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Although some studies have shown that the current society is a society with more men and fewer women, so many single men cannot find a target, but in my opinion, the imbalance between men and women is one aspect. The reason why many people are single is still because of the bride price. Let’s talk about it today.
Recently, Xiaobo was very upset and felt that his girlfriend's request was too much.
And his girlfriend Xiaochao also feels that her boyfriend Xiaobo doesn't love herself at all.
Xiaobo and Xiaochao were introduced to each other by a friend, and they gradually became acquainted with each other. The relationship has always been very good, so they are planning to get engaged first.
At Xiaochao’s home, the engagement is the first to take out the bride price, and it is placed on a table separately in the form of cash at the engagement banquet. In addition to the bride price, you also need to buy gold in advance and put it together. on the table.
Xiaobo also knows this custom, and agrees to give a betrothal gift.
However, Xiaobo didn't ask how much gift he wanted. He thought it would be 36666 yuan or 60,000 yuan like his hometown, or 80,000 yuan if it was higher.
was eating out that day, Xiaobo casually mentioned the price of the gift, and then told the quotation of his home.
Unexpectedly, Xiao Chao pouted his lips and said: Is that just a little bit? There is more than that here in my house.
Xiaobo prepared 80,000 yuan at home, which is only so much, so he quickly asked Xiaochao how much money.
didn't expect Xiaochao to open his mouth and said: 300,000 yuan. Girls who are about my age in my family get married with 300,000 gifts.
As soon as Xiaobo heard this, Xiao Chao also said: Don't worry, I won't leave all of my house, I will give you half of it.
Xiaobo wanted to swear at the time, but he resisted it and gave me half of the refund. The problem is that the 300,000 yuan must be taken out first, and it must be displayed. If you steal it, you can’t get so much money, he I think the woman's family is too much.
However, he calmly said to Xiaochao: Look, for us to get married, did my family buy a house? Can't you think about it from my perspective? Why compare with others? Where can I go and give out 300,000 to your family? It's too much. My family originally meant to give you 80,000. My family doesn't ask your family to return it, nor do you want your dowry. Then I ask you, my family pays 300,000 yuan, does your family have a dowry?
did not expect Xiaochao to say: What dowry, no dowry. How much is 300,000? Everyone is like this. You give my family 80,000. Where do you let my parents face? Besides, let's be together for 3 years. We have lived together for 3 years. Shouldn't it be 300,000? Isn't it less than 300,000 of three years of youth? Isn't I still worth 300,000 people?
Xiaobo did not expect that his girlfriend would say such things, sleeping with him for three years, for 300,000 yuan, isn't this just selling his daughter? Her youth is youth, is her own youth shit?
Xiaobo feels that there is no need to talk about it anymore. Even at home, he can’t get it out even if he sells iron. Is he really in debt? Is this just an engagement? The wedding banquet, diamond ring, wedding host, wedding photos, etc. are all money. If you originally gave 80,000, your family would have a little money to do it. Suddenly, 300,000 was a bolt from the blue for Xiaobo and couldn't accept it. When
heard this wavelet talk about this, I was shocked. I think I got married in the first two years and spent 100,000, but later my mother-in-law gave me 50,000 and married a car worth more than 100,000 to me. I think it's okay.
is 300,000, half of it is refunded, there is no dowry, and it is also shown on the table for everyone to witness, and to compare it with everyone, I think this is unnecessary. Basically do not consider the economic situation of boys' homes, don't boys with average finances deserve to get married?
The current social climate has changed. Some girls feel that it is a matter of course for boys to give all of their contributions when it comes to marriage. They just sit at home and wait for the marriage, and then point their fingers at the boys’ home to prepare this and that. , Anyway, it is to meet all the requirements of girls.
Could it be that these girls are all spoiled, or feel that there are many boys and girls now, and if you haven't been with this, new ones will come soon. Anyway, I don't have to worry about marrying.
I still don’t quite understand. Isn’t it true that the two people get married because of their relationship? Is it richer than anyone else? Material is important, but enough is enough. Forcing boys to prepare for things beyond the scope of their ability is really realistic.
is just like Xiaobo's girlfriend said, living together for 3 years, sleeping for 3 years, you should be given 300,000.
Let me say something bad, are you a virgin? Haven't you ever slept with someone else in your previous relationship? Why don't you ask others for money?
Maybe, most marriages nowadays are based on material things. Feelings exist when they are in love, and they fade away when they encounter marriage.
Of course, what I'm talking about is only some of these girls, it doesn't mean that other girls are like this.
Although this society is a reality, this boy cannot afford to marry and there are always other boys who can afford it. However, I still think that at least a little consider the existence of feelings, the money is enough, and the boys are motivated and willing to work hard.
is like what a female friend from Chengdu told me when she got married. When she got married, both parents pooled together money to buy a house for the young couple. The boy’s family should pay more, and the girl who is not enough can add a little more. As long as two people are in love Well, forming a new family together, happiness and contentment are the issues that parents should care about most. Instead of entangled in those bride price, compare everywhere. The
picture comes from the Internet.
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