配图|The movie "I Love You"
life is one cycle after another, but when you are old, you gradually realize that you are the person who is about to be replaced.
There will be a steady stream of new students, but it has nothing to do with you.
What we crave is not the length of life, but the beauty of this world from the bottom of our hearts. In many cases, the greatest pain of old age is not that nobody cares about, but the gradual disconnection from the world behind this nobody cares. When
finds that everything has nothing to do with him, he is the most boring and panic. Therefore, we often say "raising children to guard against old age". We are afraid of being alone when we are old, but what we are actually afraid of is the feeling that we clearly exist but are forgotten by the world.
Life is a process, and each age group can have a unique way of living. If you live happily and closely connected with the world, you will not be close to you if you are alone and hesitant.
There must be busy things in life.
In the movie "I Love You", Kim Manseok is a tough old man. He was widowed in his early years and lived with his son's family.
His granddaughter has grown up and has a decent job in an institution.
His son's family treats him well, and this old grandfather is not short of money. Originally, at his age, most elderly people at believed that they had been busy all their lives and should enjoy the rest of their lives.
But this old man is full of energy. He has his own job, which is to deliver milk everywhere early in the morning on the tram. Throughout the year, a little wind and some snowflakes are not an obstacle to his work.
looked hard, but because of this, he has his own social circle, his own small world, and has his own busy things, lives a happy life.
Being busy in life is actually a blessing thing. People need a sense of value, and they hope that they are useful to others.
However, when many people get older, their social circle becomes smaller. If they want to realize their sense of worth, they can only operate on their children. Therefore, some elderly people like to intervene in the marriage and housework of their children and give advice on the education of their children and grandchildren. They have been busy for a long time, but they run into walls everywhere, and they often mess up the family relationship.
After satisfying the basic physical needs, what people need most is their spiritual identity and sense of value, which means that they feel that they are useful and helpful to others.
However, if there is no social circle as the background, this sense of value cannot be obtained. Therefore, some elderly people become anxious and unhappy after they retire. It is not a natural "work hard", but they suddenly feel that they have lost their sense of value.
people are getting old, it is a happy thing to be busy with things, because no matter what age, our hearts are longing for fulfillment.
When you have someone you can love, vitality and youth will not leave you.
"Intimacy" says: "Love is the strongest emotion among human emotions. We are willing to be blind for love, swallowed by love, from a childish teenager. In the twilight old age, everyone yearns for the feeling of heartbeat when they meet the true love of their lives."
is like Su Daqiang in the TV series " is very good ", when he is very old, he suddenly falls in love with someone. Later, the big boy in his heart ran out immediately. The same is true for Kim Manseok in the
movie. He falls in love with a shabby old grandma who collects scraps. This old grandma didn't match him very well, but the two people often met, and they were inexplicably emotional. The old lady
didn't have a name before she met Jin Wanshi. She was only called the Song family, and she didn't know the big characters.
The Song family comes from the countryside. When he was young, he followed love to the city, but love abandoned her and life was struggling again. Therefore, she spent many years alone.
Kim Manseok likes the Song family and gave her the name Song Yifen.
For Kim Manseok, love is a very precious emotion that cannot be easily said. Moreover, deep in his heart, this word belongs to his dead wife.
This man was so careless when he was young, he didn’t know how to hurtIt was a pity for his wife that he didn't realize that his tenderness had come too late until his wife got sick and his life was fading away at a visible speed. When
met Song Yifen when he was old, he was still arrogant, and his mouth was too hard to keep good words. But fortunately, Song Yifen understands him, she understands the beauty and softness of his heart. Although
met very late, but every day is worth it.
Jin Manseok became young when he fell in love. He knocked on the girl's window with stones like a little boy, prepared a birthday surprise for her, and showed off with the gifts she gave him.
Love can indeed make people young and beautiful.
Jin Manseok and Song Yifen watched the death of a friend next to them due to old age and illness. That experience made Song Yifen an important decision.
She decided to go back to the country because she thought she could not accept the death of Jin Manseok. Life passes year after year. At a certain age, one goes first and the other stays later. Her love comes too late and she doesn't want to see this beautiful disillusionment with her own eyes.
Therefore, she will return to her hometown with this feeling, so that she will never lose.
Kim Manseok was annoyed at first, but finally understood her feelings and sent her back personally. The first hug before the two people parted, also planted each other's emotions and beauty in their hearts.
Love is beautiful. It is not only young people who can fall in love. People of every age have a heart that can be nourished by love. When
is old, he can still meet people who make him willing to spend time and energy.
People who have friends have a rich life
Jin Wanshi made a friend Zhang Fengjun in his later years. Speaking of it, he initially regarded this friend as a rival, but after coming and going, he and this friend helped each other And fulfillment.
people understand the world comprehensively through others. Everyone at is like a pair of eyes in this world. Through him, you can see everything you have never seen before.
Friends are not people who spend time and drink with you when you are young, but people who can understand and ask each other when you are old. Because sometimes, only people of your age and similar experience can understand your inner world and get closer to empathy.
Jin Manseok knows Zhang Fengjun, because they are the same age, because they have children.
Therefore, when Zhang Fengjun finally chose to accompany his wife to leave, he asked Jin Manseok to help him conceal the true reason for their departure from his children. Although Jin Manseok had tears in his eyes, he said he was stupid, but he still succeeded. Last wish.
We live our own lives and at the same time, we also look at the lives of others. The good and bad lives are in their own hearts, because everyone cherishes different things, and the world they hold in their hearts is different.
Maybe many times, you do not agree with other people's actions, but you can understand that at this time, you actually have greater compassion and fulfillment in your heart.
After all, what people want is different.
is written at the end:
people are getting old, and they have to live a good life.
Life is your own, live in your own feelings, not in the eyes of others. No one really cares about you, except yourself, so taking care of your inner touch is the greatest compassion for yourself.
People are old, there are things to be busy, someone is worth cherishing, and having friends to chat is enough to have the pride of life.
people come to this event only when they are satisfied with their lives, loyal to their heart, whether it is young, vigorous and powerful, or old full of stories.
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