52-year-old woman: I was divorced for 26 years without makeup or buying new clothes and only saving money

Ten years of repairing can get on the same boat, and a hundred years of repairing can sleep together! Husband and wife are fate, but the fate is empty.

Someone said: “Husband and wife need to share joys and sorrows, they can only share joys but not sorrows, the faults of the wife, the faults of the wife, the faults of the wife, but the faults of the husband, the fault of the husband. I was divorced for saving money

. There are endless obstacles, but I never thought: I have survived the pain and tiredness with him, and survived everyone’s opposition, but I can’t survive the warmth and lust. I spent most of my life for him and for this family. , I gave everything and counted, I haven’t bought a new dress for 26 years without makeup. Z1z

In 1991, he was introduced by someone and I met him. At the beginning, the matchmaker said that his family had 3 tiled houses, and he could also pick up his father. My class went to work in the supply and marketing agency. When my parents heard that they could take over, they were full of joy, so they agreed to the marriage, and I fell in love with him at first sight. Z1z

half a month after the marriage, my in-laws called me to the front and said, " Cui, your brother in my family met with the woman two days ago, and the woman insisted on asking your brother to pick up your father-in-law's class before agreeing to the marriage. Liang Wei is good at carpentry and is also a craftsman. Can you let your brother pick up your father-in-law's class? ,child. "Looking at the begging eyes of my in-laws, I compromised, thinking that hard work can make me rich, as long as he is better than anything to me. Two days before the sister-in-law

came in, he said to me, "My brother is about to get married. Let’s borrow our house for a while, and after they get married they will rent a house in the county. "The moment he clasped my hands and embraced me in his arms, I again chose to compromise. But I didn't expect that the first daughter-in-law was a harsh and unreasonable lord, so she wouldn't want to move out when she lived in. There was no way, we had to move to the county. I live in a rented house, and all this, I did not dare to say a word to my parents, for fear that they were worried. At the end of 1992, the son was born, we returned the original 10 square meter house and rented a larger private house.

In those years, carpenters did not If you want to make money, you have to go to work in a furniture factory in a foreign country. After thinking about it, we finally decided to give up woodworking and start collecting scrap and scrap iron to maintain the household.

At first, we pushed the tricycle to the door. Once, When I saw a piece of waste paper, my eyes were shining. Once, in order to grab a piece of scrap iron, I was beaten by others. Once, a family of three could not eat a full meal during the Spring Festival. In this way, our life is difficult and tortuous, but in the midst of suffering , We split a steamed bun in two, he is considerate of me, I am considerate of him, the happiness of poor couples is so satisfying and happy.

remember a Spring Festival, our family of three went to my parents, after dinner, my mother quietly pulled me into her room , Took out a dozen of change from the bedding and stuffed it into my hand and said, "Cui, this little money, take it to add a new dress to myself, my son. "She rolled up her cuffs and wiped her tears.

It turned out that my parents already knew about my situation, but they were afraid that going to my husband’s house would affect the relationship between our husband and wife. Fortunately, seeing him know how hot and cold I was, I felt relieved.

With the money my mother forced into my hand, looking at myself in the mirror, with a face full of vicissitudes, I suddenly realized that I hadn't added a new dress or used skin care products since I got married. When I added a new piece of clothing, my son had a fever and was hospitalized. This money was spent on his son again. Z1z

has passed for a few years. For me who collects scraps, it is a waste to wear the best clothes and put on the beautiful makeup. Save money and save money to buy a house.

In 2001, we finally had a place to live, and finally a home of our own. In 2003, we used the money we saved to open a waste collection station, so that we became more busy, for I save money and save a salary. I get up early every day, work hard like a man, move goods and load trucks, and forget that I am a woman. Because I stay in the waste collection station all day and busy, buying clothes and buying Cosmetics have almost nothing to do with me, and I also live out myself as a man.

The year before last, we turned from the original waste collection station to open a hotel, business is good, living conditions are getting better, but he moved Don’t fall in love, when I found out and had a conclusive showdown with him, hoping that he would turn around, he actually said easily, "Let’s get a divorce." When I almost ranted and asked him why, he said with a disgusting expression: "Look. Seeing how you look now, people who don't know think you are my mother. "I couldn't help but slapped him and said, "Who am I doing this for, do you know, 26I haven’t bought a new dress for two years. I just pick up other people’s leftover clothes and wear them. I haven’t put on makeup once, just to save a little money and make you and your son feel better. Pat your conscience. You think this is worthy of me. ? "Z1z

, even if it is crazy rant, can't cover up the reality of divorce in the end. For 26 years, I didn’t buy new clothes or make-up and only saved money for my family. I was divorced. The editor of

has something to say:

has some people who guard carrots and pickles. If you can live a stable life, if there is a bit of meat on the table, you will feel that you are rich. You can spend time and wine to change your wife. As everyone knows, the pillow talent who can share the ups and downs with you is the most rare. Z1z

women, no matter how much life gives us Please wipe your tears away from the storms and frustrations and face it bravely. I believe there will be light waiting for you. Please also every woman love and feel sorry for herself a little more. Z1z

Wish! Every couple will do We can walk the whole life together! We can help, depend on, accompany and cherish each other to the end of life!