Moments of friends, as a current social channel, actually gives us more opportunities to share our life with friends around us, thus making the circle more colorful.
When the Moments of Friends first emerged a few years ago, most people rushed to "check in" in Moments every day, thinking that Moments was their "must-swipe" holy place.
Before getting up every morning, the first time I don’t want to eat breakfast, I pick up my phone to check WeChat Moments, see what happened to the people around me, and think about what Moments I want to post today.
At that time, in fact, we were all around the "circle of friends" all the time, always wanting to show our style in the circle of friends and get others' praise, so as to increase our face and satisfy our vanity.
To be honest, when you live like this for a long time, you will find that no matter how good the photos of life in the circle of friends are taken, or the life in the circle of friends is wonderful, what practical gains can be made for yourself What?
Therefore, with the proliferation and deterioration of Moments, some people have already left Moments and do not want to have any contact with Moments.
WeChat, for those who don’t play Moments, is nothing more than a payment tool and a chat channel.
Many people who are in the circle of friends are very puzzled, why these people do not post in the circle of friends, why do they want to leave the circle of friends, is there something wrong with their lives?
In fact, in many cases, the behavior of not posting to Moments seems a bit weird. However, it is precisely because other people have lived these three kinds of "life" that other people do not post in Moments.
People who don’t post in Moments have lived a life of "sounding and making a fortune"
Old ancestors said: "Pretend to be a pig and eat a tiger and make a fortune in a muffled voice." What is
? It means that no matter what you do or how much money you make, you will not tell others, but will fight silently and live your own life in silence.
To make a fortune in a muffled voice is actually the wisdom of life advocated in our traditional Chinese culture. If you have the ability, you must also learn to constrain your edge, don't always show your edge, let others know your details.
so-called "wood is beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy it." Just like how much money you make, if you promote it in your circle of friends all day, then it is inevitable that no one will be jealous of you and then count you in life. The more capable people
are, the more low-key they will be, and they will not harm their original financial interests for the sake of temporary face. They understand that the display in the circle of friends can only pull hatred, but cannot share their own joy.
In this society, there are more people who are "not good", but there are fewer people who are truly kind. Therefore, it is the wisdom of those "low-key" people to live a life of muffled wealth and not to make friends.
People who do not post to Moments are living a "full and busy" life.
once had an online survey. Now most people spend at least three hours or more on Moments every day.
Regardless of whether this data is real or fake, in fact, we can find that there are only 24 hours a day. Except for sleeping, it takes up at least a considerable part of our time to scan the circle of friends.
If you spend your time at work, you may be able to improve your performance or fight for a promotion and salary increase. However, is it necessary to keep our minds on the circle of friends?
In this regard, someone in Zhihu once commented that the people who spend time in the circle of friends are either micro-businesses who rely on the circle of friends to make money, or those who have too much time to waste.
sees a lot of fulfilled and busy people around, they basically don't post in Moments.
When others pretend to exercise, they are already sweating in the gym. While others are still showing off their food, others are already on their way to careers.
In fact, those who don’t post to Moments are not because they don’t want to do Moments, but because they don’t have time to do so, and it feels unnecessary.
A full and busy real life is what we want to pursue. And the so-called falseLife in the circle of friends may be a waste of time.
People who do not post to Moments are living a more "unfettered" life.
is a Jiugongge in Moments of Friends. How to post it has caused many people to scratch their heads. How to write a copy of a circle of friends, so some people directly spend most of the day thinking.
When this nine-square grid is well matched with the copywriting and sent out, most of us think that we hope to be praised by others, and then gain the envy of others.
However, in today's society, there is a saying that is very good, if you have been living in the eyes of others, then what is the difference between you and the living dead?
people are called human beings because each of us has the right to pursue freedom of life, and we don’t need to care what others think, and we don’t need to be constrained by so-called human relationships.
Most people in life, why can't they get rid of the circle of friends, and even say they are led by the nose?
is because they can't see the essence of life, and can only live a life of "range and shackles", which seems to be free in the body, but not in the heart.
And those who dare not to post or even block the circle of friends, in fact, they all live a "free and unrestrained" life, do not need to look at the faces of others, and will not expect outsiders.
has a good time with his lover, and there is no need to show affection in public. What food you have eaten, what scenery you have seen, you can feel the beauty of life with your heart, and you don’t have to send it to your circle of friends like "handing in homework". People of
, if we want to live a little more unfettered, in fact, we still have to have a "transparent" heart. You don't need to worry about what others say, you don't need to worry about how others think of yourself, how you feel comfortable in your life, this is the kingly way.
text/Shu Shan has deer
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