"Four Seasons Pastoral Miscellaneous Happiness·The Thirty-One": The village is in charge of the children and daughters of the village. Tongsun did not provide for farming and weaving, but also learned to grow melons near Sangyin.
Although urbanization continues to develop, there are still some very traditional cultures in rural areas. These cultures of influence generation after generation. Sometimes some rural sayings are simple, but they still contain very profound truths. For example, the rural saying: "There are four kinds of families, and people are prosperous" , what are the four? How is your house like?
1. Diligence and thrifty housekeeping
Everyone knows that the establishment of a family at requires not only feelings for each other, but also a stable economic foundation , which determines the superstructure. When a country is established, it must be concerned about its own financial issues, and a small family must also pay attention to its financial development. If the husband and wife spend money lavishly, they will end up harming others and themselves.
Now that economic conditions are getting better, , but while people are improving their home conditions, they should not forget to ease the family’s finances. Appropriate economic consumption is a good thing, and you must not spend money on your own . The prerequisite for the prosperity of the family, or the prosperity of the family, is that there is a stable financial foundation. If there is no stable financial foundation, no matter how deep the feelings for each other, there will be some disputes due to some financial problems. In a family, diligent and thrifty housekeeping is very necessary. Z3z diligent housekeeping does not mean stingy, but rational consumption, rational consumption and other behaviors.
2. Harmony between husband and wife
For a family, the relationship between husband and wife is crucial . The husband and wife must respect each other. If the husband and wife disrespect each other, and there are some domestic violence and other behaviors, it will definitely make the family a mess. The relationship between the husband and wife must be harmonious, so that the family can develop healthily. If the relationship between the husband and wife is not good, it will have a great impact on the character of the child. If the husband and wife often punch and kick and quarrel, it may make the child feel insecure since childhood, doubt the longevity of the family, and the relationship between the husband and wife will deteriorate due to frequent punches and kicks.
If there are some problems between husband and wife, solve wisely. If one party has some unreconcilable contradictions, treat it sensibly. Sometimes divorce is not necessarily a bad thing. If the conflict between husband and wife can be resolved, resolve it sensibly and respect both husband and wife. Don't disrespect each other because of some objective conditions. Only when the husband and wife are respectful can they grow up to each other and become better each other, making the family more harmonious.
3. Harmony between brothers
is now more of an only child, but before, there were often several brothers and sisters in the family. As parents, should treat these children equally, and should not make any difference because of their age. Brothers should also live in harmony with each other. If the relationship between brothers is not harmonious, it will affect many people. Parents will feel heartache when they see the disharmony between the brothers. The family members of the brothers may also have other thoughts when they see the emotional disharmony between the brothers.
We must pay attention to brotherhood in the family, only brotherhood can make this family run normally . Mistakes in any part of this family may affect the development of this family and will be fatal to the family.
4. Children are filial to their parents
Chinese people pay attention to filial piety, we must be filial to our parents, we must be filial to our parents, is not to listen to the words of our parents, but to respect our parents, understand what our parents need, and know how to change for our parents Some what. Filial piety is vital to the growth of children, and children must be filial to their parents after they grow up. Only filial piety to parents can make this home run normally.
If you are not filial to your parents, you will not only make your own conscience uneasy, but will also be pointed out by outsiders, and even some superstitious people will think that you are not filial to your parents and will be punished. Abandon these superstitions, or other people’s remarks, filial piety is something we should do, parents are hardworkingThey brought us up, and if we don’t obey them, we are in vain.
Conclusion
Some rural colloquialisms are indeed valid, and we can learn some truths of life through these colloquialisms. For a family, harmony between brothers and children, husband and wife must live in harmony. We must be diligent and thrifty to maintain a family so that a family can operate well. The relationship between family members also requires consideration and management. We must love our family members and make our own contributions for our family members in order to get a family. warm home.
Reference materials: "Four Seasons Pastoral Miscellaneous Xing·The Thirty One"
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