Every woman has to face the danger of having a child. When a child is born, it is also the most vulnerable time for a woman. If someone can help her at this time, she can feel others for a lifetime, and if someone hurts her, then she can also bear hatred for a lifetime.
Serving your daughter-in-law in confinement is something every mother-in-law must do. On the contrary, some mother-in-laws think that this is not what they should do, and even think that the woman lying in bed giving birth has nothing to do with them. The mother-in-law doesn't even serve the confinement, so don't blame your daughter-in-law for being cruel to you in the future.
When Yaxin married Xiaoqiang, she was a single-parent family. She was young and looked down upon her in-laws. She did not even give a gift, so she married Yaxin home. Two months after the marriage of
, Yaxin became pregnant. In order to save more money, Yaxin did not miss work during her pregnancy. When
came to give birth, the mother-in-law showed special enthusiasm, and she said to Yaxin in front of her relatives and friends, “I will reward Yaxin with seafood dinners in the future. Yaxin is a great hero of our family.”
waited until the relatives and friends left. , The mother-in-law was uncharacteristically, not only did not reward Yaxin, but said to Yaxin: "My arm is not good, you can cook by yourself," Yaxin dragged her tired body to cook.
In the middle of the night, the child cried, and the mother-in-law slept beside the bed pretending not to hear, Yaxin endured the pain of the knife and held the child in her arms with tears. Feed the baby and change the diaper alone.
waited until the 25th day, the mother-in-law said to Yaxin, "I have to go to work, and you can take your child with you for the rest of the day." Although Yaxin has been given birth for more than 20 days, but the body She hasn't recovered well, and her stomach ache often, for the sake of the child, she always insisted.
Once, her mother-in-law came back and found that Yaxin was not cooking, and said to Yaxin sarcastically, "If you can cook your own food, you can't cook ours. You will be squeamish if you sit for months?"
Yaxin knew she was in the moon She couldn't get angry, so she pretended not to hear, but she remembered what the mother-in-law said. After
was out of confinement, Yaxin finally saw what kind of person her mother-in-law was, and no longer had any expectations of her.
She knew she had no support, so she worked hard and became the supervisor of the unit in just 2 years, and her salary doubled.
This day she received a call from her mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law said to her: "Daughter-in-law , Can I borrow some money when I am sick?" "I have not forgotten the confinement hatred, I will not borrow any money!" Yaxin said firmly.
's husband accused Yaxin of disrespect, but he didn't understand what happened in the confinement, and a woman would never forget it for a lifetime. Besides, my daughter-in-law has no obligation to honor my in-laws. If you treat me well, then I will treat you well. If you treat me badly, then I am sorry, and I will retaliate you in the same way you treat me.
The relationship between people is after all a change of heart. If you are good to others, then others will be good to you. Especially between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if the mother-in-law treats her daughter-in-law badly, then don't think that the daughter-in-law is good to her mother-in-law, and all this is changed by yourself.
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