Now there is a kind of online beggar in society, especially women, who are not very familiar with men, so they ask men for red envelopes and make them feel distressed. I felt a loss when I gave it, but I felt embarrassed if I didn't give it. I was afraid that the other party would blame myself. In the end, most men suffered from this dumb loss.
This is a very wrong approach, because if you give it to the other party, it will only make the other party think that you are a good fool, and will not have any respect for you. On the contrary, if you reply to her like this, you will never suffer!
1. I only give red envelopes to my girlfriend
Now since you are not boyfriends and girlfriends, then you are not obligated to give money to each other. At this time, you can boldly express your attitude. I will only give red envelopes to my girlfriend, and the other party will feel that It's embarrassing, and your sentence is generally joking. Many women will be scorned by you at this time.
Most women would be embarrassed to choose not, and you don’t need to say anything. If the other party says you can be your girlfriend, you won’t lose a red envelope for another girlfriend. After all, the most red envelopes are only 200 yuan. If the other party asks for it later, you can also ask for it in the name of your boyfriend, that is, never be taken advantage of and give it all by yourself.
2. No, I want to save money to marry a wife
. You don’t need to jokingly say this sentence, but righteous and righteous. Because you stand on the moral high ground, most people regardless of men Women will think that you are a good and responsible man
and even women who ask for red envelopes will think that although you do this, the woman who marries you will be very happy and she will also have a good impression of you.
3. Sending a red envelope expression
Since she is embarrassed to ask you for a red envelope, then naturally you should not be too embarrassed, and send it the WeChat red envelope expression directly, which you have taken in a joke. Most of the women who know the truth will not ask for it anymore. If a woman says you are stingy, you can also say that the red envelope is not for you. Did I understand it wrong? There are really women who say directly, there is no money in there, so this kind of person is completely cheeky, even if you are with you, it is very disgusting, so don't get used to it, just say, why should I give you money?
Conclusion: It is not good for a woman to ask a man for a red envelope. Even if the relationship between you is a bit ambiguous, it is very bad to do so. Of course, some women are joking or impulsive, you don't have to be stunned, but use jokes or other reasons to ignore the problem.
really has the kind of hard-faced people who ask you for money, don't be a fool, don't even think about being a friend, just tell you why you should give you money, and then blackmail it.