is a very painful experience for many people. In the face of people who have loved each other, many people cannot accept such a result.
In the relationship, there are also false breakups and true breakups. There are some differences between boys and girls.
Girls are more emotional. Generally speaking, breaking up is not a real breakup, but an emotional vent, and the chance of recombination is relatively large; boys are more rational, and the decision to break up is often made after careful consideration and weighing the pros and cons. Generally it is more difficult to recombine . As long as the reason for the breakup of
is not some extreme circumstances, such as unforgivable factors such as cheating, violence, etc., it is only a matter of time to recover through some appropriate methods.
Lovers who really love each other will not be happy after the breakup, especially girls. In fact, after the breakup, some of the girl's behavior is to tell you that she doesn't really want to break up.
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often follow your news
Maybe a girl will say some cruel words when breaking up, and she is very decisive in language, but in private, she will also pay attention to your dynamics and inquire about your affairs.
For example:
will send you messages on your birthday;
often likes and comments on your circle of friends;
will care about you when you are sick;
will follow your Weibo, Douyin, Zhihu and other social media Information;
If these signs happen, it means that she has not completely let go of you, and you still have a chance to get back together. Compared with boys, girls are more emotional and value a relationship, which makes it harder to let go.
If she secretly inquires about your recent status with friends, secretly looks at your circle of friends, and follows your social media status, these behaviors all imply that you may still get back together.
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does not have a new love, alone
If after breaking up, she did not choose a new love, but alone, indicating that she is a person responsible for feelings.
Maybe she wants to be quiet, think about the relationship between you or organize her life. Without Xinhuan, maybe she is still unwilling to give up this relationship, waiting for you to look back.
So if she does not have a new love within 1-2 months, your chances of recovery will be greater.
Of course having a new love does not mean that you have no chance. It is very likely that he just got your attention through the new love. Of course,
has a new love in such a short period of time, and such a person is not worth your recovery.
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There is still normal communication and communication between you
If you break up, you do not have bad words at each other, but communicate and communicate normally like friends, like and comment in the circle of friends, and there will be some chats at the same time, the possibility of your reunion Also very big.
For example:
discusses some of her recent lives with you;
agrees with your invitation to her.
Faced with your news, the girl did not show perfunctory and impatience. She would give you some positive responses and reply with a lot of words, indicating that she still cares about this feeling and cares about you.
gave you some room after
broke up, you didn't tear your face and cut off all the chances of recombination, but she gave you some room.
For example:
WeChat and contact information are available;
has a reservation for the gift you sent;
did not announce the breakup in social status. In the
movie "Former Three", after Lin Jia decides to break up, she has been slowly packing up her things before leaving, and she also made some noises from time to time. After leaving home, she also left some of her own clothes. After finding a new residence, Ask Meng Yun to send it to her.
She did not block all the way out, but reserved some leeway. This information is a signal. The above behaviors of
can be used as the basis for judging whether the girlfriend is willing to recombine. The specific situation can be judged according to the actual situation.
People who have truly loved each other will not let go so easily after breaking up, even if she does not show pain and sadness, many people just feel unhappy and painful.
Generally, girls pay more attention to relationships. It is not so fast to let go of a relationship. It is only a matter of time before they want to save their girlfriends.
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