So what kind of psychology do those female friends after middle age cheat? Many people at
have summed up this sentence, men cheating for sex, and women cheating for love.
So, female friends after middle age, do they still have love? It is that after many middle-aged women have experienced the baptism of life and the destruction of life, they know that in your life, there are not only sweet words, but also countless chores and daily chores.
finally consumed all the enthusiasm before because of these daily chores, and their love has long since disappeared.
Let’s take a look at what these three middle-aged ladies say? Ms.
Tang, 50 years old.
During my marriage with my husband, I have never received his care. After we got married and gave birth to children, his concern for me has become more and more indifferent, and he has never asked about my life. How I’ve been, I’ve never asked how I’m feeling. I can’t bear this kind of life. A woman’s long-term loneliness and loneliness is very uncomfortable.
Recalling that he had taken care of me so much and often accompanied me. When I go shopping, I always buy me gifts when there is no holiday. At that time, I thought I was a very happy woman.
In our married life, he is always busy with work. Every time I get sick, he is always on business trips. He feels very magical because he is not at home for a long time, and I only have one at home, and you are also outside. Yes, I am also a woman. After all, I need love and care. Later, I met Lao Wang in the neighborhood next door.
His wife passed away a long time ago, leaving her alone, with the child, when he first met him, he was a good talker, and sometimes he always came to help me when I got off work After doing some things, I slowly contacted him for a long time and fell in love with him. In the end, I chose to divorce my husband and come with him.
Ms. Wu, 46 years old.
When I married my husband, it was because of love. His sweet words made me lose myself and made me unable to recognize the reality in this love.
When I married him, the financial conditions in his family were still He is relatively poor, and he just graduated, his job is not very stable, and he receives a monthly salary of 2,600. But I still insisted on marrying him, and my parents also firmly opposed, but they couldn't stop me, they could only reluctantly agreed.
But after I got married, I found out that I had always been wrong before. I have been married to him for almost ten years, and the two people quarrel every day because of money matters.
may be because I have had enough of this kind of life, and I can’t live it anymore. Later, I met a friend who still liked me and was also richer. She was willing to spend money for me, and I also felt like He was together, and he gave me the life I wanted, and then he confessed to me that I was with him.
Ms. Li, 40 years old.
The reason for my cheating may be because I am particularly disappointed with my husband. Since I married him, he has been working in the field since he was pregnant, and he rarely returns home. You only have to celebrate the holidays every year and only during the Chinese New Year. Will be back. Between me and him, the couples that have happened over the years can count the fingers of both hands. It's not that I don't love him, but it is very uncomfortable for a woman to live without such a life for a long time. Life always needs to vent.
So for such a long time, I will look for other men, although I do, I feel a little sorry for my husband, but I can’t help it. I also hope that such things will not be known by him. After all, everyone has Everyone’s difficulties.
Conclusion
is indeed in a marriage. Everyone’s marriage and family are different. They say that every family has hard-to-read scriptures. Then everyone’s suffering is justified. They cheat for a reason. .
No matter what reason they cheated, the reason is that they are in this sectionThe life I feel during marriage is not a happy one, and I hope that the experiences of these three people will remind you that you must cherish the present person in your future life.
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