Love, its most original intention is to let each other experience the happiness brought by the secretion of dopamine, and this is the most important basis for a relationship.
However, some people don’t feel this way when they are together. All people say that they are inappropriate, and even they themselves have such thoughts. However, they always firmly believe that two people can only run in together. , To be able to determine the final suitability.
So, in such an atmosphere, they began to torture each other for a long time. At the beginning, they decided to run in inappropriate places, but the gaps became larger and larger, and in the end, only the mind was left haggard.
There is a sign that two people are right, and couples who have these four feelings should not be together, because you are not the right person.
1. There is no desire to chat between you
"Hello" is an opening sentence that everyone knows. Therefore, no matter what kind of interpersonal relationship, language will play a role in communication. Bridge function.
Two people who love each other will have nothing to say when they are together. It may be a trivial matter. It may be just a strawberry with a different shape. But these trivial things are interesting things in your eyes and can make you Speaking all day.
However, there are less than a thousand cups of wine every confidant, and there is no speculative words. When two people no longer have the feeling of falling in love, you will feel that whatever you do is a very boring thing, because you I didn't like each other.
Baby Annie said: "Loving someone is not a simple thing because the depth of the feelings is not enough."
Therefore, all feelings must start from sharing, and losing the desire to share also means The end.
2. Your body will repel each other and approach each other
Two people who like each other,In fact, there is a "physical reaction", for example, you will unconsciously approach the other party, for example, if the other party is not with you, you will miss you like a wave.
A person's language may not let you see what he (she) thinks, but a person's body language will tell you the truest answer.
Because that is his (her) subconscious reaction. Like or dislike, it can be understood through body language. If you like you, you will be close to you. If you don’t like you, you will reject you. Body language is what everyone should do. A truth to grasp.
So, when your bodies instinctively repel each other's proximity, then it shows that you are not suitable.
3. No matter what you do, one side is always accommodating to the other
Liu Wenqin and An Ran in the TV series "The Sky of the Wind Dog" are not equal, the former is a teenager from a poor family. The latter is a little princess with a wealthy family. The gap between them cannot be filled by feelings. Therefore, even if they are in love, they are destined to be unable to be together.
When they first dated, An Ran chose a restaurant with a relatively low consumption level in order to take care of Liu Wenqin, but even so, it still spent a long time on Liu Wenqin's pocket money.
The gap between them is too large. If they continue to get along, it will only be that one side accommodates the other. If things go on like this, the accommodating party will feel tired, and the accommodating party will feel pressure multiplied.
Charlotte Bronte said in "Jane Eyre": "Love is a game. We must always be equal to each other and be evenly matched to each other in order to be dependent on each other forever. Because of the past. Strong opponents are boring, and weak opponents are boring."
And such a love that cannot be evenly matched, even if it goes to the end, it ends in tragedy.
4. You are together without any happy experience
What is a really suitable relationship?
The premise must be simple and clean,It doesn’t feel sticky or sticky. Two people have their own things to do. One likes to be quiet and the other likes to be alone. Two people don’t force each other to change themselves. It’s each other. Will respect each other's life and leave room for love.
means that one person likes to go shopping and the other person likes to stay at home, so the two people are busy with each other, even if the two people have different hobbies and lifestyles, they will still respect the differences.
A good relationship is like a teacher. It can provide you with a comfortable atmosphere, and it can also allow you to continuously grow in this relationship and become a better self.
If you are together, there is only convergence, only constant control and disrespect, only repression, and no happy experience, then this relationship must be inappropriate.
If you see the best side of a person, then at this time, please don't rush to fall in love, because beauty and advantages do not constitute the whole of a person.
And when you see the other's imperfections, see the other's shortcomings and many bad tempers, you can still maintain the original attitude, then the feelings at this time can be called love.
Therefore, the relationship is more important than liking
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