Now young people pay less and less attention to marriage. Although many young people have bought a house, bought a car, and led a petty bourgeois life through their own efforts, they are not willing to find a partner, and would rather live alone than fall in love.
It can be said that young people in this class are more and more selfish, but these parents are more anxious.
Because in the eyes of parents, children do not complete the important task of getting married and having children. It seems that life is imperfect, and cannot hold grandchildren, even if they have more money, they are not happy.
Therefore, many parents now have to worry about their children's schooling, and then start to worry about their children's love and marriage. Because of work and other reasons, their children have no time to go on blind dates and find objects, so as elderly people, they start to attack.
recently gathered in a blind date corner in Guiyang, Guizhou, where a lot of elderly people gathered. They gathered here for nothing but blind dates for their children, but the blind date corner did not see a young man at all, they were all elderly people. , Then how do they give their children a blind date?
If the children do not come, they have no choice but to take pictures of their children, and then exchange information about the children, and then according to their requirements, determine whether to give the other party's contact information to their children. It can be said that in order to find a suitable target for their children, these old people really fight.
is indeed in today’s society, where young people’s lives are fast-paced, stressful, and difficult to make friends and marriages. However, it’s not a good way to give children a blind date through parents entering a blind date corner, because often times, The perspectives of parents are not the same as those of their children. Young people may not necessarily see what parents think is suitable.
But even so, these elderly people feel that there is no way. The children are not worried, but they are worried as parents. Some parents of
even insisted on finding a good match for their children in blind dates for six or seven years. Of course, if young people really have this energy to find a match, I believe they will not become older leftover men or leftover women.
In fact, behind this incident makes people feel very sad. Think about it, even to find a marriage partner, parents have to help them find it. Does this really require parents to worry about it for a lifetime?
Therefore, behind the incident of the elderly going to the blind date, the real thing to reflect on is why there are so many leftover men and women who cannot find marriage partners. Are they really lacking in material conditions?
is not the case. According to our investigation and analysis, we have summarized the following three points.
1. Most of the remaining men and women are too demanding and too picky about each other.
There is a colleague in our unit who is almost 40 years old and is not in a hurry to find someone. Of course, it's not that you don't go on a blind date, but you are very picky about the other party every time. You either dislike the man's bad family conditions or feel that the other party is not worthy of you. In fact, the more picky you are, the harder it will be to find the right one in the end, because the really good ones are picked out, and there are fewer and fewer people who meet your requirements.
Therefore, if you really want to find an object, you must not be too picky.
2. The leftover men and women always feel that they are superior and unwilling to put down their worth.
Some people always feel that they are superior to others when they have little achievements and are unwilling to put down their worth. For example, I knew a woman before. She herself was a technical secondary school student, but she was looking for someone with a bachelor’s degree. Those with a bachelor’s degree were exempted from talking. Even during a blind date, she tortured each other’s English. It sounds so funny.
She thinks that she has passed the adult college entrance examination and has a higher degree of college education. In fact, she just thinks herself too high and puts down her status to find a suitable person for you.
3. Many of the leftover men and women have already seen through marriage, are unwilling to marry, and do not want to have children
is indeed in today's society, and life is under great pressure. Many young people have already understood this, and would rather live alone than marry, let alone have children. In fact, this is pressure and reality. There are more and more unmarried people now, and there may be more and more people who are not willing to get married in the future.
In short, anyway, the most effective way is to really figure out the reasons why older men and women do not marry, and then to think of a targeted solution. In fact, relying on the elderly to go to the blind date cannot solve the actual problem. Do you have any good suggestions for this? Do you think the old man goes on a blind dateDear, is it reliable?
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