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In 2016, 45-year-old Yan Xuejing had an unexpected pregnancy.
She held a three-person meeting with her stepdaughter Lin Aoxue and son Lin Aofei.
The theme of the meeting is: "Should this child be born?"
Stepdaughter Lin Aoxue and son Lin Aofei are the children of Yan Xuejing's first husband.
And she is now pregnant with her second husband's child.
Her stepdaughter and son are adults, so Yan Xuejing wants to ask for their opinions.
After she told the news about her pregnancy, both children were stunned.
The whole room was silent, everyone was deep in thought.
Lin Aoxue Yan Xuejing Lin Aofei
After thinking for a moment, Lin Aoxue opened her mouth to break the awkward situation.
She said that her mother's life was too hard, and if she gave birth to this child, she would have to work hard for decades more.
But if Yan Xuejing wants to have a baby, she will respect her mother's opinion.
Son Lin Aofei said: "If you give birth to a girl, she will be my biological sister, and if you give birth to a boy, you will be my biological brother."
Lin Aoxue also expressed her willingness to help her mother raise the child and treat the child as her closest relative.
After hearing what her children said, Yan Xuejing couldn't help but shed tears.
In the decades since she entered the industry, she has endured a lot of hardships and experienced many unknown past events.
She is now over fifty and unexpectedly pregnant, which is both a surprise and a surprise to her.
What is even more surprising is the support and understanding from my stepdaughter and son.
This has a lot to do with her.
Yan Xuejing once won the title of "Top Ten Filial Sons in the Entertainment Industry".
After the divorce, she still insisted on supporting her ex-in-laws and insisted on taking her stepdaughter with her to raise her.
As the saying goes, "Everything thrives when a family is harmonious." The whole big family can live in harmony, which is inseparable from Yan Xuejing's decades of dedication.
1 Unknown early experiences
Yan Xuejing’s background was not good.
grew up in a mountain village in Liaoyuan, Jilin.
worked in the fields with his parents when he was very young.
Every time her father's hand was cut by a crop or his shoulder was crushed by a pole, she felt heartbroken and secretly swore that she would let her parents live a better life.
At the age of 17, Yan Xuejing was admitted to Jilin Drama School and began to learn Erren Zhuan and Pingju Opera .
At that time, there was a female classmate in the dormitory who was like her, and her family conditions were not very good.
In order to take care of her classmates, Yan Xuejing only eats half every time she eats, leaving the remaining half for her.
Kind people have been kind since childhood, and careful people are careful in every aspect.
Yan Xuejing is a kind and careful person.
Another time, my roommate had a fever in the dormitory and could not walk.
Yan Xuejing carried her roommate on her back to the infirmary to see a doctor.
After seeing the doctor, he carried his roommate on his back and climbed the fourth floor back to the dormitory.
With this kindness and enthusiasm, she is very popular wherever she goes.
At school, she is everyone's best friend.
At home, she is a filial son in the hearts of relatives and friends.
Yan Xuejing won the first prize in a duet competition with "Snow Patrol".
The first prize is 90 yuan.
This is the first time Yan Xuejing has received so much money.
She didn't use the money to buy herself clothes, nor was she willing to have a good meal.
After all, this is the first time that I have earned money by performing on my own.
She wanted to make the most of the money.
So Yan Xuejing used all the money to buy socks.
Then distribute the socks to parents, grandparents, grandparents, uncles and other people.
The close elders in the family all received the socks she bought.
This kind of filial piety will never be forgotten by relatives.
Seeing the smiles on the faces of her elders, Yan Xuejing felt the meaning of making money for the first time.
During this period, Lin Yue appeared in her life.
Lin Yue is 10 years older than Yan Xuejing. He is divorced and has a daughter, Lin Aoxue.
When they first met, Yan Xuejing was ready to marry this man.
But parents don’t want their daughters to be stepmothers for others.
After all, Yan Xuejing is so young.
No matter what, women are not allowed to stay in college.
Her parents did not persuade Yan Xuejing, but finally let her get married.
After getting married, Yan Xuejing and her stepdaughter Lin Aoxue became good best friends who talked about everything.
Her eldest stepdaughter is a teenager, and they get along very easily.
In 1993, 21-year-old Yan Xuejing gave birth to her son Lin Aofei.
After her son was born, she gave up Errenzhuan and came to work in the Pingju Opera Troupe. It didn't take long for
to become one of the four famous celebrities in Jilin, and a well-known celebrity in the three eastern provinces.
During this period, Yan Xuejing’s parents-in-law filed for divorce.
As a daughter-in-law, she did not change her attitude because of the relationship between the two old people.
After the divorce, my father-in-law moved outside and my mother-in-law stayed at home.
Yan Xuejing would go to her father-in-law’s house every once in a while to deliver daily necessities.
also specially hired a nanny for her father-in-law to take care of the elderly's food, clothing, housing and transportation.
Mother-in-law will naturally not fall behind.
Every time she goes to perform in other places, she will buy the same gift for her mother and mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law often shows off to her neighbors that her daughter-in-law is more filial than her own daughter.
The filial Yan Xuejing was also appreciated by Zhao Benshan.
At that time, Zhao Benshan was already a regular visitor to the Spring Festival Gala and became popular nationwide. After
became famous, he returned to the Northeast to hold the first "Benshan Cup Duo Competition" and began to discover new talents.
Yan Xuejing signed up for this competition and successfully won the championship, and also won the reputation of "Two Queens".
Because of this competition, Zhao Benshan accepted Yan Xuejing as his apprentice and took her to participate in " Liu Laogen ".
Yan Xuejing plays the role of "Mountain Apricot" in the play.
Many viewers know Yan Xuejing through "Shan Xing".
2Unexpected pregnancy, surprise and joy
In 2001, 29-year-old Yan Xuejing appeared on the Spring Festival Gala stage for the first time, partnering with Pan Changjiang and Huang Xiaojuan to perform the sketch "Captain No. 3".
Since then, Yan Xuejing's career has made steady progress, and her net worth has also risen higher and higher.
It's a pity that when God opens a door for you, he will also close a window for you.
It seems that success in career is often accompanied by failure in love.
In the increasingly busy work, the relationship between Yan Xuejing and Lin Yue came to an end.
The two went through the divorce procedures peacefully.
After the divorce, Yan Xuejing still took care of her stepdaughter Lin Aoxue.
's attitude towards his ex-parents-in-law has not changed at all. How filial he was before, he is still filial now.
In 2006, Yan Xuejing joined the Hai Zheng Art Troupe and moved her work focus to Beijing.
During a dinner party, a coal boss named Ma walked into her sight.
Not long after, Yan Xuejing and Boss Ma obtained the marriage certificate.
settled in Beijing all year round after getting married.
had just established a foothold in Beijing, and Yan Xuejing's father fell ill again.
She immediately took her father to Beijing for treatment and ran back and forth in the hospital alone.
In fact, she has two younger brothers,
but they are just ordinary people and their income is not as high as hers.
In order to make life easier for her younger brothers, Yan Xuejing shouldered her father's medical expenses alone.
Over the years, she has been responsible for her parents' basic necessities, food, clothing, housing and transportation, and has never asked her brothers to share a penny equally.
The husband also supports his wife’s approach and takes great care of his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
How many brothers and sisters have turned against each other because of money, but this will not happen in Yan Xuejing's family.
After her stepdaughter had a family, she was still close to her.
Although her former parents-in-law are divorced, they still treat Yan Xuejing like their own daughter.
The family understands and takes care of each other, and everyone considers problems from the other's perspective.
also benefited from Yan Xuejing’s unknown efforts to unite the whole family closely.
In 2016, her son Lin Aofei made her debut in the TV series "My Mother's Uncle".
In the play, he plays an intellectually impaired supporting character. He doesn't have many roles, but it tests his acting skills.
In order not to embarrass his mother, he studied acting in his room every day.
humbly asked the seniors on the set for their experiences.
But he did not ask his mother. He did not want to rely on his mother's halo for personal gain.
Yan Xuejing also had this intention. She did not visit the crew or ask the director to take care of her son.
When the filming was completed, the director took the initiative and said to her: "Your son is so good!"
After hearing the crew's praise of his son, Yan Xuejing's heart dropped.
In the same year, she was filming on the set of "Falling in Love with Mom".
During the filming process, Yan Xuejing discovered that she was unexpectedly pregnant.
Before this, she had not planned to have a second child. After all, she was no longer young and her children had grown up.
So when she found out she was pregnant, it was a mixture of joy, sadness, surprise and excitement.
Lin Aoxue and Lin Aofei were stunned when they heard the news.
But they still support all their mother's decisions.
The words of her stepdaughter and son made her cry instantly.
Also stunned were actor Sun Tao .
This year, Sun Tao and Yan Xuejing's sketch "True Love Is Forever" was selected by the Spring Festival Gala director team.
But Yan Xuejing said to Sun Tao: "Brother, I'm pregnant."
Sun Tao was completely dumbfounded.
I wonder how old I am and how pregnant I am.
Sun Tao didn't know what to say and was stunned for a long time without speaking.
Then he told the Spring Festival Gala directing team about this.
The entire directing team had the same reaction as him.
Sun Tao asked her when her due date was,
Yan Xuejing said October.
The Spring Festival was very early that year, and it was celebrated in January.
In other words, Yan Xuejing will finish her confinement before December.
But the Spring Festival Gala censorship waits for no one.
If they miss the review, their program will be in danger.
Sun Tao thought that older women would have caesarean sections.
You can also choose a date for caesarean section without delaying the review.
As a result, Yan Xuejing said to him: "Brother, I plan to give birth naturally."
Sun Tao was confused at the time.
There will be a deviation between the normal delivery and the expected delivery date, and it is possible to miss the Spring Festival Gala review.
He told the director team the news.
The director team asked him to change to another actress.
But Sun Tao didn't want to change, and wanted to wait quietly for Yan Xuejing to come out.
will soon receive its first review.
Sun Tao told the director team that Yan Xuejing was not born yet.
The director team asked him to change actors again.
Sun Tao told Yan Xuejing the news and asked her when the baby would be born.
Yan Xuejing: "I don't know when the baby will be born."
Sun Tao didn't say anything and asked her to take good care of the baby.
would call her every once in a while to ask if she was pregnant.
The answer given by Yan Xuejing was "Not yet."
Just when Sun Tao was worried,
Yan Xuejing called: "Brother, I gave birth to a daughter! Just in time for the third review."
After hearing the news, Sun Tao ran up to the sixth floor excitedly to tell the director team.
The entire director team breathed a sigh of relief.
This year, Yan Xuejing has been particularly hard-working.
Just over a month after her child was born, she went on stage to perform.
At this time, Lin Aofei was already 23 years old, and Lin Aoxue was in her 30s.
The older brother and sister who are more than two rounds apart love this little sister very much.
Yan Xuejing has a daughter at an old age, and she is filled with happiness every day.
But no matter how good the brothers and sisters are, they cannot replace maternal love.
Therefore, she brought her daughter to the set every day, trying to ensure that her daughter would not lack maternal love.
3 Taking my daughter-in-law to apprentice with Feng Gong, getting along like best friends
In 2021, 28-year-old Lin Aofei and Xu Mengdi got married.
After the son got married, the family still lived together.
Yan Xuejing gets along very well with her daughter-in-law and often buys her gifts.
Xu Mengdi likes to watch the sea, so Yan Xuejing chartered a yacht.
The whole family took photos on the yacht, talking and laughing very warmly.
Xu Mengdi showed off her long legs, gold bracelets and gold rings, looking very noble.
She also sat on her mother-in-law's lap to take pictures, which shows how close the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is, and they get along like best friends.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law feed each other and go out together.
Yan Xuejing also brought her daughter-in-law to apprentice with Feng Gong, and asked Feng Gong to teach her daughter-in-law skills.
It seems that Xu Mengdi intends to develop in the entertainment industry.
In December 2022, Yan Xuejing posted a long article on the Internet platform to promote " Liu Laogen 5".
Hello friends from Toutiao today, I am actor Yan Xuejing, who plays Shan Xing in "Liu Laogen 5".
The character Shan Xing, in my eyes, is a character who dares to love and hate. She is very persistent, dares to fight, dares to love, and dares to hate. When she likes Zhao San, she dares to love. Even if her family does not agree at the beginning, she still insists on not giving up, and can even give up her current life for Zhao San.
She is also full of power in her career, because Shanxing actually spends most of her time in the big stage office. She knows what she should do at what time and works hard towards her goals. This "sense of power" is something I admire and admire very much.
also hopes that everyone can like the character of Shan Xing, and hopes that everyone can support "Liu Laogen 5" which is broadcast exclusively on Youku.
Embarrassingly, there are many opposing voices in the comment area.
Some netizens expressed that they did not like watching her role as "Shan Xing".
Some netizens even said that they would not watch "Liu Laogen 5" because of her presence.
Based on the comments, we can probably tell that the audience dislikes her for two reasons.
First, she always plays the same tragic role of a woman who endures humiliation and burden.
Second, the acting was too intense and the expressions were too exaggerated.
Let's talk about the matter, Yan Xuejing's role in recent years is indeed relatively single.
This has a lot to do with the age of the actress.
Once you get older, your career path becomes much narrower.
What's more, Yan Xuejing plays more miserable characters, and the acting style is basically finalized, without much possibility of transformation.
Over time, the audience will suffer from aesthetic fatigue.
Another big reason is that she appears too many times on social platforms.
's live broadcasts, sales, etc., all consume her audience popularity.
Zhang Yi once said that an actor is like a book, which cannot withstand prolonged exposure.
The exposure is too high, and this book will be read by the audience soon.
Therefore, he never participates in variety shows, does not live broadcast, and does not bring goods.
He feels that he does not have enough connotation and cannot withstand the consumption and exposure of entertainment programs.
is more worried that the audience will be bored with him.
Zhang Yi’s worries are not unreasonable.
Short video platforms have emerged in recent years, and many established artists have begun live broadcasts to seek rewards from fans.
Yan Xuejing is no exception, and over time the public becomes bored.
So the words "I hate you!" appeared in the comment area. The comment section of
has been destroyed, and the most liked comments are all against her.
has caused this situation, which inevitably makes people feel sad.
was originally an old artist, but ended up with such a polarizing reputation at the age of 50.
But this is life, there is pain and joy.
In the movie "The Grandmaster ", Ip Man said this: "I learned boxing when I was seven years old, and I had never seen a mountain before I was forty. It wasn't until I saw it for the first time that I realized that the most difficult thing to overcome is life."
"The Grandmaster"
Life is not a fairy tale, there is warmth and sadness, there is support and opposition.
But no matter whether the audience supports or opposes it, it cannot hide the fact that Yan Xuejing is kind.
As a pair of parents, Yan Xuejing supported her two elders in their old age.
Yan Xuejing does her best to show concern for her elders.
Yan Xuejing respects her parents-in-law as if they were her biological parents.
To her stepdaughter, Yan Xuejing is both a stepmother and a good best friend who talks about everything.
Yan Xuejing helped his daughter-in-law and took her to apprentice with Feng Gong.
Since ancient times, everyone has said that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with, and it is even harder to get along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who have reorganized their families, but Yan Xuejing handles it with ease.
She honors her former and current parents-in-law as her biological fathers.
The stepdaughter, son, daughter-in-law, and youngest daughter also get along happily under her influence.
It can be said that the whole family can get together in harmony, which is inseparable from Yan Xuejing's contribution.
"Women bear the burden of family responsibility, and women can support half of the sky." This poem is perfectly suitable to describe Yan Xuejing.
