My name is Chen Yizhe. This year is the 3rd year since my mother passed away and the 3rd year of my divorce! It is worth celebrating that my deposit finally crossed the million mark today!
I am a native "Hainan cub", because my grandfather is German, so I have a little bit of mixed-race genes, and my father is from the north, so I am the most honest and tallest one in our village.
In 2004, I was admitted to a prestigious 211 school in Beijing, where I met my ex-wife Jiajia.
Her ex-wife is a Nanjing girl. Her family has been in business for generations. She is fair-skinned and beautiful. She is the goddess in the hearts of many boys. She didn't know the blessings she had cultivated in her lifetime, but she took the initiative to pursue me. It is said that "women chase men, separate layers of yarn", we quickly confirmed the relationship between men and women.
Jiajia is a "living idiot". She often needs me to take care of her like a child. She is very dependent on me, and I am overwhelmed by love. I enjoy the feeling of being needed very much.
We have been together in college for 4 years, we are inseparable, her family conditions are better than mine, so most of the expenses after we are together will be borne by her, but fortunately she does not care. At that time, I secretly made up my mind that in the future I must take care of her and love her in every possible way.
came as soon as I graduated. I successfully got an offer from Huawei, but Jiajia never found a suitable job (I am a computer major, she is a business English major). After more than two months of unsuccessful job hunting in Beijing, Jiajia began to convince me to go back to Nanjing with her, and it was based on the premise of marriage. It couldn't reach Jiajia's soft grinding and hard foam, so he pushed Huawei away in confusion.
The first time we met, Jiajia's parents obviously didn't like me. Her mother asked me about my future plans. When she learned that I was going to Nanjing with Jiajia, she immediately sneered and said: Jiajia's father and I had nothing when we were young, but we never thought of taking shortcuts, and we have always adhered to our down-to-earth approach. Faith, only step by step to today! Then he turned to Jiajia's father: Compared with our time, the young people today are really not good. They don't have the spirit to bear hardships and stand hard work. , without saying anything to refute it. First, I was shocked by Jiajia's family conditions, and I wasn't sure whether I could give her the life she wanted in the future. Second, I knew that I was not the kind of person her parents thought I was. I would use practical actions to prove it to them. So I choose to be silent.
After dinner, Jiajia's father called me to their study while taking advantage of his daughter's bath, and let me experience a bloody plot that happened in a TV series: How much does it cost to leave my daughter? While his self-esteem was severely hit, he had to laugh and swear to him: If you give me 3 years, I will prove to you that I am not the kind of person you imagined!
In the next period of time, Allison has changed.
She didn't mention the job search, but asked some middle and high school classmates to meet in various names all day long.Her father bought her a car and went shopping with her. Her consumption outlook also surprised me. She said that in the past, she had to be frugal because she wanted to "raise" me. Now that she is back with her parents, she has a lot of money to spend, and she doesn't need to save anymore. Moreover, she bluntly said that she likes to spend a lot of money A life of money. Not only that, she learned to smoke, and went clubbing until the end of the night... And I, the rural bunker who had never seen the world, was quickly "corrupted" by her and stopped thinking about work. Anyway, Jiajia has Money, I became the most shameless kind of person myself.
And my relationship with Jiajia has gradually changed. She began to take care of her parents and treated me with cynicism, comparing me with her and his other little sisters' wealthy and wealthy boyfriends. In short, there were more and more quarrels, and there was no love and tolerance in the past. At the end of
09, I proposed to Jia Jia for the first time. Although I knew that her parents did not approve of my marriage with them, I still wanted to give it a try. Sure enough, she has no plans to get married yet.
htmlAt the beginning of 010, my mother had advanced uremia and needed long-term hemodialysis. I asked Jiajia to visit my mother at my home, but Jiajia refused to come back with me on the grounds of traveling with her best friend.Going back to the place where I was born and raised, and looking at the white hair on my mother's sideburns, I felt that I was really not a human being. My father died of illness after being imprisoned for corruption when I was in elementary school. At the time, the law recovered the stolen money, and at least everything in the family was towed away by the court... My mother worked hard and sold fish to send me to university, but I couldn't support myself. ...
I spent some time with my mother at home, which made me make two determinations. First: find a job! Second: marry Jiajia!
After returning to Nanjing from Hainan, I stumbled upon a new mobile phone in a coat of Jiajia, and then the mysterious general Jiajia unlocked the password on his birthday.Then, I saw all kinds of indecent photos and flirtatious chats... Putting the phone back, I started planning to propose to Jia Jia again.
Having the first failure experience, I checked several versions of the proposal strategy online, rented a movie theater, and hired a professional team. Finally, Jiajia agreed to my proposal in full view (group performance).
Ke Jiajia agreed to the marriage proposal, but it still didn't go well. First there was a huge betrothal gift, then a banquet for both parties, and buying a house in Nanjing, buying a car, and buying jewelry for Jiajia... In short, I sold an ancestral house in Hainan and carried Jiajia's credit loan, and finally satisfied All Jia Jia conditions. Meanwhile, I finally found a regular job at a small company. At the beginning of
13, the ninth year after we fell in love with Jia Jia, we held a wedding. Her parents still didn't like me, but in the end they respected their daughter's choice. I also started working in her parents' company, learning to do business.
The life after marriage is not as warm as I imagined. Jiajia often stays up all night, and does not answer her phone or WeChat. When I ask a little, she is anxious: everything you have now is given by our family...
Again and again During the quarrel, I can't tell whether I still love her or not. When I went back to see my seriously ill mother, even if I begged her, she would not go back with me. When my mother was dying, she urged us to have a child. At that time, I naively thought that everything would be different if I had a child.
html In 014, our daughter, the little meniscus, was born. As my mother said, Jiajia has changed. She quit smoking and stopped clubbing.I thought that a happy life should be like that, but I didn't expect... html At the end of 2017, the 3-year-old smiling crescent moon always mentioned "real dad" in front of me, and I "seduced" her step by step to learn that when I was going to work, Jiajia often I took her to the "real dad" and said that I was just a "fake dad"... and learned that everything was like a bolt from the blue, so I secretly cut a few hairs of a small crescent moon and sent it for a paternity test.Three days later, I got drunk with the results of the paternity test. On the way back, I was injured and my little toe was permanently disabled...
questioned Jiajia and turned into "domestic violence" (just slapped her in the face). After alarming the police Jiajia complained to the police about domestic violence with her nose and tears, and her father-in-law and mother-in-law also helped me... Just like that, on January 7, 2018, I went out of the house and left Nanjing. In early April of the same year, my mother passed away.
After sinking for a while, I joined a high school classmate and went to Yunnan to start flower farming. Started as an apprentice, soaked in the experimental base, and sometimes only had one meal a day. I followed the example of others and contracted the nursery, and I lost all of my money twice, but I still haven't thought about giving up. Finally, the emperor paid off and paid off all foreign debts in 19 years. As of today, my savings can finally give me a stable life.
Over the years, my mentality has also changed. Sometimes, people are not as good as a plant! The only thing I can't worry about is the little crescent moon who called me "Dad" for three years. Although it's not my own, I still miss her very much...
(The story was dictated to me by an aunt who danced with my mother, the time line is a bit long, the narrative It's a bit messy, and it's been integrated for a long time. I don't want to express any cynical views, I just want to say "life is alive, do it and cherish it")
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