The greatest happiness in the world is not how much money you make or how many achievements you have, but when you are the loneliest, you have someone to accompany you and comfort you when you are the saddest.
Some people cannot understand love and take others' contributions as a matter of course. In the warmth and giving of their lovers, they lost their hearts and forgot the meaning of their love. The heartbeat of
is simple, but it is difficult to stay together. Only ask for, don't know how to give, and ultimately will only lose your own happiness. The truly beautiful feeling is that each other can warm each other.
is lucky to meet someone who doesn't ask for anything in return. In order to keep this happiness, we should give back with our sincerity. Remembering each other's goodness is the secret to long-lasting love.
However, it is a pity that some people don't know how to cherish the good of others, they just ask for it, but never know how to actively give. Such people are destined to not get the happiness they want.
"Sister, I am engaged next month, why don't you buy me a wedding house?" "Sorry, I am divorced"
01. It was not until the age of 32 that Zhou Ying got married as she wished. It's not that she is in bad condition, nor is she too selective, but her native family, which makes many men daunted.
Zhou Ying was born in a patriarchal family. Her parents value her only son very seriously and consider everything for him. On the contrary, for their daughter Zhou Ying, they don't care so much.
Zhou Ying has also developed the habit of putting her younger brother first. In her opinion, she can be a little wronged, but her brother must live well. When
is getting married, she not only asks her boyfriend to give 200,000 yuan as a gift, she also has to buy a car for her brother. She also indicated that she would leave it to her younger brother.
02. Several of Zhou Ying's boyfriends chose to break up with Zhou Ying because they could not accept this request. It was not until the age of 32 that Zhou Ying met Xie Hao and was able to get married.
Xie Hao has a good family background and he is also very capable. Maybe he really loves Zhou Ying, and even if Zhou Ying's request is really excessive, he also chose to accept it.
Not only that, after Zhou Ying married him, she often used their savings to subsidize her parents and brothers. Although he minded a little, he didn't say a single bad thing.
He always thinks that it is nothing to pay a little more, as long as two people can be happy. But unfortunately, his dedication and tolerance were taken for granted by Zhou Ying.
03. After discovering that Xie Hao didn't care about herself, Zhou Ying became more and more excessive. With a monthly salary of 8,000, she would only keep 2,000 for herself, and all the rest for her brother.
Sometimes, when Xie Hao bought something for herself, Zhou Ying would not say hello when she saw it, and she would take it directly to her younger brother without regard to her husband's feelings.
What really angered Xie Hao was Zhou Ying's promise to her younger brother. The younger brother is about to get married, but the marriage room has not yet settled. Zhou Ying felt sorry for her younger brother and immediately assured him:
"Don't worry, you get married and your sister will give you a house. Don’t worry about not living in a married house. Your brother-in-law can make money, and you are generous. You should give you a house." However, no matter how generous Xie Hao is, it is impossible to send a suite directly to the brother-in-law. Furthermore, his money is not easy to earn. So after hearing Zhou Ying's request, he refused without even thinking about it.
Zhou Ying couldn't accept Xie Hao's refusal, and immediately quarreled with Xie Hao. Neither of them wanted to step back, until a few days later, Zhou Ying threatened Xie Hao with a "divorce", and Xie Hao did not compromise as before.
"Do you want to get a divorce? Okay, let's go to the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow!" Xie Hao's decisiveness made Zhou Ying dumbfounded. She actually didn't want a divorce, but somehow she got to where she is now. Now, how should I explain to my brother?
"Sister, I'll get engaged next month, why don't you buy me a wedding house?" Zhou Ying was very guilty of her brother's questioning, and felt very sorry for her brother: "Brother, I'm sorry, I am going to divorce!"
wrote In the end:
Although Zhou Ying did not buy a wedding house for her brother in the end, and the two did not divorce because of this incident, the rift between the husband and wife has become bigger and bigger because of this farce. Z2z
will have Xie Hao in the future, and may never give as much carelessly as before. And Zhou Ying, who is used to enjoying, will also be because of her absurdity,Usher in the most painful punishment.
For a woman, her natal family is indeed important, and brothers are also their own blood relatives. Being a maiden brother has difficulties, and being a sister can help, and indeed should reach out to help.
But this does not mean that a woman can be a "helping demon", can harm her husband's interests without scruple, and use her own sacrifice to perfect her younger brother. Because everything should have a bottom line.
Faced with the husband’s contribution, women shouldn’t be indifferent. Your husband is willing to be nice to you because he loves you. But this is not the reason why you have to make an inch. His efforts should also be rewarded.
The true happiness is that the whole family treats each other sincerely, and it is the mutual giving of each other. Women remember the true heart of men, and it is not easy for men to understand women. Only in this way can happiness last forever.
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