asked everyone yesterday "What cool things did your parents do?" The message was wonderful and rich beyond our imagination. Many film and television works of
are shaping the image of parents: they are always anxious and worried for their children, they are used to sacrifice, and meeting their children's expectations is the most important thing in life.
But this is not all true. The moms and dads in the message are independent, lively, and interesting. They have the courage to start a new life, the calmness to respect their inner desires, and the passion to live their usual lives.
Let’s take a look at these cool parents:
"My mother got a tattoo on her arm when she was 45 years old"
@Everything but mine
I am now a graduate student. I still remember the year of my senior year in high school. My dad takes me to the movies every week. My family is in a small county, and there are three cinemas in total. But we take turns to watch this one today and another one tomorrow. My dad said that learning can’t make people foolish. It takes a combination of work and rest, so when others are writing questions on weekends and staying up late to endorse, I watch a movie outside, and then dad asks me to eat a hamburger! So happy, I will never forget! I love my dad.
@Anonymous
My mother bought me a sex education picture book when I was in kindergarten.
@AHUANG
When it comes to being cool, it always seems to have to go through suffering, and then be born again after suffering. My mother is such a mother. She suffered domestic violence, suffered from severe depression, and took medication for ten years. I divorced my father in 2011 when I was thirteen. During the divorce, my father tried to redeem this marriage by kneeling down and confessing, threatening violence, etc. The memory of that period is now a bit blurred, it is a terrible memory. In the worst case, we even called the police for help.
finally succeeded in divorce by agreement, and then my mother started to be happy. Strive to pursue your own happiness, be with people you like, start a company and run a business, and do what you wanted to do before but was not allowed to do. Most of the time I forget that she has depression. She looked radiant, as if she was more than ten years younger. She is already very cool in front of outsiders, in my heart she is not only cool, but also gentle and kind.
In 2018, I came out to my mother and confessed my sexual orientation. She first calmed me out of control when she was shocked. I will always remember what she said to me: "Don't underestimate my mother. My mother has never been seen before. "Later, she asked me a lot of questions, such as how to find out, how to be sure, and reason was deeply worried about me. Later, I read her diary and found out that half of the sky had collapsed at the time, but because she felt sorry for the child, she couldn't take care of her emotions to protect me first. I am fortunate to be loved by such a brave, kind and innocent mother. I really appreciate her for giving me such love.
@Anonymous
The coolest thing about my mother is to insist on taking the postgraduate entrance examination. This year is the fourth year of persistence. Come on, mom!
@木圈圈
My dad was also a cool person before he became my dad. He was 16 years old and went out alone. Because he was looked down upon by the folks, he wanted to go to Qinghai, a far away, where he worked as a handyman to a chef. , Because his grandparents need to take care of him, he left everything and went home. Because of my birth, he never left our impoverished county. Next year I will have the college entrance examination. He can finally get rid of my dogskin plaster and start his trespass again. Now, Dad, see you again.
@Sunflower quarreling with the sun
My parents did not have a wedding when they got married. They were married on a trip. Traveling in that era also needed a marriage certificate, a letter of introduction from a company, and various documents. But the two people still played from the northwest to Xishuangbanna, especially my mother's motion sickness was very serious + serious hygiene. Although my mother feels a bit regretful that there is no ceremony, but when I think about it, I still feel that the wedding trip is really happy hahahaha, now I feel so cool.
@卢棒棒
My mother got a tattoo when she was 45 years old.
@毛爱范
My mother herself broadcasts square dance teaching on Douyin every day and has already gained more than 6w fans.
I'm waiting for my mom to get fired, I'm a brokerMan's day.
@柴丹
My mother learned to drive when she was fifty, and she learned to roller skating when she was fifty-five, and she learned to swim again this summer when she was sixty-three. I learned these projects from her.
@Maggie
I am a very jealous person, and I used to think that jealousy is the root of human inferiority, it is a shame. Once I told my mother that I was very jealous. I was jealous of my friends who have a boyfriend. The teacher who was jealous of his secret love paid more attention to another female student. I was jealous of a character in a TV series with a lonely personality but was deeply spoiled, even jealous of my parents. .
She laughed, and curiously asked me where I was jealous. I said: "You and my dad graduated from Fudan Jiaotong University respectively. Their grades have been as good since childhood. My grades are not as good as yours." I originally thought that my mother would behave unbelievably. Isn't this something that my children should be proud of? ? My mother smiled and said, "Haha! This is so jealous!" I said, "So when someone asks about your parents' education, I will only say that you have a bachelor's degree, not that you graduated from 985. "I thought my mother would be a little angry, but she joked with me: "Haha! You are so cute! In fact, you are not bad! Next time I must tell those people that my dad and I graduated from 985 graduate school. Hahaha! But when I was your age, I was also very jealous, that’s nothing.”
didn’t expect my mom’s bantering way would relieve me and no longer feel jealous is a shameful thing. , I feel that the relationship with my mother has pulled in a lot.
@知白 Shouhei
's mother was 53 years old and took a professional Chinese pharmacist exam. One year later.
happened to have a baby that year.
On the way home, she rides a bicycle and endorses a book, and falls asleep listening to class at night.
mother is a role model!
@Merrrrry
Dad finally bought his favorite motorcycles and all kinds of equipment, and my mother started running a marathon. It is already very cool to me!
@徐·菻旯格霁·蛲可菲通·啾
My dad, when he was fifty, set three goals for himself, running a marathon, finishing a triathlon, riding from Chengdu to Lhasa, crossing Qiongzhou Strait. I have run horse races many times now. The best result is 4:23. I finished the triathlon once. I rode to Tibet in 23 days. I missed the Qiongzhou Strait. I am not yet 55 years old. I feel that he might really be able to complete the Qiongzhou Strait before he retires (Of course I don’t agree with him to go, but I can’t do it.)
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50, go to pass the undergraduate exam with real skills, many institutions call and say that you can spend money Yes, but the old man is very stubborn and must take the exam by himself.
"My dad is an old punk"
@hibiki
My parents like to go out before I was born. They like all places all over the country. They like scenery, rivers, mountains and forests. There are many more to go out and walk away Friends.
went to many places when I was born, but I don't remember them. Later they became ordinary parents and took me to travel in winter and summer vacation.
later joined their friends gathering, only to know how many places they have been, and how young they had in their twenties, so cute.
I am in my twenties and I must be so free. Not necessarily rich, but must be romantic.
@贾亮
My mother got up at three in the middle of the night to watch the 2004 European Cup with me. At that time, I was 16 and my mother was 48.
@Anonymous
's parents are in their fifties. The coolest thing is that they are very modern and young. Since I was young, they have been happy to understand and accept all the information of my age group, ranging from popular trends to small online language, so that our family's communication mode and living atmosphere have been very good until now. My parents are like me. The two big relatives and friends of, you can talk directly with any questions, and even I have been with anti-traditional things like same-sex objects or playmates, and I can talk to them without hesitation.
is not stiff in my circle, probably because my friends are often surprised because they are too modern hahahahaha! ! ToTheir own thinking is also very active. They like Western culture, so they have an open attitude towards many things. Father likes fitness and mother likes watching animation.
I think the coolest thing about my parents is that they can not only lead their children and raise them as elders in a serious and responsible manner, but also continue to recruit new ones, and build an equal and harmonious relationship with their children like relatives and friends! ! I love them so much
@這週擊
When my mom was 42 years old, she secretly went to her home for bone reduction surgery and told her family that her face had been swollen for half a year and the effect was still great. Although this practice is discouraged, I still can't help but sigh-women's desire for beauty really makes them very powerful.
@三俗少女阮 Mianmian
My dad is 67 this year, with two brackets on his heart, but his hobby is riding a motorcycle. I didn't go with the convoy the year before, and I had to cross the Qinling Mountains and ride from Xianyang to Sichuan. The reason was that a group of people walked hard. As a result, he fell in the tunnel before he left Xi'an, and his right leg was broken and half of his face was rubbed with cinder. The kind truck driver rescued him and put him in a nearby hospital. When the hospital called my mother to ask my mother to pick up the people, my dad was still stiff and said, "What are you doing here, I lie down and go back." Helpless, old punk.
@吾皇
My mother became a housewife in her 20s.
At the age of 50, she worked hard to dance square dance, became the goddess of square dance in the community, and became the representative of the owner. He also performed in Wuhan Theater and Wuhan Optics Valley Tennis Center.
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My parents are not cool, my grandmother is cool, and my teens ran away from home because the family forcibly arranged to marry an unknown man. To catch up with the Women's Liberation Movement in New China, I don't know how to read. I work during the day and go to night school at night to attend work. Free love met my handsome and enlightened grandfather, worked hard and became a leader in the unit. Our descendants are all ashamed.
@刘尧倩
My 80-year-old grandfather and grandmother asked me to borrow a suitcase. Two people held a suitcase hand in hand and took a cruise together, making it the first time to travel abroad. I think it's super cool (sweet).
@Anonymous
My dad, after 60 years old, started to ride out for fun. Now, except for the Northeast, Northwest, and Hainan, I have never been to the rest. Some provinces have been there more than once or twice. Every time I go out for a ride, I have to be away from home for two or three months. Dad is really great!
@Felicity
my mother! He started to learn acupuncture and moxibustion when he was in his 50s. After studying for several years, I can now see a doctor. I think it's pretty cool.
@Ivy
mother is a 50-year-old adult who has cross-professional research and applied for a class. The class is the oldest and passed it once.
@Chen
My dad is a soldier, the kind of anti-bazooka. It's so cool.
@fingers crossed
On the day of the graduation ceremony, my parents came to Kunming to see me. My friends and I wore bachelor uniforms to take graduation photos. My mom took my dad and took a crazy selfie under the cherry blossom trees. When my classmates saw it, they said, "Uncles and aunts are so trendy. They have been taking selfies and showing affection (ー_ー)!!" After the two shots, they scanned the shared bicycle navigation and went to Cuihu, leaving me and my classmates. After playing at school, I was quite happy to see them enjoying life.
@水水
admits that although he has tried his best, he still has not been a good parent. I think it's very real, very powerful, and very cool.
@唐璐的妙计
I am a child picked up by my parents. The coolest thing about them is that they love me unselfishly, let me understand that true love has no blood relationship.
@Anonymous
my mother knows martial arts. She beat up hooligans when she was young (actually, the hooligans frightened her off when she saw her posing in martial arts pose); she also used a spittoon to buckle the school bully's head, just to vent her sister.
@付大宝
My dad now looks like a middle-aged uncle, but he was not only a handsome guy, but he also wrote dozens of love letters to my mother with a brush in college, and the words are still very beautiful.
"I have never appeared in the top three of their life rankings"
@梨膏糖汁
Father got up at three (or two?) the night before his college entrance examination to watch the World Cup. When her mother was young, she was a big fan of dancing and volleyball.
On the weekend 15 days before the college entrance examination sprint, other parents asked their children to review at home. My father said, "Go, take you to the bar." Me: "No, I want to be calm." Last week, I was working hard at
Draw a picture, look at the phone and find that they are drinking in a music bar.
This week, I was still working hard to draw pictures, and looking at my phone, they were traveling in an ancient town in the province. Yesterday I called my mother and told me that I bought a live house ticket for Jiulian. Other parents might ask if it’s safe, what time will it start? My mother said, "Or give me a whole one." I: " Don’t dream of mom, it’s already sold out."
Also, my mom is a very beautiful woman, and she values her appearance very much, but when she rushes into the square dance team to dance with grandpa and grandma, it makes me very Moved, because this move inexplicably gave me the courage to face the laws of life, so I rushed in, happily and cheerfully, and jumped up.
@Anonymous
Mom has run more than ten marathons, all marathons have half marathons, the coolest time is to run a half marathon and then a full marathon a week apart. My dad usually started running 10 kilometers and fell in love with long-distance running when his mother took him.
@依湖
My dad started playing off-road vehicles in the fourth grade of elementary school. When I was in the first year of junior high, he went to Alxa for a "pilgrimage". From then on, he would fly to Ningxia once a year. I finally went to Tibet last year. This seems to be the dream of every middle-aged man hahaha. When he took a photo with the stone monument at the foot of Mount Everest, he smiled very happily, very young.
When I was young, I often went out for self-driving with my dad, drifted in the desert, barbecued by the beach, and strolled in the barren mountains. Those memories are so good that I always wonder if they existed. After I went to junior high school, my dad went off-road with friends on his own. His most famous deed in the circle was probably when playing in the Yellow Sea a few years ago, the off-road vehicle was stuck in the tidal flat and was flooded by the tide because it was too late to retreat. Because of this, those uncles gave my dad a trophy when they opened the annual meeting. The car scrapping award of the year is still on my desk cabinet.
@郭峰
When I was in elementary school, my father was taking a construction engineer exam and my mother was taking a certified accountant exam. So although I am the only student in my family, I study with the whole family after dinner every day, and they are still studying when I sleep. At that time, it didn't matter, but now I think about it, my parents are really cool. Being a lifelong learner is also their biggest example.
@Anonymous
After his father passed away, the burden on the family was much lighter and life gradually returned to normal. My mother, who was centered on me, gradually had her own life. Start to do something you want to do and play with friends. Even when I "pretended not to know", I found a partner. I don't know how the development is, there is this person anyway. Seeing my mother gradually have her own life and can take care of herself, I am really happy for her.
@Anonymous
My parents are really super handsome! I am a student, and I especially like small animals. Some time ago, a stray female cat gave birth in the community. Unfortunately, the female cat was crushed to death by a car two weeks later, leaving only a litter of kittens. My parents did something I had never expected before. They took the litter of cats home! I also gave the cats an injection and bought cat food cat litter. Now the kittens are almost two months old, and all five of them survived! The coat color is also very nice. There are two orange cats, one white cat, and one tortoiseshell. In short, I thank my parents for bringing them back and adding a touch of color to my life. In short, I think they are really cool.
@Anonymous
My mother was 53 years old and took 7 months to get his driver's license. At 55 years old, she broke up with her boyfriend who had been together for 20 years. The whole person seemed to be in a good state of freshman, and now she started her own business.
@Anonymous
my mother is almost 65 now, and once asked her what if I like a girl (I am a girl), the mother said that as long as two people really like it, no matter who the other is, I like it. I askWhy does she think so, she said: "You are my daughter, no matter who you choose, I only hope you are happy." I think it's really cool for a mother to have this kind of thinking in her generation.
@Anonymous
I think the cool thing about my mom is that she invited me to the Pride Parade in Spain. When I was very young, I said: Sexuality is a person's choice, and everyone can have different choices.
@Anonymous
My mother has always been a fashionable youth. When I was only six or seven years old, she regarded every Friday as our "dating day". Only the two of us participated in the date. She took me to eat at various art restaurants in the city, to find books in independent bookstores, or to do our own things in the same space. During the dating day, I saw her being immersed in her own world most naturally and comfortably. I also knew that she was not only my mother, but also a person who insisted on her hobbies and had a good daily life.
Lebanese poet Gibran has a famous poem: "Your children are not your children":
your children are not your children,
they are the children born by life's desire for itself.
Actually, your parents are not just your parents , they are unique individuals with their own characteristics, personalities, hobbies and pursuits. Every message of
today can make people feel a sense of confidence across the screen, which is the confidence brought by an independent, equal and loving relationship.
When parents respect their individual needs and earnestly live their own lives, their children also learn to live their lives earnestly.
As two independent and fettered individuals, we admire and watch each other.
This is a father-daughter, mother-daughter game, the most worthwhile thing.
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