Introduction:
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness. No matter what age they are, we have seen many twilight loves in real life. Twilight love is to find their own happiness in their old age.
In the past, it seemed that twilight love was not approved. It felt ashamed that one person would find another person when he was old, but now the mindset is particularly open, and everyone has the right to pursue happiness. So there is no need to talk about others.
Especially after reaching the age of 60, your wife has passed away or divorced earlier, so you have to consider for the rest of your life, and also for your own old age, consider it, after all There are indeed many inconveniences in human life, and many problems are difficult to overcome. Therefore, if two people, at least have mutual care, especially loneliness and loneliness. For many elderly people, they don’t like living with their children. Some children don’t like living with the elderly, so loneliness and loneliness have become their first problem.
However, there are some elderly people who have high demands on their other half. Some people often say: "You are a 60-year-old person, why do you demand so much?" So what are her demands?
Grandma Wang
Grandma Wang is 62 years old this year. His wife left her a few years ago, leaving her alone. Fortunately, her children have grown up and become families, so she doesn’t have to take care of this, but She lives alone at home, and she also needs to find someone to accompany her. After all, she was too lonely in her later life.
At that time, when someone introduced him to him, she made these requirements. She said that if these requirements were not met, she would rather be alone. The first requirement of
is that there are no major physical problems. There may be a reason for
. After all, after a person is old, if the other person still has problems, you have to take care of her. There is nothing wrong with yourself, but you have to take care of a person, and the body can’t last for so long.
There will definitely be new problems, so if two people are together, as long as the other's health is good, and their health is good, it is not unhappy that they will not drag the other two to take care of. The second requirement of
is to have his own financial ability.
The other party will marry him. He must have a certain financial foundation, which is his savings. It is not in vain for two people to be together. It is his money, and he himself has Some savings, so I don’t want to spend a penny on him, but I can’t spend all my money.
Marriage of two people together is not pulling down. Your own standard of living needs to be maintained at the same level. After all, at this age, getting married is really not about taking the rich and helping the poor, and I don't want to have such a hard life in my old age. The third requirement of
is to live alone together.
After reaching old age, looking for a wife is just for two people to be alone together, two people spend their old life together, and don’t want to live with their children, mainly if they live with them, there will be some conflicts, some Not used to it.
At this age, I don't want to have a good relationship with these children, and I don't want to see their faces acting. After all, when two people get married in their old age, they hope that someone will be by their side and accompany each other. The last one of
is the same. Although
said, you must find someone who is healthy, but after this age, the problems will gradually increase in the future. With the increase of age, the structural changes of the human body will also change greatly.
No one wants Whose body will have some problems, but two people have gone hand in hand for so many years, if there is really a serious problem in the body, the other person will leave you, this is definitely great for the specifics At that time, when I was there, he was still taking care of you. That was especially important to me, so I felt very moved.
Concluding remarks:
's old marriage, two people together is to be able to accompany and stay together until the old age, two people together, to the end of life, in this world is not a waste of life.
This requirement is indeed not excessive at all, this is alsoIt is in reason. After all, in the old age of marriage, everyone is no longer pursuing love. They are all pursuing a person to be by their side. It is enough that a person is sincere to you.
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