he was talking about me. I don’t have a Weibo, and I don’t follow other people’s comments. I think what she said is reasonable and what she said is ugly is right. The girls' high school was originally a school for poor girls to study. If the students finally graduated from college and became full-time wives, she would definitely object.
"Timely rectification"
My parents are both out-and-out farmers. When I was in the third year of junior high school, my brother got seriously ill. All the family money was used to treat him, and he was still borrowing money from relatives and friends. My parents were unable to support him anymore. I read. Before the high school entrance examination, my junior high school teacher recommended Huaping Girls’ High School to me.
After the college entrance examination in 2011, I worked part-time in a small restaurant in Huaping County. When I got my scores, I went to the Internet cafe with my classmates to check my scores. It was found out that my score was not good, but it was the second line of science, with a score of 380. When it came time to fill in the application form, I was in the computer classroom at school. I was afraid that I would not be able to get into the second program, and I also felt that the tuition for the three majors was too expensive, so I applied for all the junior college programs.When the teacher saw it, he told me that my grades could definitely be applied to two schools. I chose Yuxi Normal University in the province and Inner Mongolia Normal University outside the province, and was finally admitted to Inner Mongolia Normal University.
After graduating from college, I came to Shanghai to work. I can clearly feel the fast pace of the big city. I grew up in a rural area. When I was young, I often herded cows and sheep. If I walked slowly, the sheep might wander into other people's fields and eat crops. In Shanghai, I thought I was walking fast enough, but others still thought you were a bit slow, but the experience in Shanghai really trained me.
When I was working in Shanghai in 2015, I went back to school once, and Teacher Zhang asked me how my work was, and I said it was okay. She asked me about my salary. At that time, my basic salary was 3,500. She felt that the basic salary of 3,500 was not a lot of income in a big city, and part of the income was commission, which was not stable.
I went to donate money in 2018 but was rejected. Although Teacher Zhang didn’t say it clearly, I knew she was dissatisfied with me. In 2019, I was admitted to the special position as a teacher, and it was considered a "timely rectification".
I think if there were no female high schools, I might not have the chance to go to college. Not only me, many classmates may not be able to go to college. Everyone has a different stance and different ideas. Principal Zhang is against being a full-time housewife. Principal Zhang said this from the perspective of a female high school student.
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Source: China Search
