I haven't finished reading the book "Pick Up the Flower in the Evening" for a long time. For the time being, let's write down my feelings slowly. I don’t know if there are many friends who have read the article "What happened after Nora is gone". I want to write about my feelings about this article.
From this article, Mr. Lu Xun is still an earlier caller of women's rights.
Many people would say from Mr. Lu Xun’s wife Xianglin and Kong Yiji that he focused on portraying classic characters of that era, thus ignoring Lu Xun’s radical role in feminism.
This article talks about a woman who has awakened. She is not satisfied with being a housewife or a husband’s doll. She wants to have an independent personality and humanity instead of being imprisoned, and then she will live a lifetime. Although Nora's article did not give the results of Nora's departure, Lu Xun talked about the consequences of Nora's departure from his own perspective.
1. Hit a wall and go home again. There is no doubt that the flight failed.
2. If you don’t come back, how to survive, and whether you have enough survival skills, that is, the ability to make money. If there is no start-up capital, she can't even get out of this city, so she doesn't have to talk about other things.
Lu Xun finally concluded that if Nora wants to leave, he needs to have two conditions, one is the starting capital to leave, and the other is the ability to earn money after leaving. That is, the ability to face the storms of life alone.
If women want to be independent, they must get rid of their husbands’ financial constraints on them. In this regard, Mr. Lu Xun encourages women to have their own jobs and independent lives to obtain corresponding economic and social status. The article
is not long, but its thought is advanced enough to shame the current pastoral feminists. After all, there are still many pastoral feminists who follow the principle: I will enjoy the rights and you will bear the responsibilities. This will inevitably lead to women not being as independent and free as imagined.
I hope that all female friends can have their own independent economic status, respect and love each other with their husbands, and enjoy a happy family. Home is the common destination of men and women, and patriarchy and feminist rights should take care of wives more in family life. After all, as a husband, you must use your strength and ability to protect your wife and family, not to bully your own wife. But this is not to cover up the realization of women's rights.
is just a lot of times, the family cannot simply be attributed to who is right and who is wrong, and mutual concessions and compromises are the biggest secrets for family happiness. Of course, both men and women face similar pressures at work. Therefore, mutual understanding and understanding can make this family prosperous. You love me and I love you, achieving a virtuous circle. No one wants to fight with his boss in the company or with his husband or wife at home. If this is the case, don't people have a way to survive, and they can't rest at all times.
I feel that my thinking is quite divergent. From the independence and awareness of women's rights, I even wrote about rural feminism, and then I wrote about how couples get along, and finally I have a basic summary. I have to say that my writing ability is not good and I can hardly control the direction of the article. needs improvement. Improve after
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References
Lu Xun, Chaohua Xishi [M] Shandong: China Overseas Chinese Press, 2018 (5): 1-186
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