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html When I watched "The Beloved Concubine 1" again in 2005, I found that that was not the case.
Qu Xiaotan is beautiful, but she has no special skills and her IQ is often not online. She is just stupid and sweet.
Why does the handsome and unrestrained Eighth Prince Mo Liancheng like her and fall in love with her? Is it just because she speaks a language he doesn't understand and fascinates him?
is not true.
In the editor's opinion, the most important reason why the male protagonist likes and falls in love with Qu Xiaotan is that Qu Xiaotan has several important characteristics.
01 Frank and cute
Qu Xiaotan traveled through time, and her original body did not like the Eighth Prince. But for Qu Xiaotan, who traveled to the past, she didn't like marrying a stranger either.
So, on the wedding night, she laid a trap. When the groom walked to the door, he didn't come in. Qu Xiaotan was worried that her trap wouldn't hurt the groom, so she pretended to call Mo Liancheng to come in quickly.
As a result, Mo Liancheng came in unscathed, and then walked out unscathed. Qu Xiaotan felt strange and wanted to chase him. However, after tasting the trap he had set, he was soaked by the water and turned into a drowned rat. When
saw this, it was funny for the first time, and I felt like I was losing a lot of money. When I watched it again, I felt that Qu Xiaotan was straightforward and cute.
She has no idea, so she falls into the trap she set. And all her emotions are shown on her face, even if she sets a trap, anyone with a little bit of knowledge will know it.
But she herself thought it was perfect, but she didn't know that it had already been seen through. After reading it, not only did I not think the heroine was stupid, but she was frank and cute.
And her frankness and cuteness are everywhere in the play. For example, when she first met Mo Liancheng, she climbed the wall to escape.
It turned out that the wall was very high, and Mo Liancheng happened to pass by, so she lied that she was sold to a brothel first, and then said that she was just looking at the scenery. In short, she just wanted Mo Liancheng to catch her.
But Mo Liancheng couldn't get enough of it. She was so angry that she cursed: Damn niangpao, why are you talking so much nonsense?
is obviously a curse word, but it makes people laugh and smile.
Many times, most people don’t dare to do this. Because the identity of the other party is there. The consequences of offending someone can be imagined.
But the Eighth Prince did not blame her. The main reason was that he also felt interesting from Qu Xiaotan's words and deeds.. The so-called good-looking skin is the same, but the interesting soul is unique.
And she is interesting because of her personality: straightforward and cute.
On the wedding day
02 There is a clear distinction between love and hate
For Mo Liancheng, Qu Xiaotan liked the eldest prince and almost committed suicide because of his marriage. And the reason why he married her was just because of his parents' orders and the matchmaker's words.
Of course, he married her, and one more thing was that he wanted to know if she was the prince's spy. If so, you can even use the trick to catch the great prince. Thereby gaining an advantage in competing for reserves.
So, the Eight Princes' Mansion looks calm, but in fact there is an undercurrent surging behind the scenes.
As a figure in the palace, everything he does is scheming and ruthless is the conspiracy behind it. A smiling face in front of others and a grimace behind others. But Qu Xiaotan is an exception.
Regarding Mo Liancheng's two concubines, one of them deliberately made trouble with her and the prince, and the other deliberately stretched out his leg to trip her.
Faced with this provocation, Qu Xiaotan’s original person chose to tolerate it, showing magnanimity and not caring about it. But Qu Xiaotan directly attacked them regardless of their image.
Qu Xiaotan faced two concubines
Another time, Mo Liancheng suspected that she was an undercover agent and communicated with outsiders to reveal information about the Eighth Prince's Palace.After she found out, she immediately made a distinction for herself and confidently told Mo Liancheng that she was not. Mo Liancheng also needs to compensate for mental damages.
The eighth prince said, what if I don’t?
Qu Xiaotan said that she was going to file a lawsuit. She was the eighth princess in name, but she was guarded by the eighth prince every day. There is no sense of security at all.
Qu Xiaotan, who looks silly, really faces things, dares to love, hate, speak out and make trouble.
In that dynasty, most people were humble and bowed their heads when facing the prince, but Qu Xiaotan's contrary behavior made the eighth prince feel refreshed and he paid more attention to him. The more attention
has, the more times we meet.
In psychology, there is a "seeing more" effect, which means that the more times you meet, the more feelings you will have.
As for the Eighth Prince's feelings for Qu Xiaotan, he gradually fell in love with her from being suspicious and guarded at the beginning to becoming wary later.
Mo Liancheng
03 Distinguishing Right from Wrong
Once Qu Xiaotan cooperated with Mo Liancheng in acting, and he was angry and drove away the niece of the Queen Mother who wanted to marry the eighth princess. The Eighth Prince deliberately handed over the imperial order to Qu Xiaotan for safekeeping.
And this imperial order is actually military power.
Qu Xiaotan doesn’t know, but the original person does. The original person wanted to give it to the great prince.
But after Qu Xiaotan found out, he said that if he gave this thing to the eldest prince, he would be skinned by the eighth prince. (knowing the consequences of her actions), and she said that she ate each other's food and drank each other's food, and the Eighth Prince had never abused her. Much better than those people in Qufu. (Know right from wrong)
Qu Xiaotan climbed up the wall
There is a saying that happy families are all similar, and every unhappy family has its own misfortune.
Compared to Qu Xiaotan's original identity, in the editor's opinion, her biggest misfortune is that she cannot distinguish right from wrong. Never consider the consequences for yourself. I just want to help the great prince. But she didn't understand that if she helped the eldest prince and the eighth prince knew about it, she would probably die.
Her life is gone. Even if the eldest prince becomes the prince, what meaning does it have to her?
Because she didn't understand, she walked into tragedy step by step. Use her to deliver news and tell the eldest prince that the emperor's order is in the study; use her to deliver the emperor's order; know the eighth prince's feelings for her, use her to go to the Qu Mansion to suffer, and become the crown prince himself. So what if
ascends to the position of prince, nothing will change for Qu Xiaotan's original identity. She is still the eighth princess, she can only be the eighth princess.
But when Qu Xiaotan was in the Eighth Prince's Mansion, every time he did something, he would consider the consequences. He will always look at the problem from the perspective of the Eighth Prince, thus avoiding the disasters that were almost caused by the original operation many times, and winning the trust of the Eighth Prince step by step.
Qu Xiaotan and Mo Liancheng
04Knowing current affairs
In life, quarrels between husband and wife are inevitable. But some people become enemies when they quarrel, while some people become better off when they quarrel and the more they quarrel.
In the editor's opinion, the biggest feature is that it knows current affairs.
In the play, Qu Xiaotan was pricked with needles by the eldest lady, causing injuries all over her back. Fortunately, the Eighth Prince appeared in time and took her home.
After returning home, Qu Xiaotan thought it was the maid who brought the medicine, so she told the maid bad things about the Eighth Prince Mo Liancheng, saying that he was a scheming man and a gangster, and that he should not marry such a person.
Mo Liancheng was naturally unhappy after hearing this. Just threaten her. Do you know how disrespectful it is to insult the royal family? Going to jail for 10 years.
When Qu Xiaotan heard this, he rolled his eyes and immediately changed his tone, saying sweetly that he was just complaining.
When I first watched it, I thought it was a bit artificial and felt that the place changed too quickly. But when I looked at it again, I realized that she was aware of current affairs.
Although she is the eighth princess, she has no real power. And in that era, women's status was low.What's more, if you show off your words, so what if you win?
How about using softness to overcome hardness? It was her gentle words that satisfied the prince, and he was able to avoid an unknown disaster.
Qu Xiaotan's original body
05Self-relief
In fact, Qu Xiaotan also has one of the biggest advantages, that is, when encountering something, she will not keep it in her heart, but find ways to resolve it.
It was as if she stayed in the palace every day and couldn't go out. She felt very bored, so she spread out a mat in front of the bed and practiced yoga.
Also, she sneaked into the prince's room to find a bed, and found that the bed where the eighth prince slept was the bed she had traveled through time.
So she lay down on it and wanted to go back through time. As a result, he was discovered by the Eighth Prince. Moreover, there was an assassin in the bedroom at that time. The assassin kidnapped her, and the Eighth Prince killed her in front of the Eighth Princess.
For Qu Xiaotan, who had never seen such a battle before, the inner feeling was unprecedented.
But she did not immerse herself in this matter. Instead, she released her inner fear and anxiety by shouting, singing, and dancing. Later, at the maid's suggestion, I turned to the old carpenter who made the bed.
In addition, the Eighth Prince did not believe what Qu Xiaotan said. There are two consciousnesses in a person's body. Proposed a breakup. At that time, Qu Xiaotan was very angry and sad.
But she did not exile herself, but wanted to find a way to change the status quo.
In life, people will always encounter troubles, difficulties, and unsatisfactory things. Some people like to get into trouble, and a small thing turns into a big deal after thinking about it; while some people divert their attention to get rid of those bad things, so as to see a new light.
Therefore, when encountering something, don’t be too aggressive. Even if it is a big thing, it will pass. If you really can't bear it, you can find someone to talk to, run to vent, or sleep.
As long as you don’t think about it, many things will become history. Over time, they will not even leave any traces in your life.
06kindness
Qu Xiaotan has always disliked the Eighth Prince and has always wanted a letter of divorce from the Eighth Prince. When the Eighth Prince is killed, he will usually be given benefits in exchange.
But Qu Xiaotan did not, but tried his best to save the Eighth Prince, relying on his limited first aid knowledge to help the Eighth Prince treat his wounds. Because of this, the Eighth Prince canceled his surveillance on her.
thus won freedom for himself.
Once, the Eighth Prince took Qu Xiaotan to play in the mountains. Qu Xiaotan found that an arrow was shooting towards Mo Liancheng, and she blocked him without hesitation;
When Mo Liancheng found out that he had not protected Qu Xiaotan, he felt very guilty. Qu Xiaotan did not blame him, but instead Comfort the other person by saying it was a minor injury and nothing happened.
Husband and wife do not denigrate each other, nor do they hurt each other. Husbands and wives help each other more. And to do so, the most important thing is kindness.
Some people say that being smart is a talent, and being kind is a choice. In today's society, many people don't want to be kind, because kindness is taken advantage of by some people, but there are still many people who are willing to be kind.
Whether we are husband and wife, friends, relatives, neighbors or strangers, there will always be friction. Being kind at the right time not only helps others, but also helps yourself, and at the same time allows you to gain inner peace.
07Have the courage
Faced with the Eighth Prince's concubine asking her to hold flowers in her mouth and serve as the Prince's target, Qu Xiaotan had concerns, but she still stepped forward without hesitation and acted as the target.
She understood that the Eighth Prince was injured last night because someone suspected that he was an assassin.
In order to prevent the Eighth Prince from being exposed, she had the courage to take on the responsibilities she should bear, thus helping the Eighth Prince avoid the suspicion of the assassin.
Also, because Qu Xiaotan made the Eighth Prince lose his position as Crown Prince, the Queen Mother asked her if she belonged to the First Prince.Qu Xiaotan told the Queen Mother without hesitation that she loved the Eighth Prince deeply, how could she harm him?
When the Queen Mother asked her to leave, she said she was not willing to leave casually.
Be decisive, confront the other party directly, and let the other party feel your attitude.
When it comes to courage, I think people generally have very little courage at first. When facing people who are older, more experienced, and in higher positions than themselves, they don’t dare to talk about it and are trembling with trepidation.
I remember it was said in a book that weak people will one day become strong. Even a butterfly can create huge waves.
So, don’t look down on others, don’t look down on yourself, keep a normal attitude, strive for what should be fought for, refuse what should be refused, and truly live your own life.
08 Summary
Compared to Qu Xiaotan and Qu Xiaotan’s original form, it goes without saying that many people like Qu Xiaotan and hate Qu Xiaotan’s original form.
It's just because Qu Xiaotan lived out his life, while Qu Xiaotan's original self was blindly tolerant and lost himself.
In real life, many people live as Qu Xiaotan's original self, and Qu Xiaotan is just a hope and a dream for many people.
But life is always changing. Whether it is Qu Xiaotan or Qu Xiaotan's original body, as long as you live the life you want to live, it is actually the best.
Because everyone has different situations, different environments, and different ideas, this results in a variety of lives. It is precisely because of this diverse life that we are uniquely you and me. I wish everyone can live out themselves and achieve themselves.
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