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Love is a very beautiful emotion, which can often make people confused and intrigued. Therefore, some people use the banner of love to do shameless things, such as extramarital affairs.
When encountering an extramarital affair, it is best to be calm, and don't betray your marriage in a muddle. A married person is not qualified to pursue the opposite sex outside of marriage. This is the most basic morality of life, and it is also stipulated by the marriage law. If you are not satisfied with your marriage, you can get a divorce. After the divorce, do whatever you want.
But during the marriage, you have to be faithful to the marriage, this is the bottom line of marriage. If you don't care and break this bottom line casually, you will be punished sooner or later. The word "lust" has a knife on it, since ancient times, adultery has killed people, so the consequences of extramarital affairs are terrible.
There are some men who clearly have a happy marriage, but they still fantasize that "the colorful flags are fluttering outside, and the red flags at home will not fall." As a result, they are ruined and their wives are scattered. Many times in life, "fish and bear's paw cannot have both", so it is best not to think about it, otherwise the price will be paid.
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Daxin, my classmate in high school, originally had a very happy family. His wife is a nurse in the hospital. He is an accountant. The couple have been married for 12 years and have an 8-year-old son.
But later, an intern Xiao Rui came to Daxin's unit, who was 14 years younger than Daxin. Xiao Rui had just started working and had no work experience. Da Xin enthusiastically helped her. Xiao Rui was very grateful to Da Xin and admired Da Xin.
In the eyes of a little girl like Xiaorui, Daxin is mature and stable, has a strong working ability, has a certain financial strength, and knows how to be considerate and caring for people, so he naturally likes Daxin, and Daxin is confused. Di and Xiao Rui are together.
Several of our old classmates saw something wrong, and we all persuaded Daxin to rein in the precipice and refrain from learning from others for extramarital affairs. But Daxin said that Xiao Rui really loves him, Xiao Rui doesn't want anything, and will not force him to divorce, as long as he is with him.
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We thought it was funny, how could Xiaorui want nothing? She's just still young and she's not in a hurry to get married, so she mingled with Daxin. But Daxin was stuck in this relationship stupidly, and he was happy, feeling that "the colorful flags are fluttering outside, and the red flags at home will not fall."
Two years later, the hard and hard days have come. He quietly told us that Xiao Rui forced him to get a divorce and quarreled with him in two days. Da Xin never thought of divorcing at all. Although he had a lover outside, he was still very satisfied with his wife, not to mention that the couple had a son!
Da Xin didn't understand. At first, Xiao Rui kept saying that she didn't want anything. She only wanted to be with Da Xin, but now why does Xiao Rui want everything? She wants Daxin to get a divorce, to marry him, to obtain a marriage certificate with Daxin, to ask for a bride price, for a wedding, for a house, and a car.
Seeing that Daxin was not divorced, Xiao Rui went to find Daxin's wife to force the palace. Daxin's wife is a person with strong self-esteem. Since Xiaosan is forced to come home, she has no love for Daxin anymore, so she divorced Daxin happily.
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After Da Xin divorced his wife, Xiao Rui got married. He and Xiao Rui had a lot of conflicts for the bride price and the house. Later, she finally got married, but after marriage, Xiao Rui guarded Daxin like a thief, for fear that Daxin would have other women outside. There is no sense of trust between
husband and wife, this marriage is difficult to maintain, so Da Xin and Xiao Rui are not happy. At this point, Da Xin really regretted that he had derailed at the beginning. If it weren't for Xiao Rui, he would be like this more than today! Three years after the divorce of
, one day after Da Xin and Xiao Rui quarreled, he was depressed and went for a walk on the street alone. As a result, he saw his ex-wife and son, as well as the ex-wife's current husband. The current husband is holding the child born after the ex-wife's remarriage in his hands. The family of 4 is shopping happily.
Daxin rushed to the road immediately, he didn't want to be seen by his ex-wife and son. After his ex-wife and the others left, Daxin squatted on the ground and wept bitterly. How much he hopes that life can return to before the derailment.
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Now when talking about cheating, Daxin always advises others not to cheat.Outside of marriage, even when a man meets a fairy, he must not cheat. Besides, there is no fairy at all in this world.
The girls who keep saying that they don't want anything are often the ones who ask for the most in the end. What they call not wanting is actually a long-line trick to catch big fish. Everyone’s heart expects to be rewarded for what they give. If they don’t want to repay, I am afraid that only the love of their parents is the only one.
is a treat between men and women, it is normal to think of giving back after paying. A girl spends her youth on a married man. She always wants to do something! You might say that it is out of love. Cuteness always has conditions. There is no love and hate for no reason in this world.
Any married person must not cheat. Extramarital affairs look beautiful. There is love without responsibility, but when you really have an extramarital affair, you will know how terrible it is. Therefore, you are still loyal to your marriage, loyal to your choices when you get married, and manage your marriage steadily, and marriage will reward you with happiness.
[Picture from the Internet]
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