"Women's mind is really unpredictable."
The person who said this, actually doesn't understand women, but if he has a deep understanding of women, he will not draw such a conclusion. When the ex of
asked me to make up, he showed me a lot of short videos. The content of the
short video, without exception, the main meaning is: they really don’t know why girls can be inexplicable and crazy, and inexplicably arrange a lot of mental drama for themselves.
then came to the unanimous conclusion that they didn't need to be so complicated at all, and that he was really at a loss and at a loss.
I understand their helplessness, because from the beginning, they just wanted to gain warmth from and relieve pressure from . They never thought about solving practical problems, being an emotional mediator, grinding their lips, and consuming their patience. .
only thought about how to own and get, but was not prepared to give and give. Every section of
from the joy of love to the love of seeing each other is unequal in purpose and demand.
A man says nice "love" in his mouth, weaving a sweet net to lure you into it.
And why can a woman say she doesn't love, but willfully let herself jump into each other's love?
Why do women feel sad and desperate, and still reserve opportunities for each other?
In the Thai wife murder case a year ago, people who didn't understand were lucky from God: the husband pushed his wife off the cliff, along with his unborn flesh and blood.
's wife Wang Ning escaped from the dead. Now when she is facing the camera and telling her own experience, she lacks a trace of softness and fragility, and has more fortitude and determination.
I think that such a change was brought to her by that man.
Women are weak, but strong for love. This love is no longer loving others, but loving yourself.
Husband Yu met Wang Ning for less than a week, so he confessed impatiently; next, Yu was reluctant and stubbornly proposed to marry him; in 2017, the two married secretly without a wedding ceremony and parents did not know.
Everything is progressing rapidly, without giving the woman time to think and react, or even too late to look back and study the wrong place carefully, she has fallen into the huge gauze made by the other party.
Wang Ning gradually discovered Yu's problem after the two determined their relationship: He occasionally got out of touch with society. She asked if the other party had been in jail, but was denied by the other party. What followed was a fierce offensive proposal.
She has a glimpse of the possible false elements in this relationship, and she has also seen the panic loopholes under the perfect cover of the man.
But she still did not escape from this unsafe relationship, instead, she went to the abyss where her husband designed to kill in exchange for huge insurance.
How soft a woman's heart is, it can be seen from the time when she repeatedly gives each other opportunities.
Wang Ning said: "I really want to get married at that node. I think I have enough drift, so I want to lean on one shoulder."
she happened to appear in her life and expressed her love and madness countless times. The man who pursues is treated as a harbor where he can stay and an arm that can be delivered. From the moment
delivered the true feelings, the woman lost the shell to protect herself, because she entrusted the rest of her life to the other party. The psychological delivery of
is the output of the spiritual core, and a woman's heart will become more vulnerable and sensitive.
is like the inner core of a fruit, once it is dug out, the whole fruit will be crushed.
Wang Ning was unprepared one second before being pushed off the cliff. She was hugged by her husband, kissed on the cheek by her husband, and never thought that she would fall all over her body in the echo of her husband's "Go to death" in the next second. fracture.
After getting married, Yu said frankly that he wanted Wang Ning to pay off his debts when he got married. After learning that his wife was pregnant, his attitude was very indifferent: "If you want it, you will give birth. If you don't want it, I will accompany you to kill it later. "Z3z
Sometimes I think, what makes a woman hurt you so much, but still keep a softness to you in the bottom of my heart?
Is it okay because that man suddenly changed sex?
"But by April, the situation changed. I found that the whole family became calmer. He didn't come to me to fight, andBecome very good, often stay with me, and he will also accompany me to go to the check-up... everything becomes very good. "Z3z
has not been reborn after the catastrophe, and perhaps Wang Ning will still be kept in the dark. The softness of a woman is not stupid and ignorant, but her nature is like this: a pure-minded person will think that everyone is pure, can't think of any harm. Go. Z2z
Host: "Then I think his attitude turned so good at the time. Why and what is the purpose? "Z3z
Wang Ning: "I want to understand the plan and retreat, because he has already figured out what method should be used to obtain this property and money... He decided to inherit the property by killing me. Way to cash out. "How much does
have to pay for the kindness of women so that they will not be exploited and squeezed out of value. How much do women have to suffer before they are willing to speak for themselves? In this world, women will not be better than men, even if they suffer. Tortured, through ups and downs, and tasted all the sadness, they will not and do not want to harm each other in a retaliatory way.
In marriage, it is usually the man who does the first thing, and the woman who speaks first in .
Nagging, annoying, old things are constantly coming out to say, there is no end...
We see that it seems to be the end of the war provoked by women, but we ignore, why is it not the man who complains and grievances, but the woman?
all Behind the grievances are the perfunctory treatment and neglect. The
woman speaks in an indecent way, but in exchange for the violence of the other party. The
problem is raised and needs to be resolved, but it is The arrogant force is suppressed, and "Once a problem arises in the country, the person who raised the problem will always be the first to solve it. "There are similarities in the same way."
"Jin Zhiying, born in 1982" shows the woman's forbearing and soft power to the fullest. This softness is paid for with the tears and sadness of grievance hidden in the appearance of fortitude.
Jin Zhiying Take the children in line to buy coffee, but they are called "Mombugs" because they cry in public. (Mombugs: used to belittle young mothers who are unable to discipline young children who make loud noises in public, and have no income, relying exclusively on their husbands. A full-time mother with children at home);
went to her mother-in-law’s house during the New Year’s holidays, and stepped into the kitchen with one foot and had no chance to come out again. Watching her husband’s family eating fruit and chatting in the living room, she was like an outsider. She kept washing dishes and pots, smashing hands, doing housework...;
wanted to get back to work but was strongly opposed by her mother-in-law, "Are you crazy? You are too much, my son has a bright future... …".
, do you know what it means to women who have the triple identities of wives, daughter-in-law, and mother?
means that they have multiple jobs, are open all year round, have endless things to do, but have no salary Someone in the
film said that they are enjoying the blessings, resting at home, and do not need to go out to earn a living and suffer from wind and rain. The essence of this description is that they are treated as canaries in cages.
gold wire The sparrow sacrifices freedom and provides the value of appreciability. The logic of this is mutual benefit. A woman who is a full-time wife at home avoids the pain of working hard to find a job, but gives out all her own value. Z3z
is also just like Qiu Dufang said. Said: "The biggest problem for them is not to do things, but to feel that they are trapped in an isolated island alone. After the adults in the family go to work, they stay at home year after year. , I don’t see a few people and I can’t communicate with adults. Such an environment often feels suffocating. "Z3z
And Jin Zhiying's only way to express her heartfelt feelings is to get sick-depression. She often suddenly switches to the personality of mother-in-law and mother, even including her husband's first love, in their tone of voice. The tone of voice tells what he has accumulated for a long time.
is clearly a kind of physical and mental destruction, but women's resistance is in a soft way- no one can bear to hurt, and the first to take the knife.
will suffer. Sorrow swallowed alone, and then tempered the invulnerable perseverance in the long-term patience. Is the kindness of
women the reason for you to bully her?
They are not our mothers, they do not have a natural bodhisattva heart, but are in bloodThe gentle kindness of the world breeds in the gestation.
Motherhood will make a woman retreat from the edge of countless death struggles; children will make a mother regenerate the belief to live amid tens of thousands of times of suffering and despair.
"He (child) is truly the one who accompanies me from birth to death. He has gone through all the dangers. The only person who can accompany me, since I was stepped off the cliff by my husband...including desperately before the rescue Waiting for death..... If my child is not strong enough, and when he is sent to the hospital, I will not survive, and I must die if there is no time to save." This kind of
is the brilliance of human nature. When
encounters problems, women will habitually suppress inward, while men will vent outward.
is not that women are weak and weak, but they have people who they desperately want to protect, so they can't bear to hurt and destroy. When
gave up in despair, most of them were silent, turned their heads and left, and the divorce agreement was ended.
is where there is no killing and revenge, there is no such thing as old and dead, nothing, more of a kind of almost usual quiet , and then start again, and pick up the expectation of life.
A woman will be kind and soft-hearted to anyone who has walked into her heart.
Even if that person is no longer worthy and unworthy of enjoying, the mark that was left in his heart will remain and will not disappear in an instant.
Women are the softest creatures in the world, and the hearts of women who have given birth are even more tender.
Is the woman who stays behind in a hopeless marriage stupid and ignorant?
No, it's because they can't live without and can't let go of their children. What's more, they don't worry about entrusting their children to unreliable husbands or in-laws.
No one is more reliable and assured than himself.
This is reality and truth.
The sacrifices made by women are far more than I imagined, but there is always kindness and kindness in this sacrifice.
I think it's not that they don't love themselves, but they love the value of their dedication. In the children's laughter, I found satisfaction and comfort.
This gentle kindness in women, in the hands of men who don't know how to respect, will always become a sharp sword to stabbing oneself, giving the other party the opportunity to hurt oneself without any protection.
But it is also this kind of kindness, brewing silent love, and passing on the bond of love to the next generation and even more people.
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