When getting along with the opposite sex, the other person's mind and thoughts are often the most difficult to understand, but people always want to explore, especially women.
Most women are insecure, so whether a man really loves himself and how much he loves himself is what women want to know most in a relationship.
On this question, most women choose to ask each other directly. This is why women always ask men "Do you love me?"
However, this method often fails to have a good effect, and it is naturally impossible to get an accurate answer. Because words can be deceiving, no one can tell.
Xiao Wenwen, 25, has been working in a design studio since graduating from university. Her relationship experience is blank and she has never fallen in love.
But she was lucky, she met her first love Li Fan-a man who loved her to the bone. Li Fan is 28 years old. He started a business with his friends.
Li Fan first met Xiao Wenwen in his new office. Xiao Wenwen was the designer in charge of his case.
At that time, he was attracted by Xiao Wenwen's boldness and ability. Later, after understanding and getting acquainted with the two people, he even discovered that she was sweet in life, and sometimes she was cute.
Inadvertently, Li Fan has slowly fallen in love with her. So, taking advantage of the celebration banquet after the design was over, Li Fan showed her his intentions.
Xiao Wenwen, who has a good impression of him, naturally agreed. The two got married quickly in the fourth month after being together, and they are still very happy today.
said that Li Fan loves her to the bone, because even when chatting with her, he can show his full love for her.
When the two are getting along, every time they talk or communicate, Li Fan first considers her feelings, and never speaks harder words.
What topic she likes, he will follow her to talk, for fear that she will feel unhappy. His carefulness to her was carried through to every bit of life and every little detail.
Chatting and talking are what we have to happen every day, and it is also the most frequent thing. At this time, a person's attitude towards you can be fully understood from the way he chats with you.
Therefore, as a woman, you have to understand that a man who loves you deeply will use this way of chatting to get along with you.
"Shared" chats
Have you ever met a man who would not say anything when chatting with you, it was just what you were talking about?
believe that under such a situation, you are extremely resistant in your heart and very tired. In this case, at first glance, the other party does not call you at all, which is completely boring.
In fact, the more a man loves you, the more he will say when he chats with you. You can find that a man who loves you to the bone will always share everything about him with you. When
was chatting with you, he wished he could tell you all the happy and the unhappy. Because, in his heart, you are already the person he thinks is the closest.
"caring" chat
has such a way of chatting that when a person is chatting with you, he will keep asking you questions. For example, your preferences, one thing you are happy about, whether you have had a good time recently.
At this time, there are two types of concerns, one is to ask you something about your health because you are worried about you; the other is to ask you about daily things because you want to know more about you.
If a man chats with you in this way, then you have to pay attention, this man loves you to the bone in all likelihood.
loves you very much, so he can't help but want to know all about you, and he will also be afraid and worry about your bad life.
"Considering" chats
, there are always some people who, when chatting with others, do not take into account their feelings. For example, when the other party just broke up in love, when he was chatting with her, he would keep spreading dog food or keep talking about love.
If you meet a man in this way when chatting with you, then this man must not love youof.
The man who really loves you, he won't point to your sore spot. On the contrary, he will worry about your feelings, care about your thoughts, for fear that his own way will make you unhappy.
And the degree of this consideration will continue to change with the degree to which this man loves you.
West sister summary:
can be seen from some details in life, you can test the degree of a man loves you, the way of chatting is just a small detail.
A man who loves you to the bone, when chatting with you, either starts from himself or starts from you, and his ultimate goal is you.
And a man who does not love you, when chatting with you, his starting point is mostly other people, even other women, because his heart is not on you.
speech can be disguised and deceived, but a person’s style cannot be deceived. This is like when you encounter a ditch that you can't go through, your first reaction will definitely be to find a new way.