Text / URANUS.
Editor / Little Love Letter
At a wedding held in Hong Kong in 2009, Zhang Danfeng choked up for a time.
"I am very grateful that Hong Xin and I have a common belief, which has led us into the palace of marriage. Meeting you is my blessing in this life, and I will take care of you for the rest of my life..."
As siblings who are ten years apart Love, the love between Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin is hard-won and full of hard work.
At that time, Zhang Danfeng was still a new actor who had just debuted for a few years, and his life was very tight.
But at that time, Hong Xin had already been working hard in the Hong Kong entertainment industry for several years. She was a famous beauty in Hong Kong at that time, and she also had a son.
In the eyes of others, the two people are not a good match, regardless of age or experience.
But no other factors can stop the arrival of love.
After Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin fell in love, they withstood the pressure of the world and the rumors from the outside world, and proved their love and sincerity to each other over a long period of time.
Now the two have been married for 13 years. In their married life, they support each other, stay with each other, and maintain this hard-won relationship.
let us see from them how powerful the power of love is, making people full of courage and without hesitation.
01
Zhang Danfeng met Hong Xin for the first time in 2004 on the set of the film.
At that time, he was a newcomer who had just debuted for three years, while Hong Xin had already been in the entertainment industry for several years. The difference between the two was not even a little bit different.
The two of them had just joined the cast that day. Because they played a couple in the play, the director arranged for them to get acquainted with each other in advance.
It happened that Hong Xin was in particularly bad condition that day. She had no makeup and looked very haggard, but she still went to see Zhang Danfeng due to the request.
At that time, the two people just said hello briefly without even seeing their faces clearly. Just two simple hello and goodbye made Zhang Danfeng have a very good impression of Hong Xin.
Because he had seen Hong Xin's drama before and liked this actress very much. Her long hair and big eyes suddenly entered Zhang Danfeng's heart.
In the following days of filming, Zhang Danfeng confirmed his feelings. Hong Xin's straightforward personality made him feel very close to him.
But at this time, Hong Xin didn't mean anything else to Zhang Danfeng, he just regarded him as an ordinary friend and colleague.
Until one day Hong Xin was moved by his carefulness.
One time, a group of them wanted to take a taxi to eat together, but after waiting on the roadside for a long time, there was no empty taxi. The impatient Hong Xin couldn't wait any longer, so he ran over wherever he saw an empty taxi.
But he ran back and forth several times without stopping.
When Hong Xin was standing on the roadside to rest, she suddenly realized that she was not exposed to the sun at all. It turned out that Zhang Danfeng had been holding a brown paper bag to block her from the sun.
Wherever Hong Xin ran, Zhang Danfeng followed.
Because Zhang Danfeng remembered that she said that she was very afraid of the sun. If she was exposed to the sun for a long time, she would get freckles.
Although it was just a casual sentence, Zhang Danfeng remembered it firmly in his heart.
Hong Xin looked at Zhang Danfeng, who was running with her and was sweating profusely, and suddenly felt very moved. This was the first time she had a good impression of this man.
After filming, Hong Xin was going to fly back to Hong Kong the next day, so Zhang Danfeng thought of giving her some gifts.
But these gifts are neither flowers nor jewelry, but melatonin , Shanghai specialties and a set of DVDs.
Hong Xin was also very surprised when she received the gift. No boy had ever given her such things, but on the other hand, she thought this boy was very interesting and different from everyone she had met before.
Although Hong Xin returned to Hong Kong, the contact between the two people did not stop.
At that time, Zhang Danfeng used his only money to buy many IP cards and would call Hong Xin every day. One day, Zhang Danfeng finally summoned up the courage to say to Hong Xin: "Can I like you?"
But Hong Xin Xin once experienced a failed relationship. She didn't want to get involved in emotional matters easily, but at this time she had some affection for Zhang Danfeng, so she said: "Whatever you want."
did not get a negative answer. Zhang Danfeng knew that he still had a chance, so he continued to pursue it.
In the end, Hong Xin finally agreed to him, and the two came together.
02
Zhang Danfeng’s conditions at that time were not good. He and his mother lived in a small house in Shanghai, and there was not even air conditioning.
When he learned that Hong Xin was coming, Zhang Danfeng pooled some money to install the air conditioner.
At that time, he was under great pressure, and the gap with his girlfriend made him have to think about what he should do in the future.
The huge pressure made his face covered with sores. During that time, he failed to audition for the film crew. For a while, Zhang Danfeng fell into a vicious cycle.
Although Zhang Danfeng had no money or fame at that time, Hong Xin never disliked him and stayed with him through the trough.
With Hong Xin’s support, Zhang Danfeng gradually became stronger, his career gradually improved, and their relationship became more and more stable.
But if the two of them want to get to the end, there is one person who has to be dealt with by Zhang Danfeng, and that is Hong Xin's son Haofeng.
At that time, Haolian was only 4 years old. He did not particularly reject the introduction of a strange man into his and his mother's lives. Coupled with Zhang Danfeng's meticulous care of Haofeng, the two of them soon became like biological father and son.
Since getting together with Hong Xin, Zhang Danfeng has basically been responsible for taking care of the children, telling him bedtime stories every day.
Although he used the phone to accompany his children, Zhang Danfeng's presence made Hao Lian feel the long-lost father's love and warmth.
Once Hong Xin and her son came to Beijing to see Zhang Danfeng, and Hong Xin went to pick up their luggage at the airport.
Hao Lian couldn't wait any longer. He said as he ran: "Mommy, I won't wait for you anymore. I'm going to find uncle Andy."
Zhang Danfeng's work is basically all in the mainland, and he can only work when he is resting. Fly to Hong Kong to see Hong Xin and his son. But as long as he is in Hong Kong, Hao Lian will always be by Zhang Danfeng's side.
He sends his son to school on time at 6:30 every morning, rain or shine.
Even if he sometimes goes to bed at 3 or 4 in the morning, as long as Haofeng calls Zhang Danfeng, he will jump out of bed as soon as possible and take him to school.
For Hao Lian, Zhang Danfeng's care and companionship made him feel happiness and warmth. In the child's heart, he has already regarded him as his own father.
After several years of love, the relationship between Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin has become stable.
At this time, his career was developing very well. He was able to take good care of Hong Xin and take on the responsibility of a family, so he decided to propose to Hong Xin.
On that day Hong Xin was coming to Shanghai from Hong Kong, Zhang Danfeng thought of giving her a surprise when she got off the plane, so he called his good friend: "Please order 99 roses for me, and I want a heart-shaped one."
Zhang Danfeng was shocked when he picked up the flowers. The 99 roses were not heart-shaped bouquets, but the kind of heart-shaped roses that are placed on wedding cars.
But it was too late to order at this time, so he had to pick up Hong Xin at the airport with 99 heart-shaped flowers. Although
did not achieve the romantic effect he wanted, he still mustered up the courage to propose after returning home.
The two people who had been in love for four years finally entered another stage of life that day.
03
In 2009, two people held a wedding in Hong Kong.
From the beginning of their relationship, although the two people, who are ten years apart, have experienced rumors from the outside world, they have never wavered in each other and have been holding each other's hands tightly until today.
Although there were many quarrels and conflicts after marriage, Zhang Danfeng would take the initiative to apologize to Hong Xin every time, make her happy, and buy her chocolates. The two of them lived a happy life amidst the quarrels.
Although the two already have a son, Hong Xin also wants to have another child for Zhang Danfeng.
When Haofeng knew his parents' plan, he reacted very fiercely and even threatened them with himself. The two of them were in trouble for a while.
However, with the company and education of Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin, Haofeng understood them and understood that having another child does not mean that parents do not love themselves. Parents will always be their parents, and their love for themselves will never change. .
Hong Xin became pregnant not long after, and Zhang Danfeng was more nervous than anyone else when he learned the news.
After finishing the work at hand, he stayed with his wife and took care of her every step of the way.
Zhang Danfeng did not continue filming until three or four months after his daughter was born.
He participated in the whole process of every prenatal check-up. Watching the child grow from the size of a mung bean to a human figure, Zhang Danfeng was so excited that he could not express it in words.
During that time, Zhang Danfeng was Hong Xin's nutritionist supervisor. He did all the daily living and eating by himself, and Hong Xin had to stay away from anything with radiation.
Waiting until the day the child was born, Zhang Danfeng brought a DV, a telephoto camera hung around his neck, and a point-and-shoot camera into the delivery room, for fear of missing any moment.
Zhang Danfeng was stunned when he saw his daughter being born. When he heard the first cry, he finally felt that he was the father of the child and she was my daughter.
In the few months after the child was born, Zhang Danfeng took even more meticulous care of him. He even shed tears when he was reluctant to leave when he was about to go out for filming.
After having her daughter, Hong Xin gradually retired and took care of her two children at home, while Zhang Danfeng took on the responsibility of supporting the family.
At this time, he is no longer the poor boy he used to be. Many TV series such as "Love Has God's Will", "The Three Daughters of the Xia Family", "花千 Bone" and so on have made him a hot actor.
's career is developing very well step by step.
Recently, the suspense web drama "Dark Blade Awakening" starring him was officially launched, which is also highly anticipated.
Today, Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin have been married for 13 years. From being not favored at the beginning to the happy love now, they have always been firm to each other along the way and have never regretted giving up.
When they first got together, the gap between the two made Zhang Danfeng ridiculed and looked down upon by others.
But he used these as motivation to move forward. Now he has become strong and fully capable of taking care of his wife and children.
His attentiveness and gentleness made Hong Xin and her children feel the long-lost warmth, allowing them to rely on this man with confidence.
It is said that a good relationship will make people grow, and this is indeed the case.
The love between Zhang Danfeng and Hong Xin makes each other better and better, and I wish them to move forward hand in hand and be happy and loving in the days to come.
