Recently, I saw articles published by several media about the existence of "30 million bachelors" in our country. The content means that many "bachelors" have difficulty getting wives and may become bachelors.
According to official data, as of the end of 2019, my country's total population has exceeded 1.4 billion. Among them, the male population is approximately 715 million and the female population is approximately 685 million. It can be seen that the male population in my country is more than 30 million more than females. This also means that there may be 30 million men facing the problem of getting a wife. However, some scholars believe that even if there are more men than women, it does not matter, because many men will marry women who are 10 years younger or even younger than themselves. In reality, it is normal for a man to marry a woman 20 years younger than himself. Therefore, it is not a big problem that the male population is tens of millions more than the female population.
However, there are indeed many "bachelors" in our country who cannot marry a wife. It is an indisputable reality, especially in rural areas.
The reason why there are more bachelors in rural areas may also be because their own conditions are not good enough, they are not self-motivated, and they want to find a beautiful woman as their wife all day long, but beautiful women usually like men who are ambitious and successful.
In the past, because rural girls generally had relatively low education and did not go out to work many, the girls were not very demanding at that time, and it was relatively easy for rural boys to seek wives.
With the development of the times, a large number of rural people have migrated to cities and towns, and rural girls have basically moved to cities to work. At the same time, nowadays, girls are demanding more and more people to talk to. Buying a house in the city seems to be a standard feature.
In addition, many girls in rural areas have higher requirements before getting married, such as "high price gifts".
Some time ago, a video went viral in the media. A boy cried out to a girl one night: "A house of 1.5 million yuan, a gift of 300,000 yuan, you are killing me!"
is understood. , The boy couldn't meet the requirements of the girl's family, the boy was helpless to propose a breakup, and that scene happened.
read an article yesterday about a young man who works in Guangdong and earns about 4,000 yuan a month. After a wedding, he has tens of thousands of deposits and turned into a "married slave" with more than 100,000 debt ". In the final analysis, the bridegroom cost 80,000 yuan, plus the "three golds" and the banquet, and she was burdened with more than 100,000 yuan in debt.
Nowadays, many young people dare not get married, and some can't get married and can't afford their wives. You know, it costs a lot of money to buy a house now, and in some areas it costs more than 100,000 to open the beauties, and even hundreds of thousands in some areas. Before
, there was a news titled "Gansu Countryside Gifts Soaring, Competing to "Sell a Good Price"". Some villagers bluntly said: "Other girls sell for two or three hundred thousand, why is my family seventy to eighty thousand?" Even many girls themselves said: "Others get married for hundreds of thousands, so why don't I have one?" Treat girls as commodities.
The ancients said: "The world is booming, all for profit; the world is hustling, all for profit." However, when marriage and love also become a victim of profit, how ironic.
In response to this phenomenon, the state has offered to "help". Under the two policies, the problem of bachelors "begging for a wife" may be easily solved.
is first and foremost a high price gift. The country has issued new regulations: prohibiting extravagance to ask for sky-high price gifts, and prohibiting marriage to obtain property. In this context, many places have introduced new regulations. For example, Shaanxi stipulates that the bride price shall not exceed 10,000 yuan. Henan stipulates that the overall cost of marriage shall not exceed 60,000 yuan. There are even many areas that propose a "zero bet" marriage proposal.
accompanied by the introduction of new regulations everywhere. To limit the sky-high betrothal gifts and prohibit extravagance and waste has also won unanimous praise.
In this context, the problem of "difficulty in marrying a wife" for bachelors can also be improved in the future, and bachelors will no longer have to worry about it.
followed by the problem of high housing prices. In fact, the difficulty of young people getting married is not only related to the “expensive gifts”, high housing prices also plague young people’s love and marriage. At this stage, women who get married basically propose to have a house. However, even if they buy a house in third- and fourth-tier cities, it costs 1.8 million yuan. After all, in third- and fourth-tier citiesThe house price is also a few thousand yuan per square meter, so it is really not easy for ordinary families to buy a house. At the same time, because many young people cannot afford houses, marriages are delayed. In the final analysis, it is also the problem of too high housing prices.
Now in this regard, the country has also "shot"! In the recent 14th Five-Year Plan, the state once again reiterated: insisting that the house is for living, not for speculation. Adhere to the simultaneous implementation of rent and purchase, implement policies in accordance with the city, improve the long-term rental policy, and promote the stable and healthy development of the real estate market.
Nowadays, housing prices have stabilized, and "real estate speculators" have almost no room for survival. To put it bluntly, the state's long-term positioning of "housing to live without speculation" and "policy in accordance with the city" are also good news for the majority of home buyers.
From the perspective of population structure, the male population is more than 30 million more than women, and there may be 30 million bachelors, which may not improve immediately in the short term. But I must remind that the state has already "helped." After all, young people have to rely on themselves to beg their wives, and they cannot count on the state.
believes that with the passage of time, and under the new national regulations, the rectification of "high-priced gifts" and the regulation of the property market, as long as young people work hard to make money, don't be a "lazy man" and worry about not marrying a wife! The number of bachelors will continue to decline, and there will be no more chanting "Bachelors go everywhere"!
This article was first published by a community think tank. Reprinting is prohibited by any media and offenders must be investigated.
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