Do these three things in chat, so you can talk about her as your girlfriend

chatting with a woman is the so-called opening. Many boys have asked me such a question, that is, is there such a universal opening remark that all girls can reply to you? Then I can be very responsible to tell the boys "no", no man can please all the women in the world, even Wu Yanzu.

What is the reason why the girls don’t reply to you?

First of all, go to meet a girl on some social software to chat, then you must have seen a girl’s picture, and you think she looks good, so you will take the initiative to greet her. The thing, that is, while you are greeting her, how many men are also greeting her?

Suppose, one day plus you, a total of 10 men greet her, so why does she reply to you?

If the way you say hello is "what are you doing, beauties" and the way other men greet you is "what are you doing, beauties," then why should she reply to you?

So boys, first of all, they must be aware of such a problem and improve their opening remarks and presentation.

1. The opening statement

adheres to a principle: women are always interested in their own affairs

. Therefore, our opening statement should focus on her presentation, or hobbies and the like.

is the simplest example. For example, if you see a selfie in the display of a girl, and you find that she has a pair of sexy red lips, then you can say "Hey, sexy "Little lips", is this kind of opening remarks much more interesting?

For another example, if you find that she has a vest line in her fitness show, then you can say "Hey, miss the vest line" in your opening statement. Isn't it much richer than your previous opening statement? At the same time, you will find that this kind of opening remarks will greatly increase the probability of girls replying to you.

2. Conversational network that will not die

Many boys and girls are willing to chat with you, and even take the initiative to chat, but it is easy for you to chat to death. In the end, girls feel that you are too boring to be You lose interest. In fact, the biggest reason for this problem is that in many cases, the messages you send to girls don't know how they should reply to you, so that you are chatting to death.

Take an example: You ask the girls "have you eaten?" Then boys, think about it, what is the girl's answer? Basically, there are only two types of replies: eaten and not eaten. That is to say, when you finish the sentence above, you can actually think of it, and she will basically reply you something.

That kind of chat will lead to one question and one answer. For example, you may continue to ask "what's your food" and "is it delicious?" meaningless nonsense, so the girl may not reply to you directly. What's more, I like to send girls "are you there", which is even more embarrassing.

Because if a girl is willing to reply to you after seeing it, she basically can only reply with an answer like "in", so this sentence is more like a nonsense. And boys, do you think girls like a man who talks nonsense?

So, try to replace these questions with declarative sentences, so that you will not ask and answer each time, and it will not appear too deliberate.

For example, "Have you eaten?" can be replaced with "It's time to stop work and have a delicious dinner". In fact, if you send a sentence to a girl, have you found that she can reply to your points? "Work, delicious", so that it won't be so boring, and they can take a bit better.

3. Mobilize girls’ emotions (adjectives)

This point is the most important point in chat, and it also determines whether girls will feel about you and bring them a good chat experience. Here I focus on introducing one to boys Skill, that is to add more adjectives. Adjectives are very contagious in the chat process, and can be very effective to improve your expression.

I once did such a survey in an open class: I asked the boys to think of me as a girl, and now I took the initiative to send it to the boysSay "What did you eat at noon?" Then look at the boys' replies. To be honest, I was very dissatisfied with the final survey results, because I found that many boys are actually in a state of very low EQ.

Let me list a few error responses that I think are very serious:

1. Rice

2. Just eat some

3. Beef noodles (fried rice with eggs, a kind of intuitive expression)

4. I can’t eat what you want

5. If you eat you

, I won’t —— enumerate, the first two answers are equivalent to talking nonsense, and answering is equivalent to not answering, which will make the girl very speechless, and then may reply with "Oh" and nothing else. Two of the answers are too demanding, which will scare away the girls and expose their dick mentality, which is also undesirable. The middle one is to tell the girls what to eat directly and clearly, without the context of dialogue.

In fact, the answer to this kind of question can be significantly improved by adding an adjective.

For example, if you reply to a girl "eat beef noodles", the girl definitely doesn't know how to pick it up, so she might reply you with "Oh oh". If you reply to "a bowl of it feels very strange, boys "Beef noodles"?

At this time, is the focus of the chat suddenly changed? Girls will be curious and will ask you "what is strange" and other replies, then in such a situation, can you take advantage of the trend to invite you? For example, "It's weird to feel unspeakable. I will take you to taste it for yourself another day." Boys, do you feel the charm of adjectives now?

can not only extend the discourse, but also let the flow of the invitation happen, and increase the success rate of the invitation, and your kind of invitation like "Are you free these days, can you have a meal together?" Is it more rejected or successful? How many?

So boys, have you learned? There are many adjectives, and using the most appropriate one at a critical time can have a multiplier effect.