It was around the end of October 1931. When Xiao Jun first met Xiao Hong , Xiao Hong, who was less than 21 years old at the time, "there were a few white hairs mixed in between the black and messy hair, and there was a silver light under the light."
This is not the so-called "young white", but the premature aging caused by Xiao Hong's painful experience in the past 3 or 4 years of "first being played with by her distant cousin, then being abandoned by her fiancé" caused by her huge mental and physical harm. Judging from her two relationship experiences, she is a typical " love brain ".
Xiao Hong's tragedy provides a revelation for modern women: how serious are the consequences of a love brain?
Xiao Hong's old photo
Xiao Hong's tragedy originated from an arranged marriage that her father agreed to when she was 17 years old.
17-year-old Xiao Hong was in the first grade of Harbin Dongte Girls' No. 1 Middle School. Although she has grown into a handsome young girl, she focuses on studying, but occasionally she will go to Zhang Tingxian, who works in Harbin. It was just this place where something happened.
Uncle Six has a classmate named Wang Dacheng who is very close to him. He is the principal of a primary school. Wang Dacheng has a younger brother Wang Enjia who just graduated from a normal school. He was worried about finding a job, so Wang Dacheng kept him in his school as a teacher. Zhang Tingxian often visits Wang Dacheng's place and often meets Wang Enjia. He thinks that Wang Enjia is good.
, and Wang Dacheng also often visits Zhang Tingxian's place, and occasionally meets Xiao Hong. At that time, Xiao Hong was wearing pure student outfit, young and beautiful, and generous. When Wang Dacheng learned that he was Zhang Tingxian's niece, he thought of helping his younger brother Wang Enjia arrange a marriage.
The parents of the two sides weighed the pros and thought that it was quite appropriate for both parties to be a match. Xiao Hong (real name Zhang Xiuhuan )'s father Zhang Tingju quickly made the decision to betroth Xiao Hong to Wang Enjia. Considering that Xiao Hong is still in middle school, the two families agreed to get married after Xiao Hong graduated from junior high school.
At this time, Xiao Hong was already in love, but she had not yet fallen in love with any boy. Some female classmates were already engaged. Seeing that they seemed to have tasted the sweetness of love, Xiao Hong also had some longing for her future love. Therefore, did not object to Xiao Hong's marriage decided by her father. sometimes imagined what kind of man his fiancé Wang Enjia was?
Although Wang Enjia looks pretty good, he is still a teacher at a school. Although his fiancé who often study in Harbin Institute of Technology or Harbin Institute of Technology , the teacher's job is still decent and not too bad. After slowly getting in touch with her, Xiao Hong felt a little disappointed. Wang Enjia was a little dull and dull, but his eyes looked a little confused. It is far from the romantic and elegant she imagines, and it is not elegant and has no opinion yet. Xiao Hong asked him to study at the Law and Political University, but he said he would discuss it with his brother before talking.
In addition, Xiao Hong also found that the spiritual gap between Wang Enjia and her was getting bigger and bigger. Wang Enjia was not interested in some of the new terms Xiao Hong said. Moreover, Xiao Hong was even more disappointed with Wang Enjia's appearance of not being enterprising at all. In his heart, Xiao Hong's dissatisfaction with this arranged marriage was increasing day by day.
Xiao Hong's participation in anti-Japanese demonstrations in Harbin reached her father's ears. The family made an emergency decision to interrupt her studies immediately and ask her to marry Wang Enjia immediately. After Xiao Hong learned about it, she contradicted her father and started arguing with her stepmother who was about the same age. In the end, the marriage was temporarily put on hold, and Xiao Hong returned to Harbin to continue classes.
Xiao Hong (stills)
Wang Enjia, who often comes to show her attentiveness, has become Xiao Hong's heart disease. In addition to often talking about this heart disease to her best friend in the school, she also often tells her young man named Lu Zhenshun. This young man is her distant cousin and is studying at Harbin University of Political Science and Law.As he talked more times, Xiao Hong suddenly felt in love with Lu Zhenshun and often snuggled in his arms. , and Xiao Hong also knew that Lu Zhenshun had an arranged marriage wife in his hometown.
The summer vacation of the second grade of junior high school is coming soon, which means that Xiao Hong's junior high school studies are over, and Lu Zhenshun is about to go to Beiping to study. At this time, Xiao Hong suddenly found that her heart was full of Lu Zhenshun's shadow, and the soon-to-be-married Wang Enjia never had any shadow in her heart .
The father and Wang Enjia's family were urging Xiao Hong to get married earlier this summer vacation. The more he urged him, the more disgusted Xiao Hong became with Wang Enjia. It was during this summer vacation that Lu Zhenshun wrote to express his longing for Xiao Hong. The words in his letter were much more beautiful than those of Wang Enjia. After all, Lu Zhenshun is a wife and knows better how to please girls.
What made Xiao Hong even more excited was that Lu Zhenshun made an appointment with her in the letter to take her to study in Peking, and said that his family’s funding was sufficient for the two of them to spend in Peking. Xiao Hong was moved. She didn't even think about what it meant to follow her distant cousin who had a family to travel to Peking. She just pissed off with her father and made up her mind to go from Harbin to Peking with Lu Zhenshun.
Xiao Hong never even thought that she had gone to Peking with her distant cousin Lu Zhenshun, who already had a family, was actually a real "elopement" in the eyes of outsiders. Indeed, after arriving in Peking, one late autumn night, Xiao Hong handed over his virgin body to his distant cousin Lu Zhenshun. After that night, everything changed, and Xiao Hong became Lu Zhenshun's veritable lover.
In early winter, my father wrote to him, neither sending money nor winter clothes, but just forced Xiao Hong to drop out of school immediately and go home to marry his fiancé Wang Enjia. Lu Zhenshun's family also knew about him and Xiao Hong's elopement to Peking. The family completely cut off his source of income and asked him to choose: if he goes back during the winter vacation, he will give him travel expenses, otherwise he will continue to cut off all his source of income.
But soon Lu Zhenshun chose to surrender. He made the decision to return to his hometown in Northeast China during the winter vacation. Xiao Hong had no choice but to leave Peking with Lu Zhenshun. Otherwise, she would not even have the money to go back because she had no ability to wander outside alone.
Facts prove that Lu Zhenshun is not the kind of truly responsible man. He did elope with Xiao Hong, but he will eventually go back. He is not a wife who cannot live without the countryside in terms of emotion, but a family in terms of economy. The first love brought to Xiao Hong by her distant cousin Lu Zhenshun ended in a dark way. Her life deviated from the normal track because of this first love, and this failed first love is just the prelude to her ill-fated fate.
After returning to Harbin, Lu Zhenshun sent Xiao Hong to the car back to Hulan and went home. Xiao Hong returned to Hulan's home alone. The consequence of Xiao Hong's elopement on his father Zhang Tingju was that his father was removed from his position as secretary of the Provincial Department of Education because he was unable to educate his children and was transferred to Bayan County as the supervisor of the Education Bureau.
Xiao Hong
At this time, Xiao Hong had accepted marrying Wang Enjia in her heart, but she still asked Wang Enjia to wait until she finished high school before getting married. Lu Zhenshun, who was dying of death, secretly hid 5 yuan for Xiao Hong in a book sent to Xiao Hong through his classmates from Peking. Xiao Hong was able to find another opportunity to escape from his hometown and return to the house she and Lu Zhenshun had rented in Peking.
As soon as she arrived in Peiping, Xiao Hong fell ill and her high fever did not subside. Wang Enjia then chased her to Peiping and found her residence according to the address provided in Xiao Hong's letter. is where she and Lu Zhenshun lived. Xiao Hong not only let Wang Enjia replace Lu Zhenshun in love, but also actually lived a life of living with Wang Enjia.
Just when Wang Enjia spent all the money, the family told Xiao Hong that Wang Enjia's brother Wang Dacheng could not tolerate Xiao Hong running away from home repeatedly and terminated his engagement with Xiao Hong in Harbin instead of his younger brother.Xiao Hong sued Wang Dacheng in court with a complaint, and the lawsuit against him for divorce without the consent of the parties involved. But at a critical moment, Wang Enjia, for the purpose of protecting his brother's reputation, admitted against his will to terminate the engagement was his own claim and had nothing to do with his brother.
Xiao Hong lost the appeal and was disgraced and became the object of ridicule and sarcasm. Everyone regarded her as a problem girl and used it as a negative teaching material. Xiao Hong was completely lost in the face of the Zhang family, and this incident became the topic of after-dinner talks in Hulan and even Harbin. In a fit of anger, his father put Xiao Hong in his hometown in the countryside.
It was not until half a year later that the "9th Incident " broke out, and the Zhang family had to find a way to evacuate the women and children at home and find them a safe place to escape. In this way, Xiao Hong took the opportunity to escape in October and came to Harbin. Once, Xiao Hong met his father who came to Harbin to do business. The stubborn personality of the father and daughter eventually led to the two passing by. Neither of them lowered their heads, but the father, who was full of anger, had tears in his eyes.
The fiance Wang Enjia, who had terminated the engagement, learned that Xiao Hong was looking for him everywhere, so he quickly found Xiao Hong, took Xiao Hong to the hotel and lived in, bought her clothes, shoes and hats, and after dressing her up, he also took her to have a hot and full meal. Just like that, in a hotel in Harbin in late winter of 1931, Xiao Hong and Wang Enjia lived together again.
Not long after, it was the Spring Festival in 1932. In order not to expose his cohabitation with Xiao Hong, Wang Enjia left Xiao Hong alone in the hotel and went home to celebrate the New Year by himself. Soon, Harbin fell into the hands of the Japanese. After the Spring Festival, Wang Enjia returned to the hotel and Xiao Hong told him that she was pregnant.
What’s worse is that Wang Enjia had no money to keep accounts in the hotel. By late spring, Wang Enjia owed 600 yuan in food and accommodation in the hotel in the name of Xiao Hong. The boss finally turned his back and asked them to pay the debt immediately. Wang Enjia asked Xiao Hong to wait for him here, saying that he would go home to withdraw the money, but Wang Enjia never came back after leaving.
Xiao Hong owed the hotel more than 600 yuan for food and accommodation, and was detained in the hotel as a hostage. When will Xiao Hong pay back the money to the hotel, and when will Xiao Hong get out? Zhang Tingxian and Wang Dacheng, who knew about this, also blamed the hotel owner for taking in Xiao Hong and Wang Enjia for living here, and shouting that they would settle the score with him.
As a result, Xiao Hong, whose belly grew bigger day by day, was detained in the hotel day by day, and the letter she wrote to Wang Enjia never responded to. Her belly is getting bigger and bigger now, and she is already a pregnant woman with difficulty in moving, and she can't escape even if she wants to. Xiao Hong's heart for Wang Enjia was completely dead. Only then did she realize that Wang Enjia had abandoned her.
Xiao Hong's tragedy In fact, to a certain extent, she herself also has certain responsibilities - for example, even though she knows that my cousin already has a family, why do she still develop a lover relationship with him? For Wang Enjia, he either agreed to the family's arrangements to marry him, or he firmly opposed the marriage from the beginning, instead of turning left or right, but was abandoned after being played with by Wang Enjia. This is the serious consequence of a typical love brain!
Modern women must learn from Xiao Hong's tragedy and never bring serious consequences to themselves because of their love brain!
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