"Falling leaves know the autumn, but it is hard to know the people": Returning from adversity, I finally understand the three truths of life

Author: Nanshan Uncle

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said:. "Zhiqiu leaves, distressed Appreciating" yes ah, a person only experienced disappointments in life, especially when Only when I was in despair, or even in a difficult situation, did I truly understand the taste of the cold and warm world. Perhaps, in adversity, we will encounter economic difficulties, perhaps, in adversity, we will suffer spiritual suffering. However, as long as we don't give up on ourselves, when we restart from adversity and return smoothly, we will finally understand the three truths of life.

Truth 1: The poor are in the downtown area and no one asks them, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains.

When a person is in despair, especially when a person is in a difficult situation, it is easier to realize the difference between rich and poor. Yes, when we are in a high position and wealth is there, there is always no shortage of people around us. These people like to follow us to eat, drink and have fun, and then try to get some benefits from us. And once we fall into adversity, these people will become "birds and beasts scattered" and run away. When we cannot find anyone who is willing to help us in adversity, when we prepare for the hardships of life in adversity, we will be more thoroughly human. And the kind of "poor in the downtown area no one asks, rich in the mountains has distant relatives" is the first truth in life that we deeply understand after returning from adversity.

Truth 2: The husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and the disaster is approaching.

People often sigh: "Poor and lowly couples are sad." Yes, when a family falls into poverty, the couple often quarrel over trivial things. Once one of the spouses is in a certain predicament, especially when one of the spouses is in a difficult situation, the relationship between husband and wife will be greatly tested. Some couples will have a great marital crisis, and in the end, they have to part ways. And this also verifies the old saying: "The husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and the disaster is about to fly." There are many such examples around us, and those who are in them will have a deeper understanding of the truth of life after they have withstood the test of these life adversities and the pain of the dissolution of marriage.

Truth 3: Human affection is like a thin sheet of paper, and the world is like a new chess game.

When a person is in trouble, many people tend to panic. They will look for life-saving straw for their own survival problems. In the process of asking for help, many people will refuse to ask for help, even mocking and avoiding because of the psychology of seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages. When a person suffers a lot of blindness in adversity, when a person suffers the humiliation of others in adversity, he will understand more deeply: in adversity, only by working hard to change the status quo can one return to belonging Come in his normal life. Therefore, clenching your teeth and insisting on moving forward is the best choice for people in adversity. And when we realize the return of our own king, we will have a more profound experience of the truth of life "human feelings are like thin sheets of paper, and the world is like a new chess game."

Friends, "Falling leaves knows autumn, but falling is hard to know people". Have you ever experienced the difficulties of life? When you were in trouble, did you realize these three truths of life? Welcome everyone to leave a message and discuss in the comment area.

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