Seeing that the other party also said well during the dinner, it is nothing special, just to help himself introduce an expert, this person is too credible.
friends listened to Lin Jie’s complaints, but said: Don’t always complain, find the problem from yourself first, this is your low EQ, don’t know how to seize the opportunity, begging someone to do things at the dinner, but after the dinner is a great opportunity, seize it well , The thing is basically done.
Lin Jie looked dumbfounded: I was already a good food and wine at the dinner, flattering each other, toasting a lot of wine, this is not enough. The other party also promised to help on the spot. Do you want to visit the other party after you leave the meeting and remind the other party to get things done quickly? A friend of
said: If you do it like you, people are even more reluctant to help. Asking for help is a job of high emotional intelligence. You must take the details and think from the perspective of the other party before the other party is willing to help you.
It is necessary to organize a meal when asking for help, which shows that the relationship between the two parties is not so ironic and things are more important. The habit of most people is to eat half of the meal, or eat almost the same, and then ask the other party for a favor.
Actually, the timing is not very good, especially when there are other people there, it will make the other person feel a little "tightening". You just had a short mouth, it is not good to refuse directly, you can only respond first, but inwardly Not too happy.
is like a boy who has to confess in public, surrounded by a group of people, and the girl is like a refusal and not very good at speaking, so she can only say stupidly: You get up first.
Another point is that if you drink too much during dinner, you can easily forget it or be treated as a joke. If you don't really want to help, you can find an excuse afterwards: I was a bit drunk at the time, but in fact I can't help this.
is the best time to save people after the dinner is over. The meal has been eaten and a good impression is left in front. When there are not many people, we earnestly "seeking help" from the other party, telling us about our difficulties, with a humble attitude Ask the other person: Is it possible to help?
is more sincere, at this time the other party usually gives face. Even if the other party refuses, because the meal is over, the other party will not be too embarrassed.
At this time, we have to show consideration for each other's difficulties, send each other away with an understanding attitude, and also leave a good impression on the other party. Next time we have something to do, we can find each other again, so as not to affect our relationship.
If we are at the dinner, we have already agreed that the other party is willing to help. After the banquet is still a time for performance, we can prepare some small gifts in advance, such as a small specialty of our hometown, and express our gratitude to the other party:
I know this matter is troublesome for you, and I have prepared a small gift. I hope you will not dislike it.
and then send each other out in person. One is to let the other party feel our respect and gratitude, and the other is to remind the other party not to forget this. When the other party made this gift and returned home, he would naturally remember this matter, and it would be useful in his heart.
Regardless of whether the other party is helping or not, if the other party is obviously drinking too much, we might as well take the initiative to call a car for the other party and watch the other party leave after the arrangements are made.
Make a call again every other time to confirm with the other party whether it is safe to get home, express your care, and the kindness to get together again next time. No need to emphasize helping. The other party is grateful. Even if they refuse at first, most of them will help afterwards.
So when we ask for help, don’t express our intention to ask for help too much. Take into account the feelings of the other party. After the meeting, we should seize the opportunity to act and arrange things properly so that the other party can feel our sincerity. Into.
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