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A friend said that he had a dream at night and he dreamed of a girl he had never dreamed of.
That girl, she loved her for three years when her friend had nothing. She was also a girl who tried her best to marry at the beginning. Although she separated later, she left too many beautiful and warm memories.
Nearly ten years have passed, and the two have not contacted or seen each other again.
When we broke up, my friend almost lost his life, but the days went forward. From accepting the fact of the breakup to letting go, I started my new life.
My friend is very sure, after he had a new life, he even forgot the girl, forgot the girl’s looks, forgot the girl’s voice, and he never affected him because of that girl Life and mentality, so friends feel that they have already forgotten.
However, I never imagined that I can still dream about it in the past ten years. There are three things worth mentioning about this dream, and all I want to express are in these three things.
1. My friend thought that she had forgotten everything about her, but in the dream, her appearance and voice were still so clear. The truth was so clear that he couldn't believe it and couldn't tell whether it was a dream or reality.
If he really forgot, how could he make everything about that girl so clear in his dream.
2. I thought I didn't have any feelings or feelings for that girl, but after waking up, the joy and excitement beyond my control was so strong. Even though I tried very hard to restrain my feelings, I found that I couldn't control it at all, the joy that came from my heart.
It seems that two people have actually met, the kind of excitement and joy after meeting with the lover of their heart.
3. Originally why things passed,He doesn’t remember the old and has no expectations, but after waking up from the dream, he regrets himself and complains about the people or things that wake him up, because if he can sleep for a while, he can be with the girl in the dream. Stay a while longer.
After my friend woke up, he thought about all kinds of things in a serious and rational way. It was the kind that faced his own heart, and he realized that he had deceived himself all the time.
only knew that the person who really loved will never be forgotten!
It’s just that he has been busy with life these years, and the burden on his shoulders is too heavy. I can’t help but he has sensibility and the opportunity to face his heart. When he really puts everything down for a while, think of the girl again, and suddenly poke his heart The softest place seems to be yesterday.
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Mu Xin once said: "I met a lover from the past, and the scenery on the road has changed."
Maybe the person who really loved is a mark on the soul , Even if there is no previous love, but the former love has been retained and stored in the bottom of my heart, never changed.
In the spiritual world, there will always be a position unique to TA, no one can replace it, and no one can eliminate it.
Unless you have cramps, skin and bones, or you will always be hidden deep in your memory, deep in your heart, no matter how much time you have to remember, TA is there.
The influence of some people on your life is very long and long, but you have not noticed it yourself.
In Yuan Zhen's "Five Poems of Li Si", there is a very beautiful and profoundly meaningful verse: "Once the sea was troubled, but Wushan is not a cloud."
If every love, every Feelings are colored, so in our emotional experience, all the people who have loved will leave their corresponding colors without conflict. Later, there is no relationship that can be repeated. If you miss the red, there will be no one. Can bring you the feeling of red.
In fact, you know very well that even if you still fall in love with someone, you know in your heart that TA is not TA after all.
The later is the later, the previous is the previous. In a sense, this does not conflict, but people always have a special nostalgia and sustenance for the past.
The unforgettable is the best, especially when we have experienced real life, the original purity and simplicity will be even more missed.
I have loved vigorously, because when I fell in love at the beginning, I gave my best to it, without any color for profit. Later, some people just found a life partner, while some people directly lost the ability to love, as if they had used up all their love.
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It only takes a moment to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
In fact, whether you can't forget it or miss it, none of these can bring you painful feelings. Your pain only comes from your obsession, and that special and must-fulfill desire.
It’s normal to love and not to be true. The lover does not necessarily have an ending, but it must be meaningful, so you don’t have to go to the horns and force yourself to let go. The more you do this, the deeper the memory. After all, true forgetting is not needed Working hard, of course, the forgetting here just makes you relieved.
Accept what has happened in the past and treat it as a special experience and an unforgettable memory in the absence of power to change.
After all, everything has happened and exists in your memory. Unless you lose your memory, how can you forget it? I mainly want to say that even if you are not reconciled to the past feelings, you should treat them with the correct attitude. .
What is feeling? The process is not determined by the results.
In fact, the process is far more important than the result.And it is meaningful. As long as when two people fall in love, no one has failed the other, and it is indeed practical to do their best. Regardless of whether there is a result in the end, at least once loved, given, happy, happy, that's enough .
Not all love has a result, no result is not necessarily a bad result, it stays in the heart longer and will never deteriorate.
Maybe this pair of purest love is the best explanation or result, because the relationship comes to the end, it is inevitable to face the real life, no one can guarantee that it will let you down, love, don’t ask The ending, love, is a lifetime, learn to bless silently!
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