Love uncle introduction:
In real life, there are many people who have unfortunate marriages, but they just don’t want to divorce. Some people are willing to compromise and seek perfection in marriage. In fact, most people who feel wronged and seek perfection are because they have no choice and the right to choose is not in their own hands. Then you will become particularly passive.
Many decisions do not actually depend on our ideas, but on our ability. Ability is the most important point. Whether it is a man or a woman, you must have this condition before divorce, otherwise you cannot divorce. Because after your divorce, there is no way to live a better life than now. Strong1strong does not have this condition. Marriage or parting!
Ability is the decisive factor of marriage
Let’s not just because of a moment Make the divorce decision impulsively, and don’t make a rash decision because of the accumulation of emotions, because you have to know that marriage is a major event in life, and divorce is also a major event in life. What determines your happiness is not. It is simply marriage, and your ability and your qualifications are the decisive factors of marriage.
If you want to divorce, especially if you want to live better after divorce than when you were married, then you must have a certain ability. This ability is your courage to divorce, so no matter what choice you make You all need ability and economy to support you in making such a decision, so what you have to do is to constantly become a better self and continue to learn, to absorb everything that can make you better.
Only those who have the ability have more choices
Whether it is a man or a woman, the incapable person will become very passive. The incompetent person in the marriage is the weaker party. Because capable people may suppress you, bully you, and you will become particularly passive. You have no way to change your life state, you have no way not to cater to others,Because you are not capable, because you need to rely on others, so if you are not capable, you should work hard in silence.
People only have the ability to have more choices . The same is true for divorce. You have the right to choose when you have the ability. If you feel that your marriage is not happy, you want to leave your current partner, but you have to think about whether you can live a better life on your own. Whether it is materially or mentally, you have to be better than you are now, then the decision you make is the best.
Those who are incapable can only wrong themselves.
Many people are actually very passive when making choices. In fact, they don't want to choose in their hearts, nor are they able to forgive each other's betrayal and other shortcomings, but they have no choice, so they can only compromise.
People who are incapable can only wrong themselves, and the same is true in marriage. If you have no expectations of marriage, if you feel that marriage gives you a disappointing and uncomfortable feeling, then divorce is the best choice. But you may not be able to make this choice decisively. In many cases, the determining factor of this choice is not your own feelings, but your own abilities.
Even if you are divorced, if you are incapable, then you still cannot live a good life. You will become depressed because of all kinds of life, so no matter whether the marriage is happy or not, you must improve your abilities. This is the focus of life and the key to growth.
My uncle's conclusion:
The greatest sorrow in middle age is not divorce, but fear of divorce! Don't divorce casually if you are not capable, because your casual divorce may make you irresistible. But if you are determined to end a relationship,Then before or after you make up your mind, you must work hard to improve your abilities and make yourself stronger. Only when your efforts are worthy of your ambition, you have the most choice.
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