marriage? It is a lifelong stay, can withstand the ordinary, withstand the trivial, and withstand the test of time.
But in real life, let alone withstand these at the same time, there are not many couples who can withstand one or two of them for a lifetime.
If you don’t know how to cherish, don’t know how to persist, and don’t know how to manage, then marriages will inevitably have problems of one kind or another. The experience of a gentleman
reminds all men: Don’t let your old age be "a horror", otherwise the rest of your life will be worrying! Let's take a look, maybe everyone will gain something.
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Many men like Lu Dahai may be too conceited of themselves!
They always think that they have always been the backbone and backbone of the family, and that their wife can only live well by relying on their side for half their lives.
has been together for so many years, and when she gets older, she will become more resigned, so she can freely choose the lifestyle she wants. She can bear it, and she has to bear it. The possibility that
needs to look at his wife's face is quite low.
But they really got one thing wrong: many women are willing to endure and give in marriage, not that they can't survive without men.
They just chose to sacrifice themselves because of love and marriage. Z2z
put it simply: because she cares about men, because she cares about their marriage and family, she doesn't care too much.
Even in old age, if a man can't stay with his wife calmly, betraying each other and marriage at this stage, then as a woman, he may also choose to divorce, just like the choice made by Lu Dahai's wife at that time.
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is a smart man who knows how to keep his reputation in his old age.
Most of the time, choosing extramarital affairs at this stage will really only make the rest of my life uneasy. After all,
is not like when you were young, you can still start all over again, even if you have experienced a failed marriage, you might even fall into an extramarital affair because of a wrong choice!
at least still has youth as a kind of capital, and the big deal is all over again, and there is still a long time to use your energy and physical strength as the basis for regaining success.
got older, and men began to turn from entrepreneurial to defensive.
Everything (marriage, wife, family, children, property, health) accumulated during most of your life has become precious. It is a talisman to protect you through the next few decades, and you must not abandon it at will! Any of these things like
can't be retrieved again after being lost at this age.
However, Lu Dahai didn't understand this. After retiring, he got entangled with an out-of-marital woman, and turned his face with his wife, children, relatives and friends for her. It can be said that
is in a situation where many people are rebellious for their own selfish desires.
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his wife wants to divorce him, and he does not want to stay, but he is extremely indifferent in terms of property division, and because of this matter, he has fought several lawsuits with the other party, which has gained his own image and reputation. It's much worse!
finally regained his freedom. In less than two years, he was almost cheated of his savings by his extramarital lover and kicked off. It was a joke!
was angry and frustrated. After experiencing the misery and pain that he had not experienced in most of his life, he finally remembered the goodness of his ex-wife and children.
just at this time, he just went to anyone, and the other party was shunned.
Like his ex-wife, his children, his relatives, friends, and colleagues are like the plague.
He has never thought about it. He has been a beautiful person for half his life, but he has become "a suspicion" when he is old. This is all thanks to a series of performances during the affair period!
just come to talk about regret now, it is too late, he has to face this unbearable and helpless situation and fate, because there is no possibility of change.
Conclusion: It is not easy for
people to build a good family and relationship network in their life. It may really take decades of continuous effort and dedication. If
spends half of his life safely, but in his later years because of some mistakesHis actions have made the originally healthy family and social relations precarious, which is really not worth the gain!
Chinese people attach the most importance to evening scenes. They think that when they are young, it’s hard work, beating, and experience. But when they are older, they lose everything that can guarantee their safety and happiness. It's a complete and complete failure!
In fact, those who enter this stage understand what can and cannot be done.
is the most advantageous way to avoid the bleakness of the evening scene by ensuring that you do not make low-level mistakes and guarding everything you have in your hands. It's simple and feasible, it depends on whether you can do it!
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