You must have heard the idiom "talking on paper". During the Warring States Period, although Zhao Kuo was familiar with military books, he was unable to learn and apply them flexibly. As a result, Zhao was defeated by Qin in the Battle of Changping. Because of this battle, Zhao S

You must have heard the idiom "talking on paper".

Zhao Kuo of during the Warring States Period, although he was familiar with military books, he could not learn and apply them flexibly, so that in the Battle of Changping, Zhao Kuo was defeated by Qin Kingdom . Because of this battle, Zhao State's national power gradually declined, and it was eventually annexed by Qin State.

After careful analysis of Zhao Kuo, he actually has the following five characteristics, And in modern life, there are such people around us. For people over 35 years old, when making friends, you must stay away from such people.

1. Wise words

Zhao Kuo is the son of Warring States famous general Zhao She. Whenever Zhao Kuo discussed military issues with his father, even Zhao She, a general, could not find fault with Zhao Kuo. This at least illustrates one problem: Zhao Kuo's eloquence is still good.

But the problem is that no matter how good eloquence is, he still needs to have some solid information in his stomach, otherwise it will just be rhetoric.

In fact, there are many people like this in life - they can always speak very beautifully. When you first meet him, you will often be attracted by his eloquence, but as time goes by, you will find that he is just empty talk. It has its appearance.

So when you meet this kind of person who is eloquent, you must not be fooled by the other person's eloquence to avoid being deceived.

2. Talking generally

The situation on the battlefield is ever-changing. It is impossible to say that if you master a certain law, you will definitely win the war. But Zhao Kuo was different. No matter what situation on the battlefield, Zhao Kuo could say a few words - this seemed that Zhao Kuo was somewhat "erudite".

In fact, people's time and energy are limited, and it is impossible for people to know everything and be proficient in everything. If you make friends with someone and find that no matter what topic you talk about, the other person can talk and talk about it, then this does not mean that he is strong, but that he is half a bottle of water.

If you are blinded by this kind of "fake erudition", you are likely to suffer losses in the future.

3. Don’t know how to pretend to understand

Zhao Kuo’s biggest problem is not that he doesn’t understand the art of war, but that he doesn’t understand real and specific wars - He clearly doesn’t understand, but he thinks he understands. This is Zhao Kuo’s failure. the root cause.

If you make friends with people who pretend to understand, do you know what terrible consequences it will bring?

For example, a friend plans to start a business with you. The other person talks about the entrepreneurial project in such a colorful and clear way that you mistakenly think that the other person is an elite in the industry. In the end, after you invest all your money, you will lose everything because the other party pretends to understand.

4. Echoing what others say

In the Battle of Changping, Zhao Kuo ignored the actual situation on the battlefield and copied the formations completely from the military manual. In the end, due to changes in the war situation, Zhao Kuo was surrounded by the Qin army and killed with random arrows.

The ancients said: "It is better to have no books than to believe in books."As a thoughtful "person", when facing problems, the most terrifying thing is that he not only has no subjective judgment ability, but also ignores the influence of objective factors. This is called following the crowd and following what others say. People like

are usually just outsiders. If you make friends with them, they may show you their heart and soul at the moment, but when you turn around, they may sell you out.

5. Avoid the truth and turn to the imaginary

To say whether Zhao Kuo has the ability, in fact, he still has it. After all, being able to master various military arts is also a skill. The key is that Zhao Kuo cannot solve the actual problem. When he really encountered difficulties on the battlefield, Zhao Kuo was at his wits' end.

For the same reason, there are people like this in life: When you encounter some small difficulties, he is very willing to help you; but when you encounter some serious and big problems, he will try to prevent himself from falling. To save face, I will "fight Tai Chi " with you, which will ultimately delay your important events.

For people like this who like to avoid real issues, if you entrust important matters to him, it will easily lead to a series of serious consequences.

Conclusion

Whether it is rhetoric, speaking in generalities, pretending to understand, or echoing what others say and avoiding the truth, in general, these characteristics are actually one sentence: seems to be powerful, but in fact has no real ability.

For this kind of person, if you are before the age of 35, you can still make friends with him. After all, everyone is still young and likes to talk and give advice.

However, after the age of 35, there are not so many opportunities for trial and error and bearing the cost. At this time, if you encounter such a flashy person again, you must directly choose to stay away.

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