As the heroine's original family, the Sheng family embarked on a prosperous road and became a family full of hairpins, which took three generations of hard work. When Sheng Minglan returned to Youyang's hometown for the first time, the original work also introduced the background

As the original family of the heroine, the Sheng family embarked on a prosperous road and became a family full of hairpins, which took three generations of hard work.

When Sheng Minglan returned to Youyang's hometown for the first time, the original work also introduced the background of the Sheng family's start.

Although the Sheng family's surname was Sheng, it was not prosperous at all, but had some leftovers. It was not until Old Mrs. Sheng seized the opportunity of the change of dynasties to make a fortune, became a few high officials, and followed the line of collusion between government and businessmen that the Sheng family gradually prospered and repaired. The ancestral temple was built, the ancestral hall was built, and a huge mansion was built in his hometown of Youyang. Anyone with a business background likes to take the cultural route. The first thing the old lady did after getting rich was to pay a lot of money to marry a young lady from a declining scholarly official family, and she had three sons.

The eldest son inherited the family business but was lustful and obsessed with a concubine who was a singer. He made a farce of spoiling the concubine and destroying his wife. It is said that the family property was almost wiped out when he died; the second eldest son was the grandfather of Minglan , with grace and grace. The handsome, suave and unrestrained Tan Hua Lang met the fiery daughter of the Hou family, and the couple almost became enemies. He died of a cold before the age of thirty;

Although Tanhualang died young after high school, he entered the officialdom after all, gained some connections, and married the only daughter of Yongyi Hou. Although the couple almost turned against each other, Mrs. Sheng stayed in the Sheng family and devoted herself to raising her bastard son. Sheng Hong, urged Sheng Hong to obtain meritorious service, provided guidance for Sheng Hong, and laid the foundation for the prosperity of the Sheng family.

The second generation is Sheng Hong, the leader of the Sheng family. Although he doted on concubines and killed his wives and did many wrong things, in the original work, Sheng Hong was a pretty good man.

Every time I think of this, Minglan is extremely grateful to Dad Sheng. He never takes credit for success, never speculates, and never squanders his family fortune. He is an honest official and a smooth man, no matter how many other shortcomings he has. , he finally fulfilled the obligations of an ancient man and created a safe and prosperous living environment for his wife, children, and children.

Sheng Hong relied on his own ability to rise step by step, and finally became an official as a second-rank official. In addition, he knew how to educate his sons and was very attentive in their children's marriage. Lord Qingliu did both, and allowed Sheng, who had a weak foundation, to succeed. The family has a strong in-law foundation, which gives the next generation of the Sheng family more help in their careers. Sheng Hong was considered a foundation builder, laying a solid foundation for the prosperity of the Sheng family.

The person who has completely completed this step is Sheng Hong's eldest son Sheng Changbai . This young master has the most perfect personality in the book and is more popular than the male protagonist, Sheng Minglan's brother.

My family belongs to the Youyang Sheng family, which is famous in Jinling. My great-great-grandfather was lucky enough to be a prostitute but died young. My great-grandfather Sheng Honggong had already reached the second rank when he became an official. All three of his sons were Jinshi in the second rank and became officials. Among them, my grandfather Sheng Changbai Gong was a veteran of two dynasties who had been appointed to the famous ministers' pavilion. He had been appointed to the pavilion four times, paid homage to the prime minister three times, served in six ministries and thirteen provinces, and had disciples and former officials all over the world.

As the saying goes, behind a successful man, there is a successful woman, and the Sheng family is no exception. The reason why the Sheng family has become a family full of hairpins has a lot to do with the three generations of daughters-in-law.

took stock of the marriages of three generations of daughters-in-law of the Sheng family, and they all served as a reminder to women.

01. The ruined marriage of Mrs. Sheng, the only daughter of Yongyi Hou, tells us that love cannot be eaten as food, and we need to be cautious in choosing a spouse;

For the Sheng family, Mrs. Sheng is the pinnacle of the sea and the leader of the Sheng family.

If it hadn't been for Mrs. Sheng, after Tanhua Lang died, Sheng Hong would have been unable to keep the second-fang family property at a young age, let alone revitalize the Sheng family. Even the Dafang lineage had to get help from Mrs. Sheng. Preserved.

Without the careful training of Mrs. Sheng, it would be difficult for Sheng Hong, a concubine, to embark on an official career. It would also be difficult for Mr. Wang, the daughter of Mrs. Wang, to be his wife, and he would be able to do so well in the officialdom.

Without the guidance of Mrs. Sheng, Sheng Hong and Wang would have made many mistakes, which would have caused misery to the Sheng family.

As for the growth of Sheng Changbai's generation, it was also thanks to the care and care of Mrs. Sheng. For their marriage, Mrs. Sheng put in a lot of effort and ran many errands.

However, the Sheng family was not very friendly to Mrs. Sheng, and was even the grave of her love.

Old Mrs. Sheng fell in love with the charming and talented Tanhua Lang at first sight, and she did not hesitate to disobey her parents and marry him. What she longed for was a life-long relationship where husband and wife would love each other. However, Tanhua Lang was lustful, immoral, and had a despicable character. I failed Mrs. Sheng. In this marriage made for love, Mrs. Sheng not only lost love, she also lost her son. The husband and wife turned against each other, and she became a joke. How pitiful.

Jane Austen wrote in "Pride and Prejudice": "Women tend to fantasize about things like love that are too unrealistic."

Love cannot be eaten as food, and you need to be cautious when choosing a mate. Five words are not realistic at all. Whether a person has good character or not has no direct relationship with whether he is poor or not.

When it comes to marriage, you must not be willful, otherwise, you will screw yourself up.

02. A noble girl was overwhelmed by a concubine. Wang's marriage tells us that we need to use our brains to manage a marriage;

Although Sheng Hong doted on his concubines and destroyed his wife, he over-promoted Lin Sushuang and neglected Wang. Wang and her children were indeed at fault. However, when Wang first got married, Sheng Hong was still very good to her.

It is mentioned in the original work that Wang's eldest daughter Sheng Hualan was born when her parents were at their best, and she was Sheng Hong's favorite daughter. When Sheng Hong went to work, he was reluctant to leave his babbling daughter and even hugged her. I went to court with my daughter.

When Mrs. Wang first entered the house, she followed Mrs. Sheng's method and sent away all Sheng Hong's former roommates, and Sheng Hong had no objection.

The reason why Lin Sushuang was able to take advantage of the loopholes was largely because Wang didn't know how to manage marriage and ruined her good cards.

"Look at the madam talking angrily again. That day at my uncle's house, the old lady asked several girls around the madam in detail, and then she said to me, madam, you have made three mistakes. I want you to turn around and tell me, "How dare you, today?" This is a repayment. I remember that when my wife first got married, she sent away the two girls who were married to the master without saying a word. The master and the old lady didn't even say a word. In those years, the wife was the only one. Not to mention that the old lady is polite to the madam, the master and the wife are also respectful to each other. The first mistake of the madam is that her life is too smooth, and she can't help but be arrogant. You have to make the final decision in all personnel matters. You always act and speak the same way. You talk about how the Wang family is doing and how the old man and uncle are doing. How can I feel comfortable in my heart? Mother-in-law, I am not a useless man. Who doesn’t say that our husband has a bright future? Madam, you show my face to me again and again, and show your face to me from time to time. How can I be considerate to you and not be unfaithful? "

At the same time, Wang's failure to honor her mother-in-law and fulfill her duty as a daughter-in-law is also a big mistake. If Mrs. Wang had a good relationship with Mrs. Sheng and Mrs. Sheng came forward to send Lin Sushuang away, Sheng Hong would have nothing to do.

Samuel once said this: "The success of a marriage depends on two people, and one person can make it fail."

Women, a good marriage needs to be managed, and you cannot just rely on a man to pamper you and protect you. You can not only make money to support your family, give you a prosperous life, but also take care of the housework, support you and follow you in everything!

In marriage, you also have obligations and things that you need to do. A happy marriage requires both of you to work together to maintain it.

03. Haishi, who easily suppressed Lin Sushuang, told us that if you find the right husband, your marriage will be more than half successful.

Among the three generations of wives in the Sheng family, the one who lives the happiest life is probably Sheng Changbai's wife Haishi.

As soon as she came, she didn't have to be angry with her mother-in-law. Because she was from a high family and married into the Sheng family, it was not easy for Wang to show off to her mother-in-law. Even if she wanted to show off, she would have to win over Old Mrs. Sheng and Mrs. Sheng. Sheng Hong also has his son Sheng Changbai. Secondly, she didn't have to worry about quarrels between wives and concubines. From beginning to end, Sheng Changbai was married to the same wife, and their children were all born to the Hai family.

The reason why Heidegger can live the happiest life is because he married the right person, the best man in the book.

If a mother wants to cause trouble for her wife, Sheng Changbai will give her advice, tell her her mother's weaknesses, help her to block her, and take the initiative to resolve conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; This creature felt disgusted and refused to take a concubine.

If you find the right husband, your marriage will be more than half successful. Firstly, there are no conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and secondly, there is no need to worry about the flowers and plants outside. The remaining other half is that you have to learn to manage your marriage.

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