In the eyes of most people, love is the joy of love and cherishment.
But this kind of love only exists in people’s fantasy, and reality is often skinny. In real life, not every couple knows how to cherish each other, and not every couple is seriously talking with each other. love.
Love in real life is mostly about one side being enthusiastic and the other side being cold, the other being active and the other being passive. What's more, it is clear that the other party only loves you two points and only treats you as a passer-by in his life, but you are 100% devoted to the other party.
Therefore, when each of us is in a relationship, we have to have a pair of bright eyes to recognize that the other party only wants to play with you or has a true affection for you. You know that in the relationship between the sexes, if the other party just treats you as a passer-by, he will mostly do the following.
If you are in a relationship between the two sexes, if the other party just treats you as a "passenger", these actions may become the norm. Towards a longer future, but if one party in love begins to be dishonest, naturally the other party will not be able to trust the other party.
Once the bridge of trust collapses, then how can we talk about love? So if the other party only regards you as a passer-by in his life, and regards you as not important, then he will have a very obvious behavior, that is, he is dishonest to you.
Trust needs to be established. If someone is dishonest to you, how can you talk about trust? You will gradually become insecure, and you will even suffer from the gains and losses in the relationship of the other person, and you will continue to torture yourself in such emotions.
When you always feel insecure in love, and always feel insecure for gains and losses, it is actually that the other person has been dishonest to you, he has not done a good job, not your mentality is bad, once you are in love Feeling the torture, please let yourself leave the other party as soon as possible.
doesn’t care if you are upset because you are someone who loves you
, he only wants you to be happy anytime and anywhere, and he doesn’t want you to become emotional because of yourself, so the more he cares about you, Will also care about your mood. But if a person only regards you as a passer-by in his life, to him, your happiness will become irrelevant.
So, someone who just wants to play with you, naturally he doesn’t care if you are upset because of him. Obviously sometimes he has a few sweet words or a report to you before doing something, and he can get you Happy all day.
But he doesn't do this, he has to provoke you up and down, and he has to make you guess whether he loves you or not. You should know that in a relationship, once you are asked to guess his true heart, then he is not sincere.
The person who has moved you sincerely, he always wants you to be happy and happy all the time, so the person who truly loves you, he will change tricks to make you happy every day, he will tell you heart-warming words and humorous paragraphs to you, People who only treat you as a passerby don't.
don't share any secrets with you
two people can share it together, it can become meaningful, and it can make life from boring to interesting. Sharing is to talk about things, but also to exchange some views on things between two people. Couples often share their secrets and new things they see together. This will not only promote feelings, but also allow each other to understand each other better.
If a person only regards you as a passer-by in his life, he will feel that there is no need to spend time and energy to share his secrets with you.
People who don't love you, don't care about you, he will guard you. So when the other half next to you doesn't mention any of his secrets to you, and doesn't care about your secrets, be careful, maybe he just wants to play with you.
If a person has true feelings for you, he can't wait to dig his heart out to you, and he can't wait to tell you all his secrets, share them with you, and let you know him. But the person who just wants to play with you will not do it, because he has to guard against you.
Concluding remarks:
’s most feared in love is that one’s passion is exchanged for the other’s carelessness. Therefore, when you are in a relationship, don’t rush to meet each other. Knowing talent is the key. When I can’t feel his actions above, when I feel his 100% sincerity, I don’t believe in love.late.