Why is it difficult for second-married women in rural areas to marry, but second-married men become "sweet and sweet"? After reading this, you will understand
. Now everyone says that the rural marriage problem has become a big problem. Indeed, rural men now face "difficulties in marrying a wife", and the imbalance of the "high-priced gifts" and the imbalance between men and women is weighing on farmers. Not angry. But this is not the case for women. Although the right to choose is relatively high, it is still difficult to really find one that you feel suitable in all aspects. Of course, among these single men and women in rural areas, there is still a group of people, but there is a huge gap between them, that is, second-married men and second-married women. As for why, you will understand after reading these.
1. Two-married men in rural areas become "sweet and pastry", the reason behind it is helpless and sad.
The divorce rate in general is now particularly high, which is also an inevitability of the development of the times. Everyone is no longer bound by traditional ideas, and more considers themselves . Among them, the second-married men in rural areas are a large group, but it is strange that the second-married men in rural areas are indeed the "fragrance and pastry" for the woman to choose a spouse. What is going on? There are mainly the following questions.
The first thing is that a second-married man can give many women a sense of security. Because of the experience of family life, girls usually feel that this man is more mature and experienced. I will be more calm in my attitude towards marriage, of course I will tolerate my "little temper", and I will be more attentive to this marriage. This is what many girls desire. The phrase "a second-married man is a treasure" Rural sayings are also for this reason.
The second one is that second-married men will have relatively good financial ability. This is also valued by many girls. In fact, many "marriage" in the rural areas cannot be negotiated. In the end, most of them are money issues, the woman herself or her family. I feel that marrying in the past will not have a good material life. After all, people nowadays are relatively realistic. Although the second-married man said that he will be older, he is undoubtedly good in terms of financial ability. This can make the woman feel that there is no need to worry about the little things such as firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, and the child will have a good growth environment in the future.
2. Second married women are difficult to marry, and the reason behind it is very real.
There are second married men and second married women, but compared to second married men, their situation will be more embarrassing, and it is usually difficult to find a suitable alternative. half. There are many reasons for this. First of all, many people think that second-married women treat marriage casually, may have a little "small temper", or that they don't pay much attention to marriage.
Another point is that in the rural concept, there is still some "prejudice" towards second-married women. Although the author does not understand it, it does exist in the countryside. This is also the "problem" left by the development of the countryside. Fortunately, everyone’s acceptance is constantly improving, and I believe it will get better and better in the future, but the current reason still exists.
The last one is the second-married girl. In fact, it is very picky. It is difficult to find a suitable partner. As mentioned above, when choosing a spouse, everyone will be more concerned about the financial situation of the other party. This is especially true for the second-married girl, because they have already I can't afford to delay, so it is very difficult to "build from scratch" with a man. Another point is that in everyone’s opinion, the age of a second-married girl will make her lose a lot of opportunities. In rural areas, everyone still values the man who is older than the woman, but this situation is slowly improving.
3. It doesn’t matter if you find something that suits you, it doesn’t matter if you are wronged.
The author believes that in rural marriages, there are not so many right-handed couples, and everyone is now very repulsive to this. The more important thing is to find the right one for yourself. Someone might say that the right one depends on the conditions. In fact, on the contrary, when you put these conditions down, you may get unexpected gains. In the author's concept, "marriage" must be mutual "sacrifice" and tolerance, otherwise it will not last long. Sometimes, when you encounter something that suits you, it really doesn't matter if you are "grieved". Both parties work hard together. Good material life.
Of course, this "grief" has a bottom line. This refers to some substances, appearances, etc., but domestic violence is still not tolerated. Of course, also hopes that everyone will keep their eyes open and find the right one. After all, second marriage is not thatIt's so easy, I hope everyone has a good married life.
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