In modern society, life is compact, and the pressure on family life is becoming more and more serious. Material desires have also led to changes in many people's values, outlook on life and love. In a family, if the husband and wife have different ideas, conflicts will arise over time, the emotional rift between the two parties will become larger and larger, and derailment will occur under irreconcilable circumstances.
So who is more likely to cheat on women or men? In fact, this question is not easy to answer, and there is no definite answer. Because every man and woman is an individual, the individual cannot represent the whole, and everyone’s ideals, pursuits, concepts, personalities, hobbies, etc. are not the same, so when faced with such problems, we can only be general and general Analysis.
Women's personality and way of thinking, as well as their roles in the family, have determined that they are more sensitive to feelings and marriage than men. There are roughly the following reasons for women's derailment.
suffered unfair treatment
Many women have encountered unfair treatment in the family, especially the kind of "male chauvinism" husband. They always think that everything women do for men is justified and righteous. Of course, the wife does not get the respect and love she deserves in the family. Once they are cared and loved by men outside the family, their emotional balance will immediately tilt.
Values and the pursuit of material desire
In society, ordinary families are the majority, and most couples’ family life is ordinary and ordinary. However, with the development and progress of society, life has become more and more colorful. A colorful life can stimulate people’s pursuit of material desires. Some women are longing for a luxurious life, but a luxurious life requires wealth. support. When an ordinary family cannot meet the needs of her luxurious life, then she will inevitably seek a fundamental change.
Man’s betrayal
The third reason is the man’s betrayal, which is also the most common situation in life. If a woman with strong self-esteem and aggressiveness encounters a man's merciless betrayal, they will choose revenge without hesitation in order to satisfy a sense of psychological fairness.
The betrayal and derailment of men are undoubtedly a heavy blow to women. Many women are puzzled, why do men love to be in trouble? In fact, men do not necessarily have to cheat when they are in trouble. There are many incentives for men to cheat.
Aesthetic fatigue
In today's society, men and women are more demanding when choosing objects, not only for the appearance of each other, but also for culture and temperament. Men are particularly prominent in this aspect, so aesthetic fatigue will appear in the eyes of men. No matter how beautiful and excellent a wife is, a husband cannot be as fascinated by her as the first acquaintance. When the aesthetic is tired, there happens to be a beautiful and young woman who launches a strong offensive against men. Under such circumstances, many men are unable to defend their defenses.
Heavy work pressure
Modern life undoubtedly adds heavy pressure to men. In addition to work pressure, they also have to bear pressure from family. When a man has no money, his wife will compare him with others all day long, despising that the husband has no money and ability; but when the man has money, the wife is worried all day about her husband having an affair outside, and even regards him to death. dead.
Family and wife were originally the harbor of the soul and the place of emotional sustenance, but sometimes they became the "prison" for men. When they returned home, there was still no place to talk, and no one came to comfort themselves when they were tired. If this man meets a considerate, gentle and beautiful woman, he will definitely regard her as his confidante, and it will be hard not to think of cheating.
The additional temptation to socialize
Under normal circumstances, men have to face a variety of social entertainments in work or career, so in socializing, they will inevitably receive various temptations. Nowadays, many women can often pay all costs for their benefits and status. Coupled with a series of factors such as alcohol anesthesia, specific environmental occasions, and ambiguous relationships, it is inevitable that men will lose their normal sanity and cannot be controlled for a while. Live and missed.
The value concept of economic supremacy has made a fundamental change. As the saying goes, "women love money", at this point, it seems to increase the risk factor for women's derailment. However, the derailment of women and men, without exception, comes from internal factors in the family.
When couples have conflicts, both parties should reflect and examine their actions in time. Has it caused a rift in the relationship? Is it an incentive for the other party to derail? What both spouses need most is understanding. Only by understanding each other can they know how to give to each other, so I think understanding is the basis of a happy marriage.
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