The most youthful age of a woman is before the age of 30. Once a woman is over 30 and has not married, she will be labeled as "older". Although older single women have the maturity that younger girls do not, they also lose the best capital of women-youth.
Huang Xiaoxiao is a 34-year-old single woman. She was labeled as "older" four years ago. Although she has always emphasized the freedom and chicness of being single with relatives and friends who urged her to marry In the dead of night, she still felt pain for her single loneliness.
There are fewer friends around
Huang Xiaoxiao’s popularity has always been very good. When she was at the center of the class, she was willing to study and work with her. She also actively participated in various school activities. And also made a lot of close friends.
In the seven or eight years after graduating from university, she still kept in touch with her former good friends and often met and chatted together, which was very lively. The turning point that made her feel lonely began when the friends around her got married one by one.
Although she is also in contact with her friends now, most of her friends either need to take care of the children or work hard. They don’t have time to meet at all, and sometimes even the messages she sends in the past cannot be responded to in time. This also made her feel sad when she had fewer friends.
Pursuing his own male quality is getting worse and worse.
Huang Xiaoxiao has a sense of superiority in emotional terms. During her single years, too many men pursued her. But because there are too many, she is more likely to refuse a man, and even because the other party did not clean his shoes when they met, she directly told him not to contact him again, very resolute. In just a few years, many men who pursued her have done well in their careers and have happy families, which made her feel envious and regretful. Maybe she agreed to the pursuit of one of them, maybe that. The person who enjoys a happy marriage is himself.
There are also men who pursue Huang Xiaoxiao, but the quantity and quality are getting worse and worse. It is not a middle-aged greasy man much older than her, or a low-income man who is about her age or much younger. These people's pursuits make her feel Disgusted. Especially an unemployed suitor who was seven years younger than her always appeared by her side, making her feel more and more bored.
I don’t believe in love less and less, and I just want to find a man with good conditions to get married, so as to get rid of the current dilemma. She is a lot of men who can get her out of the current predicament, then she can accept to marry him, or even just talk about a short relationship.
In Huang Xiaoxiao's mind, "bread" is more useful than "love". Although she had lived a single life for a long time, she still didn't want to have any contact with some bad men. This was her bottom line. Perhaps it was precisely because she was not ready to share the joys and sorrows with the other half, she could only still be trapped in the predicament and it was difficult to get out. The above three points of
are Huang Xiaoxiao, an older single woman, who has three real feelings of skin pain, which is really helpless. When friends of older single women are focused on career, family, and children, those non-essential old friends will naturally be ignored; when outstanding men pursue young women under 30, then older single women Naturally, there will be no higher-quality suitors; when an older single woman no longer believes in love, and does not want to share the joys and sorrows with the other half, then a capable man will also consider whether her purpose of marrying herself is simple enough.
Huang Xiaoxiao’s feelings are believed to be shared by many older single women, but everyone’s degree is different. Age is a hurdle that women can never get around, so it is better to be pragmatic and realistic.
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