After marriage, do middle-aged people still believe in love?
Many netizens said: The uninteresting life after marriage has wiped out the original love. If middle-aged people still believe in love, they must be inexperienced in the world, or they are really married to the right person.
Actually, the marriage love of middle-aged people is not gone, but it exists in a different way.
Especially after the couples who have experienced the seven-year itch, the "love" extracted from their marriage is a kind of feeling beyond family affection.
The love of adults, stripped of youthfulness is like a jar of old wine, the deeper the age, the more attractive it is! Although
is no longer like the throbbing heart when I first saw it, but there is a tacit understanding of heart-to-heart! Although
has no warm love words, it is tacitly tacit to each other. It is the mellow fragrance after precipitation, and it is the waiting and perseverance when love becomes family.
The love of adults is more silent than the voice that can still look at each other and understand each other’s heart many years later. It feels different, but the friendship is deeper...
The old couples who are still holding on to the gray-haired white-haired couple on the street, become How many people are the envy of? Although
has gone through the vicissitudes of life, in their eyes, each other is the most beautiful existence. The love of
when I was young originated from beauty, but was lost to the odds and ends of life.
is like what Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: "Marriage is like a siege. People inside want to go out and people outside want to come in."
People only remember that Qian Zhongshu said that marriage is like a besieged city, but they don't know how happy he is in this besieged city!
Together they built a besieged city full of happiness, a besieged city that they never want to go out.
They have achieved "a great relationship between life and death, happy with the son, holding the hand of the son, and growing old with the son", they have achieved a perfect match, each other, and more importantly, they have achieved happiness in the ordinary.
"Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang" reproduces the full picture of the life, love and creation of the couple in the literary world for decades, and perfectly interprets the past of the two elders.
Marriage is like a besieged city. People who have these "three hearts" will never leave the city.
1, a heart of awe
People who enter marriage must not be too capricious, and only a sense of awe can be guaranteed Marriage is safe and protects the family well.
We must learn to fear life, the hard-won family, love, and friendship. In fact, the love between husband and wife is the most complicated and simplest relationship in the world.
It surpasses the love of parents for their children, the love between brothers and sisters, and the love between lovers.
It is like a jar of fine wine. The longer the age, the more different the mood to taste it. Only when we are in awe of it in fashion, can we find fun in it and let our hearts go home.
Helplessly, many people turn this precious feeling into indifference.
2. After marriage, Changxin
lost the enthusiasm of first love. In the ordinary life of the two people, only trivial things are left. Some people enjoy this trifle, while others are suffering. Everything comes from one An ordinary heart.
A man regrets marrying anyone, and a woman marrying anyone feels that he married the wrong person.
Only true precipitation of love can taste its mellow fragrance, just like a married couple for many years, although there is no sweet love, but there is a tacit understanding that has gone through hardships and will never leave.
It is very important to have a normal heart. No one's marriage is always vigorous, after all, everyone will be aesthetically tired.
However, the best husband and wife relationship is not always fresh, but many years later, there is a tacit understanding that can't break up or scold away.
3. Grateful heart
It is very important to have a grateful heart. This applies not only to relatives and friends, but also to husband and wife. Moreover, what is most lacking between husband and wife is the heart of gratitude.
Two people who are familiar with each other are no longer polite, but they must be grateful. Don't take each other's contributions to marriage, life, and children for granted. Who doesn't want to live comfortably! Only two people who support each other can experience the joy of love in the trivialities of marriage.
Actually, contentment is always happy, many couplesWhen there is a relationship problem, a third party is enough to make a marriage tumultuous, but whether it is a man or a woman cheating, they should have this kind of thinking: don't let love become hurt.
The love of adults is no longer as arbitrary as it was in the youth. Love whoever wants to love, love is heartbeat, love is restraint.
When you love one person and hurt another, this kind of love can only be forgotten.
When you want to love another person besides your partner, do you think: She/he once touched me deeply. The love that
has can only end in lips and teeth, and is hidden in the years.
Some people, it is better to miss each other!
The difference between humans and animals is that humans can subjectively restrain their emotions and control their behavior.
Author: zero voices
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Love is mutual, don't let love become hurt!
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