The real Shen Jiayi did not enter her favorite university
Wen | Ye Qingcheng Source | Author Ye Qingcheng
According to my daughter Xiaonian's words: she has never seen a mother who is so obsessed with love like me.
Yes, I have been obsessed with love since I was a child.
Believe it or not, I don’t know if you really love, I believe it.
So I am not against puppy love at all.
Other parents regard them as scourges, but I think: Enjoy your youth, don’t take it too seriously. The beauty of
puppies is that they think they are serious but they are not serious.
is in love while reading, without hindering the path of life.
Until today, I didn't know: it is true that there are girls who envy the heroine in "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years", and feel that she is a beloved beauty and an ideal.
I just started to feel it, uneasy.
First of all: In life, the real Shen Jiayi has not been admitted to the university she wants to go to.
When I was watching a movie, I was simply fidgeting. My feeling is: If I were Mother Shen, I would beat these little boys.
Are you annoying? With your entanglement, which girl can study for college?
Later, Shen Jiayi was an elementary school teacher, married early and lived a very ordinary life.
(Of course you can say: ordinary is also a kind of happiness. But we don't know which kind of happiness she wants in the first place)
Secondly, I am old and I have seen many people complete the process of love, marriage and divorce. Z2z
broke up with a puberty love, of course it is very unpleasant.
But what is worse than breaking up with a premature love is that two junior high school classmates actually became partners.
Have you never thought about what this means?
This means that you are all stopped at the level of life your parents provided you back then, and no longer improved.
Why should we go to university?
is of course for the rise of China.
But from another angle, it is also for ourselves, to reach a better level, to see better people, and to have a better life.
Many girls, when they fall in love, they have a feeling of "finding the home": Since this is the home, why go forward?
Or, this person is my home, where does he go, where do I go.
So, if you succeeded in having a premature love in a rural middle school, you are married to someone from the same country, and you have no chance to marry a handsome man.
If you succeeded in having a premature love in a county middle school, you were married to someone in the county, and you have no chance to marry a rich, handsome man...
you must be the child of the best group of people, your parents want to avoid you falling out Outside the circle, give you the opportunity to arrange a puppy love, so you have a chance to marry better.
And ordinary girls, it is often the case.
has a "home", why are you working hard?
The man you love goes to vocational college, you follow him, why are you going to Harvard? If you go, don’t you miss him?
I have seen it with my own eyes. A very smart girl, naturally, was pulled back by a man. And the whole process is voluntary, and no one appreciates her.
is what she thinks is "home."
-a junior high school girl who is not even 18 years old, a minor, what does she think she will end up with? Isn't she nonsense?
Third, men and women have different attitudes about love.
Men, especially young men, do not regard any woman as their home.
He fell in love in high school and was very happy.
arrived at university and met a better person, so he changed immediately.
has worked, and there is a better one? Change.
got married, is there a better person? Consider whether it can be eclectic. In
's life, he will continue to pursue higher, faster and stronger-of course he is right. That's what
people mean when they walk up high.
I will not condemn such behavior, because this is the cause of social progress.
As for those women who were left behind or even stepped on their feet in these processes?
you have to work hard to get rid of this fate.
In addition, men will treat women as a kind of "target", that is: a certainA woman who is more senior than me at this stage is a trophy, and I have to work hard to get her.
The author of "The Girl We Chased Together in Those Years" Nine Knives himself, it was also because of the pursuit of Shen Jiayi that his grades improved and he was admitted to university.
and Shen Jiayi is his staged trophy.
In addition, men also have a psychological trait, that is, they don't want "their women" to be excellent. No hope at all.
Regarding this matter, Nine Knives said in the speech:
"We are very afraid that after Shen Jiayi will go to university in the future, he will be admitted to National Taiwan University, and will soon be chased away by the guys around him. Then the guy will teach her all kinds of things. We can't accept any knowledge about the body (audience laughs) (audience laughs)."
-From his point of view, is there any benefit to girls who are good? Of course not.
So, will he subconsciously and consciously prevent women from succeeding? In the speech, there is also a paragraph about Shen Jiayi's failure in the college entrance examination. Nine Dao felt very happy:
Shen Jiayi is my goddess, she has always Like flying in the sky, unattainable. Finally, she failed in the entrance exam, as if her wings suddenly broke and fell to the ground, feeling closer and better chasing (audience laughs). I have been a very confident person since I was a child, but there is no way to raise my head in front of Shen Jiayi, she is too dazzling. Finally, she did not do well in the entrance exam, which made me think she was closer to ordinary people. I feel a little bit happy and think she is not so close.
——Do you still believe that this is love? A person who loves you, such as your parents, will be happy because of your failure in the college entrance examination? Why does
have "heroes to save the beauty"? A woman in trouble is best to chase after her All the values, such as temperament, price, long legs and big breasts will not disappear because of the trouble, but the ones she lost make her chase.
is even more piercing: Nine Knives look down on Shen Jiayi in his heart:
"I found out that Shen Jiayi is actually a very 38-year-old girl. She could only read books since she was a child, and her world is obviously only this big. Comparing three centimeters with her fingers), but she can squeeze out a lot of boring things about sesame garlic peel from such a small world to me."
-reading a book, sesame garlic peel, boring.
Is this a man's comment on the "goddess"?
He looked down on her while pursuing her? Then what is he pursuing? Is it the spiritual world of this person? Z2z
No, I am afraid it is just the flesh.
is very realistic: if you are a girl who fell in love with someone in junior high and high school, the person you love,
may not value your spiritual world first-he is young and really can't see it.
second is unlikely to hope you are better than him. The biggest concession he can make is probably: you go to the university where he is, learn a footless major, have a lot of time to accompany him in love, accompany him to bed and listen to his emotional rubbish.
Third, he pursues you, it is an animal instinct, but not because of this. He treats you with respect and consideration among people. When the male animal saw that the female animal was alone, he rushed to bully her at the first time-don't bully at this time, but wait when. Because of their young age, teenagers are indeed closer to animals than to people.
——Don’t rush to refute me, saying that there are many happy couples in or around you. They have realized the present from middle and high school.
I know more than you. There are so many
that I found a general rule:
among them, who have not yet divorced, are basically women who are far better than men.
And this excellence is often the rolling of all aspects, IQ, beauty, emotional intelligence, family status...
and men who are better than women... are divorced earlier.
I have been obsessed with love all my life, so I do not worship it blindly, but rather study it carefully.
For example, is first love really so beautiful?
—isn’t that the mammal entering estrus? It’s just PUPPY LOVE.
The cat in your house starts to bark sadly every day after six months of age. It is exactly the same as the boy next door saying boring things to you on QQ every day.
Innocence does not mean goodness, nor does it necessarily mean beauty.
In fact, in this nascent lust, there is greed, a desire to attack, and a desire to occupy, and because they have not been educated before, it is possibleIt's very dark and dark.
One of the differences between young people and adults is that their evil can be very evil.
But no matter how clean the evil is, it is also evil. There is a piece of
news, I always remember:
Xiaohan is a girl, Xiaocheng is a boy, both college entrance examination art students, the two have been together for almost a year, and also said that "want to go to college together", but Xiao Han's college entrance examination scores are high Forty minutes past the town. After
received the notice, Xiaocheng was very happy, and the two of them went to the same university. Xiao Han's family was stunned-this school has never reported it.
Xiao Han's father called the police. It was Xiaocheng who logged into Xiaohan's college entrance examination volunteer system and changed her volunteers without authorization. Why does Xiaocheng know her password? Because the initial password for applying for the college entrance examination is the candidate's birthday, Xiaocheng knows it. After the
incident, although the police issued a relevant certificate, the set volunteers could not be changed, and Xiao Han's father fell ill in bed.
and Xiaocheng had no regrets about it. He did not admit that he made the change at first, and later admitted that it was him who made the change, but the party concerned Xiaohan's consent. Later, I blamed Xiao Han for being unsteady, and what he said didn't count...Is the story of
terrible? The most terrifying thing is: this is not a story, this is a piece of news, this is true. The fate of a woman, just because encountered non beloved, drastic changes in the ......
* Author: Ye Allure, Hubei Writers Association, author of "baby thank you elected me to be a mother," "should give up more courageously forward "" and many prose collections, "Original", "Dance of Heartbreak", "Kirin Night" and many other novels, children's novels "Gu Xiaoman of the Snail", "Hello First Grade" (Tao Xiaojing series), translated "Who Moved My Cheese" (children's version), "Out of Africa", etc. Public number: writer Ye Qingcheng (qcbukeqi)
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