"Brother, my mother left the house to me, why would you sell it" "You are an outsider if you marry."

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once saw a question: "There is only enough money to buy a house, should I buy it for my daughter or my son?"

saw this The question is, some people disdain, so naturally they should buy it for their son, but some people will ask, "Why can't I buy it for my daughter?"

Indeed, men and women are equal, and the palms and backs of hands are all meat. It's really tangled whether to buy it or not.

Tian Rong never expected that one day she would encounter a similar problem. A few days ago, Tian Rong had a quarrel with his brother's family, and the quarrel was so intense that his sister-in-law became angry and almost slapped Tian Rong on the face. The reason why

is having trouble with his brother's family is the house. Tian Rong's parents passed away early. When they died, Tian Rong was still in college. When they heard that both of them had passed away, Tian Rong's heart was almost broken. Good living people disappeared in this way. She almost didn't get over that month. Fortunately, her roommates took turns to accompany her every moment.

After finishing his parents' funeral, Tian Rong returned to school to complete his studies. The moment she returned to school, she realized that she would rely entirely on herself in the future, and the next tuition and living expenses would also have to be settled on her own. Although there is still an older brother, Tian Rong understands in his heart that it is better to rely on himself than on anyone. At that time, Tian Rong didn't know that her parents had said that she had left the house to herself, so she always thought that everything in the house was taken care of by her brother. It was also because of this that Tian Rong realized that if her elder brother gave it to her in the future, it would be the affection between her siblings. If she did not give it, then she would not be able to say anything. After all, she was not her parents and she could not blame anything.

Fortunately, brother tuition calls her every year, and she is only responsible for her own living expenses. After graduating from

, Tian Rong plans to stay in this city. Moreover, she is a married family, just after getting the certificate with her husband, she must settle down. Although

has no parents in her hometown, she still has an older brother. She plans to go home to see him once, and maybe there are not many opportunities to meet again in the future. What's more important is that she heard that her brother was married and her new sister-in-law was pregnant. As a younger sister, she was grateful for her brother's payment of tuition in recent years, so she had to go back and take a look. After

got home, her brother's family was very alienated from her. Without parents, there seems to be something missing between the siblings. As for what it is, Tian Rong does not understand. When

was visiting, Tian Rong heard his uncle talk about it. It turned out that his parents had asked everyone to leave the only house to Tian Rong before they died. Tian Rong's tears flowed out without warning. It turns out that her parents missed her, worried about her, and were not patriarchal. At that moment, she felt that she was not the child that no one wanted.

In fact, she was painful, sad, sad, and complained about her parents in her heart. Why didn't she leave a word to her, why did she give it to her brother, is she not as important as her brother?

But why did my brother never tell her? She went back to her brother's house and asked if there was something the elder uncle had said before, and the eldest brother hesitated and said there was such a thing. Tian Rong was immediately angry, and she loudly accused her brother of not telling her that after so many years, there were many opportunities to say, but after a few years, she was still kept in the dark. If it weren't for this time, I would be concealed for a lifetime.

Tian Rong asks for a house with his brother, and the meaning is very clear. If the brother doesn't give it, the two must be divided equally. Both are the children of their parents. What right does the brother have to occupy alone. As soon as

heard Tian Rong's request, his elder brother immediately became angry, and his sister-in-law made accusations and insults unceremoniously. The brother said: "You are all married out. The house is cheaper even if it is given to you. Besides, you have a house for your younger sister. Why bother to ask for this house from your brother?" Z2z

said: "Don't show your face. Shameless, it’s already good for your brother to pay for your tuition. You have to be content and grateful. Your parents died too early and they didn’t give your brother money to buy a house. Now this house is owed to your brother, so it should be returned. Your brother. We have already planned to sell it for a big house in the city."

looked at the ugly faces of the family, Tian Rong said: "I call you brother for the last time. Since the death of our parents, we have It changed in time, and now there is no affection at all. Yes, I have a house, I don’t care about this house, I care about my parents, they want to leave the house to me, This is mine, please respect your parents' meaning anyway. "The

elder brothers and sisters had disputes, and there was no conclusion. But then Tian Rong decided to leave behind, because her husband's words reminded her that back then, her parents just told her family, there was no evidence, no matter where she went. , I looked at the evidence and basis, but now there is nothing. If my brother really doesn’t give it, she has nothing to do.

Tian Rong looked at his brother’s family. Suddenly remembered that when I was a child, my brother would protect him no matter what happened. Take her to play, climb trees, catch toads. I remember that I went to elementary school, my brother went to high school, and someone bullied her, and my brother helped her out without saying a word. Once, they were also a pair of brothers and sisters who loved each other. But now it turned out to be like this.

thinks about my brother is very pitiful. My sister-in-law always thinks that my brother is not earning enough, and he feels useless. I heard the neighbor say that quarreling between two people is commonplace. If this house is really gone, I am afraid of my sister-in-law. I will divorce my brother. In these years, it is not easy for my brother to pay her tuition.

If my parents are alive, I will feel distressed when I see my brother. Thinking of this, Tian Rong feels soft.

counts Don’t worry about it. It’s enough to know that her parents are thinking about themselves before they die, and she feels warm in her heart. Now her husband is five years older than her, and he is always considerate to her, and the house and car are also available. Although she suffered a few years ago, she is now very happy, much happier than her brother. Before

left, she was relieved. When she passed the alley, she saw her brother in the mirror of the car, maybe, her brother was right She is also guilty. The

brothers and sisters are all brothers and sisters at all times, and they should not do things too extreme at any time. Maybe they will have a lot of points after they get married, but this blood relationship can't be parted. Because of one thing, who can really feel happy in the end? We will leave a little room for each other when we treat friends, let alone between relatives. Z2z

hope that all conflicting brothers and sisters in the world will have no conflicts. It cannot be solved, and there is no problem that cannot be adjusted. Take a step back, look at the face of this blood relationship, look at the face of your parents, give each other a little understanding and love, and many things will be solved.

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