Nowadays, young people, especially older single women, are inevitably urged to marry by their parents, and they have to face the questions and weird eyes of relatives and friends.
In this group, the reasons for late marriage are complicated. Some of them are dedicated to their careers, some of them are committed to freedom and singleism, and some of them are not high or low, which leads to the embarrassing situation of older adults.
What is the mentality of those older single women? Xiaobai is tall and tall, with a good face, a gentle personality, a bachelor's degree, and works in a state-owned enterprise after graduation. He has a stable job and no bad habits. When
was 20 years old, she had very high requirements for her other half, looks handsome, has high education, good family conditions, and perfect personality ... This has caused the suitors around her to retreat steadily.
is in her 30s and she is still picking and choosing, but she finds that the quality of the opposite sex around her is getting worse and worse. The relatives and friends introduced to herself even have children from second marriages.
This also caused a lot of discussions among relatives and friends. In the face of this reality, Xiao Bai regretted and felt helpless, and even planned not to get married all his life . In fact, making friends depends on character, character, and three perspectives, not to mention having to rush into marriage.
But if you meet like-minded people, even if there are some minor shortcomings, as long as it is harmless, you don't need to demand others' perfect . After all,
has its own shortcomings. If we understand, appreciate, and tolerate each other, we can work together for a lifetime.
Ling Yun is a woman who pursues a higher level. She graduated from a prestigious university with a master's degree. She is a well-deserved "returnee" family. Due to her strong ability, she soon took the position of middle management in the company with a mid-level income.
But she is too ambitious and has no feelings about love and marriage , she exudes a high-cold aura all over her body, and the suitors are repelled by the full demeanor.
herself is not in a hurry, has heard of too many examples of women being restrained by marriage and family. Instead, she thinks that being single is a good choice .
plans to develop a career. Even if you don't meet the right people, you can travel around the world after retirement and go to nursing homes when you are old, and you can live your own life. Everyone has their own choices and their own life plans, and there is no need to demand that all women enter marriage at the right age and put too much pressure on others.
Even if there is no marriage plan for the time being, girls must insist on living a better life , insist on using love to repay their parents who love themselves; insist on complying with all the plans and arrangements of life.
is not afraid to endure hardship, can bear the pressure, life is not easy, but you must not be afraid to pay for your own choices and assume your due responsibilities.
Little A is a girl with a unique vision. She has ordinary conditions. She had been in a relationship for five years before, but because the other party cheated and cruelly proposed to break up, she was traumatized inside. Although
is over thirty-three years old, her parents urged one after another, but still did not come out of the previous haze. She lived in fear and worry every day, even unwilling to get along with the opposite sex too much, let alone Willing to do it for fear of being hurt again .
Actually, I really want to tell her: before
meets the "right him", what do you need to insist on?
Take care of yourself, stick to a healthy lifestyle, and maintain an optimistic attitude. waits for the person who you love enough and loves you enough to arrive,
if he comes, he will be happy to see you like this, if not, you have to live hard and happily. What are the stories of older single women around you?
write everything about human love and warmth, I hope we can all have a ray of light
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