/Mo Ran
all said that a good relationship is two people together, there are endless words, endless meals, endless days of talking, this is probably the best emotional state in life.
Two people get along, rely on communication. No matter how good the relationship is, they need to communicate with each other. This is the most straightforward way to maintain the relationship.
If you want to go on in a relationship for a long time, you don't have to say a lot, but you need to know how to speak well, and say more words that make the other person happy to praise and encourage.
As the saying goes, good men are always boasted. In fact, it is not how good a man is, but what you do. Behind a good man is a smart woman.
Therefore, when two people are together, no matter how good the relationship is, don't say such things before going to bed. It is easy to destroy the harmony.
01, say something to slander each other
Actually, a relationship requires effort and energy to maintain. To maintain a long-term harmonious relationship between two people, it is more important to understand one's psychology.
In this world, everyone hopes to be praised and recognized by the one they love. Sometimes a word of yours will make the other person more powerful.
So for smart people, they will be good at speaking well, especially when the other party is most sensitive and fragile, saying some comfort and worrying about his words will make him feel warm in his heart, and naturally he will also realize you Good, cherish you twice.
On the contrary, if one person complains about it at every turn, and blames the other party for this or that, just imagine who can stand it.
has to say that the power of language is still very powerful. In your opinion, an unintentional mistake may be a kind of harm to the other party.
So, no matter how good the relationship is between two people, don't challenge each other's limits. The lethality of those remarks will be enough to make one person gradually disappoint you.
Emotion is the place where love is concerned. What is needed is the tolerance and accommodation of both parties, so that each other can be more harmonious.
02. Say bad things about each other’s family members
For any relationship, the most taboo is to use the other’s parents and family members at every turn. Relationships are two people’s affairs, and problems should be resolved by themselves instead of involving family members.
In many cases, once family members are involved, the impact will be even greater, and it may be out of control.
Lovers can quarrel occasionally and say anything at will, but parents and relatives should be respected. No matter what they do wrong, they are always elders and there is no need to worry too much. The more you care about
, the more you may distract the two people. Smart people will avoid this, no matter how arguing, they will not involve others.
If you want to really compare love and family affection, you don't necessarily know which one is more important.
So there is no need to compare it. Once the result is not as good as you think, you may only be injured in the end.
If you want to have a harmonious relationship with each other, you should speak with a certain degree, know what to say and what not to say, don't involve too many things too much, but learn to be considerate.
03, say some angry words about breaking up
Many people have such a habit of avoiding all kinds of problems when they encounter problems, and use breakups to threaten each other at every turn and test their feelings towards themselves.
may be the first time the other party will compromise because of loving you, but doing so in the long run will only consume the other party's true heart for you.
Love cannot withstand temptation. Once it is overdone, the other party may not take you to heart anymore.
Love should be sacred. You don’t just break up to force the other person to bow their heads and apologize if you encounter problems. This will only make one hate you more and more. problem. The person
may speak quickly, but he will have a heart when he listens. If he speaks too much, the other person will take it seriously, and he will naturally treat you more and more coldly.
At any time, the best way to encounter a problem is to calmly stop to communicate and solve it, instead of talking about the breakup. You know, a person's heart is chilled if he speaks coldly.
summary:
in a relationship, the best state,If you have a problem, you can talk frankly and honestly with each other. Don't talk madly or hurt each other with harsh words.
Once the feelings are consumed, the heart will be completely cold. Therefore, at any time, no matter how good the relationship is, we must speak well so that our relationship will be more harmonious.
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