The development of a relationship is a combination of many factors, but the most basic thing is your love and respect for each other. If you love each other deeply, you should know how difficult your relationship is today. After all Two-way rush is difficult to achieve. You have passed the stage of being lovers and become couples who will stay together for a lifetime. Don't act impulsively and do things that are not conducive to your husband and wife relationship.
Remember, no matter how indestructible your feelings are in your heart, you must not do these three things to hurt each other’s self-esteem, only ask the other to pay, and always compare each other with others, if you are between When this phenomenon occurs, you must stop it in time, so that you can go on for a longer time.
Regardless of whether you are a lover or a husband and wife, no matter how deeply you love, don’t do these three things
things that hurt each other’s self-esteem
Respect each other in a relationship is very important, and only two people who respect each other can make this relationship well. Maintaining the relationship, because you know how to respect others, you naturally know how to think about problems from the other's perspective, so once there is a problem in the relationship, the two can communicate and solve it well.
Whether you are a loving couple or a couple who loves each other deeply, you must know the importance of respecting each other. Don’t take it for granted that the relationship between you is deep. Even if you do something that hurts each other’s self-esteem, the other party can forgive Yourself, you have to remember that people will leave when they are saved enough to be disappointed. It is understandable once or twice, but if there are too many, there may be no future.
When you deal with your relationship, you must respect each other and understand each other. Carry out your activities in the good spring of love. You can make fun of each other, but don't stand on the moral high ground to insult each other.
compare each other with others
believe that everyone has experienced the process of being compared with other children by their parents when they were young. I believe that such memories are not so happy to think of, so it is hard to grow up. You can start living independently, but you still have to be compared with others by your lover.
believes that the person who has been compared for comparison must be unhappy in his heart, even if he initially took care of the relationship between you, but once the time is longer and the frequency increases, wait until the next time you will behave like this again At that time, he would definitely be unable to control his outbreak.
Even if you are very happy now, you must not have such self-righteous behavior, even if you want to motivate each other for the good of the other party, but this way is still too ego, since you love him, then the other party is in your eyes Here should be perfect, your behavior like this can only show that you don't have enough intentions for her.
only asks for each other, but never pays
. The relationship is related to the happiness of two people. Therefore, the opening of a relationship is also realized on the basis of each other's contribution. If you two love each other very deeply, you love each other so much. That kind, don’t have behavior that only asks for each other but never pays. Your deep love is mixed with freshness. Once the freshness disappears, your relationship will come to an end.
Don’t ask each other selfishly. The feelings belong to the two of you. Regardless of whether you pay or pay back, it needs both of you to do it at the same time. It is impossible for only one to give foolishly.
keeps asking for it alone. This kind of relationship will not go long. You must avoid these behaviors in your relationship, so that you can run to a happy ending together.
Conclusion:
two people are together because they love each other deeply, so they are willing to go on with each other. Since you love each other deeply, stick to it and manage the relationship with your heart. Don't do some of the things mentioned above. , Then I believe you must be able to move towards your happy future together step by step.
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