Why is it said that the more independent a woman, the freer the marriage

remember that it was the year before yesterday. I visited our company’s partners. After that, everyone had a meal together. During the banquet, we toasted and drank. The person in charge did not drink, and everyone knew she could drink. She didn't understand, she said: I went to pick up my husband after the entertainment, and someone joked: Can the driver pick it up? One of

said, seemingly drunk but not drunk: "Too used to men, men will cheat." Everyone laughed, and saw her slightly saying: "Dare to cheat, so I changed him. A woman treats her husband well because it is a love, not a duty."

At that time, there was a kind of easy control over the meal in the air, without losing the elegance. After she left, her intelligence and happiness were talked about with relish.

In real life, many men feel that the best wife is:

goes to the kitchen, goes out of the hall,

firewood, rice, oil and salt, everything is proper,

takes care of the children and respects parents.

But what men ignore is that every woman has the willingness to pay like green leaves and red flowers, and has the ability to gallop the earth wildly like a tiger down the mountain. How could

compare a woman to a "tigress"!

A woman is willing to marry a man, not because of obligation, but because of love.

There is no woman who was born, lived for, died for, or served for whom. A woman is not a natural cheap labor for a family, let alone a free nanny.

Before marriage and after marriage, within ethics, women leave men and live bravely.

I once persuaded a female colleague in our unit not to resign and become a housewife, and at the same time agree with another female colleague to resign. Many people cannot understand.

does not approve of the female colleague who resigned. She does not have the ability to support herself. If her husband has a double heart, her savings are not enough to solve her food and clothing problem. This is not the most important thing. The key point is that she does not have the skills Can make her easily find a job.

The most dangerous and scary thing for a person is that he has neither money nor skills to establish a foothold in society. The female colleague who agreed to resign from

was a clinical professional at a medical university and also obtained a doctor's qualification certificate. Later, she worked in the People's Hospital of her hometown and became an excellent obstetrician and gynecologist.

She told me that I was the only one supporting her at that time. Her parents worry that she will live a hungry and full life without a stable job. But she never worried that her husband would leave her.

has the ability to base itself on the society and live independently;

has the ability to settle down, walk the rivers and lakes without worrying about food and clothing.

The more independent a woman is, the more free her attitude towards marriage is. Independence is the capital of a woman's life.

Independent women treat marriage, very important but not the only one in life.

The weight of marriage must be very important in life, but it should not be too heavy. The lighter

, the freer the woman.

The so-called freedom means that we can respect and love each other and grow old together, and I can live well alone!