" Parents' Love " is Jiang Defu's comrade. Compared to the rough and illiterate Jiang Defu, he is a cultural person who knows the words and is a cultural person.
But his life was full of ups and downs, not only did his life not go smoothly, but his career was not going smoothly.
Finally, it was suffocated to death on the toilet due to constipation. TV series also passed by his death.
At the beginning, I just watched the excitement. After three swipes, I realized that the screenwriter arranged for Lao Ding to die of suffocation on the toilet. It turned out to be very meaningful: He has lived a very frustrated life in his life!
01
Lao Ding and Jiang Defu are classmates from senior artillery schools, but Lao Ding is a cultural person who reads books and newspapers all day long; while Jiang Defu is a rough man who doesn’t know a lot of words.
When they were studying at the artillery school, the principal appreciated Jiang Defu, who had no ink in his stomach, so that Jiang Defu later stayed at the school to teach and stayed in big cities.
Of course, Jiang Defu and Lao Ding exchanged later, Lao Ding stayed at school, and Jiang Defu went to the remote and desolate Songshan Island to work.
Lao Ding thought he had picked up a big advantage and was a little embarrassed about Jiang Defu.
How could Jiang Defu get more and more excited when he works on Songshan Island. He is promoted all the way to the commander. If it weren’t for the capitalist Miss An Jie’s origin problem, his future would be limitless.
. Lao Ding, who stayed in a big city to teach, seemed to have not been so smooth. After a few years of work transfer, he still inevitably went to Songshan Island. He was just a chief of staff and became Jiang Defu's subordinate.
In just a few years, the two of them have changed from comrades-in-arms, classmates, and roommates to a superior-level relationship.
What makes Lao Ding unable to let go is that Jiang Defu is not only not as educated as him, but also a rough man, and he has a wife with a bad background in his family.
He has knowledge and culture, knows astronomy and geography. Moreover, he and his wife were both born in a poor countryside, and were born into a working-class and popular family.
Of course, his aggrievance can only be kept in his heart and could not be told.
Some people say that he does not pursue much in his career, but in fact, it is not the case. From his support for Yaning and Meng Tianzhu's marriage, he is a person who has expectations for his career.
How many men in the world do not have a fanatical career aspirations? Lao Ding is no exception!
02
The divorced big boss Jiang Defu found An Jie, a young, beautiful and cultural city girl, after marriage.
Lao Ding, who is also a comrade in his arms and has a little ink in his belly, was ordered by his parents and married a rural woman three years older than him. She was whispering all day long, likes both parents and family, has no mood in life, and has no spiritual communication between the two.
Lao Ding looked at Jiang Defu holding the beauty home, and he was so envious that he didn't want it.
Jiang Defu's newlyweds treats to dinner. Lao Ding saw that his house was spotless and raised a few pots of flowers. Even if he cooked, it was not only delicious, but also exquisite, and he couldn't bear to put down his chopsticks.
Looking back at his wife Wang Xiu'e, the family's hygiene is not as good as others, and the lifestyle is not at all. Every day, I just wear an apron and circle the pot, speak loudly and blurt out my mouth, which is simply stale.
The key point is that An Jie has a job. Women with careers are not only proud and refreshed, but also have different opinions on people and things. Their world is not a world like home, but also a career pursued.
But Wang Xiu'e has given birth to three children for him. Even if the kind-hearted Lao Ding is not satisfied, he will not divorce.
Divorce in that era, Lao Ding was an officer, the diamond king and the fifth one, but it was different for Wang Xiu'e. She had no choice but to go home to continue farming and maintain her life.
From this point of view, Lao Ding is still very kind.
people are so popular that they are so angry. Lao Ding is not comparable to Jiang Defu, and his wife and children are still very happy.
After all, everyone has their own destiny. If you let go of your mind and cherish what you have, you won’t feel frustrated.
03
Lao Ding's career is not going well, and his marriage life is not going well.
Wang Xiu'e died of labor when she was born in four ways.
Lao Ding has parents in his 80s to support him and four sons to raise him. The burden of life is under great pressure.
can finally do the major marriage matters. He decided to find someone with knowledge and culture like Jiang Defu, who can be harmonious with him and appreciate each other.
After being transferred to Songshan Island, he immediately targeted Teacher Ge, a fisherman's daughter, who is not only beautiful, educated, and has never been married.
The two people agreed to a marriage agreement, and they were all happy. Who knew that the leader did not approve the marriage report because Teacher Ge was not well-established.
Jiang Defu advised him to work harder. Lao Ding thought that he had his elders and subordinates had little pressure. How could he have the determination to win a beautiful woman even if he took off his military uniform?
Jiang Defu can marry the capitalist lady, but he, Lao Ding, cannot marry the fisherman's daughter. Do you think it's annoying?
The key point is not to criticize his marriage report and say that Mr. Ge’s leader, Wang Zhengxiong, was impatient to marry Mr. Ge after his wife passed away and his body was not cold!
Lao Ding’s marriage report was not approved at the time. Whether there is any tricky thing is really worth pondering.
Later, Lao Ding wanted to marry Wu Daisuke, but who knew that he was a shrew of bad quality. Before he got married, he scratched Lao Ding's face and pushed down Lao Ding's son!
Thinking about the housework inside and outside, the four things need to be taken care of, Lao Ding had to settle for the second best and married Dehua, who was hardworking and capable and loved him for a long time.
Lao Ding chose and finally married a rural woman who was neither educated nor young and beautiful.
04
If Lao Ding didn’t have this comrade Jiang Defu around him, Lao Ding might not feel frustrated, and there would be no harm without comparison!
Although he was well taken care of by his two wives Wang Xiu'e and Dehua in life, he would sit on a chair and read newspapers when he came home from get off work, and live a life of clothes and food.
But Lao Ding is knowledgeable and cultured. His two wives can only take care of his daily life, but cannot communicate with him at the spiritual level.
Compared with Jiang Defu in his career, he was still standing still and stagnant. In his spiritual life, he was more than a little tired than Jiang Defu.
Deep in Lao Ding's heart, his life was a frustrating life. In the end, he died of constipation on the toilet, which is a pity. It has to be said that the screenwriter arranged it ingeniously, which implies the ups and downs of his life!
