talked about a relationship and was about to get married, but the pregnant wife suddenly disappeared? Is it worrying enough? Who knows, the more annoying thing is still behind...
01
Before I met the leaves, my days have been smooth.
My name is Zhang Chen, born in Shanghai after 90. My parents have been in business for many years and have no time to take care of my sister and me. My sister Zhang Min is 8 years older than me and has taken good care of me since I was young. She always taught me not to play with girls' feelings. Therefore, before graduating from university, I never provoked any girls.
At the end of June 2017, my mother and sister came to attend my university graduation ceremony. After the ceremony, my mother solemnly and mysteriously handed me two keys.
I heard from my sister that it was a small two-bedroom house in a high-end suburban area. This suite was funded by my parents half a year ago and my sister’s staff selected it as a gift for me to enter the society.
My job is as a programmer in an IT company. I bought some simple furniture from IKEA, and I moved in.
I live a leisurely and regular life every day. I get up at 6 o'clock, run at 6:30 in the morning, go to work at 7:30, go to my parents' house to finish dinner at night, and then return to my nest.
There is a huge boulder in the community where I live. It is the end point of my morning jog. Next to the boulder, there is a young Fatong.
One day in early July, I ran here, half leaning on the boulder, opened the bottle cap, and took a few sips of water. Closing the cap, I suddenly felt something falling on my head. I touched it with my hand and it was actually bird droppings! What to do, I don't have the habit of carrying tissues with me.
"Hey, you won the lottery, here!" It was the figure behind me, and she handed out some tissues. I was so embarrassed, but she didn't dislike it at all. She looked at me with crooked eyebrows and greeted me generously: "I'm Ye Zizi and I live in the neighborhood next door."
Every morning jog thereafter, we will have brief exchanges , And added friends, chatting hotly.
Ye Zi is 3 years older than me and works as a clerk in a company. She is from Hainan. Because her elder brother is doing business in Shanghai, she went to Shanghai to join her elder brother after graduating, and lived with him in the neighbourhood.
The leaves are white and beautiful, the temperament is beautiful, I like to run and work out, read books and travel, and the talents are online, and they are especially understanding. My heart fell. After chasing
for half a year, after Ye Zi promised to be my girlfriend, I would wake up in my dreams. Who would have thought that when I took a walk, I picked up a girlfriend.
was in love for half a year, and I won the lottery again. Before the Spring Festival in 2018, Ye Zi said she was pregnant.
I was a little caught off guard. I'm only 25 years old. I have my first love with Ye Zi and get married so early. Isn't it too hasty? I searched for flash marriage cases on the Internet. After reading those stories, I even felt that the sky was gray. As long as I think about getting married, I feel terrified and afraid.
I tell the truth to Ye Zi that I am not ready to be a father. It is better to get rid of the children, and then get engaged, get married, and have children step by step. But she was determined to keep the child.
I had no choice but to bite the bullet and went home and told my family that my mother and sister hated iron and steel and blamed me for a meal, but my mother is a Christian and she firmly disagrees with abortion. Therefore, she arranged a day for me to bring Ye Zi to meet them.
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When we meet this time, we are meeting in a hotel.
My family has a good impression of Ye Zi. My mother not only sealed Ye Zi a big red envelope of 30,000 yuan, but also quickly put forward a solution: "Since you love each other, get the certificate quickly so that you can give your child an identity. The wedding is too hurried, just wait. If the child is born, it will be done again.”
My mother also asked Ye Zi and I to move home first so that Ye Zi could take care of it. However, the leaves winked and I refused. Strangely, not only did Ye Zi not agree to move into my parents' house, but also refused to move in to live with me.
Her reason is that her elder brother is a bit traditional machismo, and his temper is a bit irritable. If she knows that she is unmarried and pregnant, she doesn't know how to get angry and come and clean me up. After she confessed to her brother, it depends on the situation.
Speaking of it, Ye Zi and I even have children, and we haven't even seen the eldest brother. I offered to meet my eldest brother. Unexpectedly, Ye Zi said that her brother often travels at home and abroad, and it is difficult to make an appointment.
She still laughed and teased me, not in a hurry to see the child, why did she see the uncle? When I said this, Ye Zi poke my head with one finger, and touched her with my hand in the other hand.My stomach, I was amused by her humorous tone. She is always so considerate, with the tenderness of a small woman, but also the independence of a mature woman.
remembers that when my sister was pregnant, she had to toss her brother-in-law very hard. Today, I will eat Qiaojiazha’s Leishayuan, tomorrow I will eat old Shanghai pickled cabbage, stewed bird’s nest in the morning to replenish the skin, and wake up in the middle of the night to eat watermelon seeds to replenish my brain. And Ye Zi made no request to me in this regard, and she even went for the birth check. She said that she was sympathetic to the inconvenience of asking for leave.
As for getting the marriage certificate, because she lost her ID card, she had to go back to her hometown to reissue it in person, which was temporarily shelved.
In early February 2018, Ye Zi said that she had to go back to Hainan to get an ID card as soon as possible.
She also pointed out that there are also some things that go wrong in the company. She plans to resign and stay at her parents' house and give birth to the child before returning to Shanghai. I will go to Hainan to accompany her until my May Day holiday. Although I was reluctant, but seeing her insisting again and again, I agreed and transferred the ticket money to Ye Zi. On the day of
8, I took a taxi and took her to the airport. She refused to let me take her to the boarding gate because she was afraid that she would be too sad to be sent off, so I followed them one by one.
A week later, my mother urged us to go home for dinner, and learned that Ye Zi had returned to his hometown. My mother told me that I was too worried and it was about to celebrate the New Year. How could I let the pregnant wife leave by herself? How can a woman and child who cannot take care of her be considered a man? People of all ages still act like children playing house.
At the beginning, I didn't take it seriously. Ye Zi always took the time to send me a message almost every day, and occasionally made a video with me in her "boudoir" and acted like a baby. In my opinion, everything is business as usual.
finally came to May Day. I asked the company for two days off in advance, took the home address she left for me, boarded the plane to Haikou, and decided to surprise her.
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After getting off the plane, I took a taxi. According to the address, I arrived in a small town south of Haikou an hour later. However, there is only one dilapidated olive processing factory.
I inquired around and no one knew a woman named Ye Zi. Could it be that the address she left me is fake? ! I panicked and called Ye Ye quickly.
But her phone actually went down. I immediately recharged her one hundred yuan, but the phone still showed that it could not be connected. I sent her a message, only to find out that she didn't know when she blacked me out. What is this special situation? Can anyone tell me?
I called my mother and sister for help, and mobilized the people around me to search for leaves in Hainan. Did she have an accident? Thinking of this, I rushed to the police, but based on the information I provided, the local police would not open the case. The home address and company information she left me turned out to be fake.
At this time, I discovered that I really don't know much about the leaves. After being there for a week, there was no news of the leaves. I have forgotten how I returned to Shanghai. The
family helped me analyze it, but they were also puzzled: Why can't a big living person be contacted? Unless, she deliberately avoided. Based on our previous contact, she really seemed to be avoiding me deliberately.
But Ye Ye found me, what is the picture? Except for the red envelope, she never asked me for a gift, and she hadn't even had time to choose a wedding ring.
In a blink of an eye, more than a month passed, and there was still no news of the leaves. I didn't give up and wanted to go to Hainan again to find Ye Zi, but my mother and sister persuaded me. My sister said: "She doesn't want to see you. Even if you go, it's no use." Z1z
's mother felt sorry for me and insisted on letting me move home. My sister also moved out of her brother-in-law and talked to me over and over again. My brother-in-law is not much, but a shrewd businessman. He said that marriage is like doing business. If one party is not honest at the beginning and the goals of mutual benefit are inconsistent, then business will not be successful.
Obviously, Ye Zi hadn't been honest with me from the beginning, and had no real intention of marrying me, so the "business" between me and her would definitely not be successful.
If the business fails, stop the loss in time. Loss is not only about money, but for men, it is more about the energy and timing of starting a business.
I always feel in my heart that Ye Ye must not be such a person. Her cheerfulness, her gentleness, and the bit by bit we get along, seem to have happened yesterday. Moreover, she already has my baby! The expected date of delivery of
leaves is June. If it goes well, our child should have been born. During this period, every day I lived in a muddle-headed manner, and I couldn’t help thinking about the leaves.All possible encounters.
Maybe she accidentally left me the wrong address; maybe her family did not agree with our marriage and put her under house arrest; maybe her brother took her to a foreign country...
Ye Zi and her brother once lived in mine The neighborhood next door, but she never took me there. Once, when we were cooking dinner together at my house, she received a call saying that her brother had returned and forgot to bring the key. She had to deliver the key.
I want to go with her, but she said that it would be just a few steps, and just go back. Let me watch the stew at home and stop it. But that night, she did not come back to continue the dinner. She explained that her aunt came to Shanghai and she had to be a host.
maybe, she has returned from Hainan and still lives there. Even if he didn't come back, it would be nice to meet her brother and ask about the situation!
In the past few months, I have been trying to find people in Hainan, but I have ignored the clues around me. We first met on a morning jog near my community!
I couldn't hold back my excitement, and immediately moved back to my small home.
04
On the first morning of the November holiday, I went to the community that Ye Zi mentioned. The
community is closed, and outsiders refuse to enter.
I found out the photo in my phone-a selfie of Ye Zi and I under the tree of Fatong. I told the guard that I had a quarrel with my wife, and she moved with her child to relatives in this community in a fit of anger. I wanted to find her home, but she refused to answer the phone, and I don't know where her relatives live. The doorman
is a simple-faced Shaanxi guy. He said that in their hometown, the mother-in-law was wronged and loved to run to her family. It turned out that big cities are the same.
He glanced at the woman in the photo and said that he had seen him and did live in this community, but he didn't know which building he lived in, but he could check it from the record book of the foreign registrant.
Without turning a few pages, I found Ye Zi's name and address: Zhonghu, Building 16, 5th Floor.
I pressed the access control, and there was a man in the intercom. It seems that Ye Zi and her brother must have responded. I immediately reacted to the situation and said it was a delivery. I went up to the fifth floor smoothly and knocked on the door.
opened the door by a middle-aged woman. Ye Zi's voice came from inside: "It's the new bed bell I ordered for Chang Huan on the Internet." In an instant, she appeared in my sight, holding the baby in one hand and supporting the other. The bottle is feeding.
saw me, her face turned pale, and said, "Mom, the bed bell will arrive next week. The express delivery must be wrong!" The middle-aged woman
looked at me with empty hands suspiciously: "You are not The courier?" She turned out to be Ye Zi's mother! I wonder.
Seeing Ye Zi turned around and walked inside, I hurriedly said, "Auntie, I am Ye Zi’s boyfriend, my child’s father!"
Who knows, that woman heard me and pushed me forward. , Roared: "What nonsense? You are crazy, Ye Zi is my daughter-in-law, I am the child's grandmother!"
My head buzzed, and the blood all over my body poured on top of my head! I yelled: "Yieyeye! You come out and make it clear!"
Yeye came out again, with no children in his arms. She was followed by middle-aged men who were not tall and had deserted eyes. Leaf not only did not give the explanation I wanted, but kept saying: "You hurry up, I don't know you, don't talk nonsense any more, I will call the police if you mess around!"
months of suffering, worry and anger , Such as a dam that bursts its dyke in the rainy season. I eagerly asked her: "Ye Zi, why did you lie to me? I went to Hainan and didn't find your house. I didn't tell me when the baby was born!" The
middle-aged woman slapped her severely, "You little bitch So I stole a man, and I want my son to raise wild plants for you!"
I subconsciously want to protect the leaves. At this time, her hair is messy, and her face is torn by her mother’s nails. My husband pushed me away and pulled his mother away: "Stop making trouble, do you want neighbors and friends to watch jokes?"
is too late! Someone in the neighbor had opened the door, and several men and women appeared in the door behind Ye Zi. It turned out that today was the children's hundred-day banquet.
Ye Ye looked at me with a look of embarrassment, and said with a cry of crying: "Don't talk nonsense, you are crazy, go, go!" I was put in a bag, I didn't know the east, the west, the north, the north, the north and the west, and I was in a daze. Upstairs.
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, an unfamiliar number applied to add me as a friend, and the note was Leaf.
I passed. She first sent a long list of apology messages, and then told me the story with her husband. The man
is indeed not her brother, but her husband Liu Ning. They are both from Hainan. Liu Ning is 6 years older than Ye Zi. Liu Ning's family is a business and an only child, and their mother-in-law has been giving birth since they got married. But after three years of marriage, Ye Zi still didn't get pregnant.
Ye Ye was anxious now. She tried various methods, including running, yoga, physical exercise, conditioning with Chinese and Western medicine, and even heard a folk remedy, and bought a placenta on the black market. More than a year passed by
, but nothing worked. She went to several major hospitals for examination, and all the indexes were normal. The doctor advised her to ask her husband to come for the examination.
So, she suggested that her husband go to the hospital with her, but her husband shied several times. Early that morning, she persuaded her husband to go for a check-up again, speaking of the worst case, no matter how bad, she said that she could still do artificial insemination or IVF. Unexpectedly, her husband scolded her annoyedly, who loved to do what she wanted, and I couldn't afford to lose that person.
She was frustrated and had a big quarrel with her husband. Then, when I came out for a run, I met me. At the same time the next day, she ran over again...
At the beginning, she was indeed dating me with a sullen mentality. But later, she really moved her heart to me, and she also thought of divorce and being with me. But she is not sure if I will stay with her if I learn the fact that she is married.
Plus, she has seen my bare-bones home with her own eyes, and she believes that I am a poor boy who rents here. Between bread and love, she still chose bread without hesitation.
discovered that when she was pregnant, the attitude of her mother-in-law and I made her sure of her choice. Because the mother-in-law made a 180-degree turn after learning the news, offering her as a god. But I hesitated, unlike someone who can afford a family, so she decided to return to the family.
During this period, she had already tried Liu Ning, what if she really got pregnant with someone? If his husband ridiculed her half-truth, then count you as capable! Knowing that Ye Zi was pregnant, her husband acquiesced, but did not make it clear, as always, he was busy at work. However, he banned Ye Zi from running in the morning on the grounds that she was pregnant.
She said, honestly, just hope I can forget her, as if I have never known her. Finally, she told me a lot of "sorry". Unfortunately, I have no emotions except anger. After
came back from Ye Zi's house, I fell ill.
My mother and sister came over to take care of me specially, and I couldn't help telling them the truth. My mother kept talking about "incriminating evil", but my sister deliberately made me happy, saying that my brother is so wise and martial, making beautiful women lustful, deceiving sons...
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After the eleventh holiday, I was cured, or did not heal. , But after the pain, it has been dull. I continue to work step by step and run.
once went back to his parents' house for dinner, and her sister took a girl to the house on her own initiative. The girl's name is Song Xiao. She has just graduated from university for one year and works as a teacher in a primary school. Song Xiao is petite and beautiful with a gentle personality, making him a suitable marriage partner. After getting along with
for a period of time, we confirmed the relationship. After the Spring Festival, the parents of both sides met to make a decision.
On the fifth day of the first month of 2019, Song Xiao and I made an appointment to go to her house. I got up early and cleaned up. I was about to go out when I heard the doorbell ring.
I opened the door, and Ye Ye stood haggardly outside the door. She was dragging the suitcase in one hand and pushing the stroller with the other. There was a little girl in the car. Upon seeing me, Ye Zi cried and told that she was divorced.
I looked at it coldly, and replied: "What does it matter to me if you are divorced? Didn't you say that we have never known each other?"
seemed to feel the coldness in my words, and the child began to cry nervously. . Ye Zi hurriedly picked up her daughter and cried to me while coaxing them that they were homeless and I was the father of the child. She didn't know who to ask for help except me.
I didn't know what to do for a while, so I called my mother and sister for help.
Ye Ye babbled and said, because I went to her house to make a big fuss, neighbors, relatives and friends all watched the jokes and talked about everything. That day, her husband took the initiative to help her cover up. So that night, she added my friend to confess the whole story, hoping to settle things down.
dismissed proAfter the group of friends, the mother-in-law did a paternity test for her son and granddaughter without telling them. After the appraisal result came out, the mother-in-law learned that the granddaughter was not her own, and resolutely divorced Ye Zi.
Her husband has always known that this child is not his. He had planned to keep this secret and cover up the fact that he was barren, but now that the fig leaf was revealed, he did not want to be laughed at by relatives and friends, and decisively filed for divorce. Ye Zi was forced to leave the house.
My mother and sister rushed over, and the marriage ceremony to Song Xiao's house was naturally put on hold. The mother said that regardless of the right and wrong between the adults, the child is innocent. Let us do a paternity test first. If it is mine, my family will take the corresponding responsibility. On the day of
, I held my daughter for the first time. The little, Xiangruan daughter, she drank milk and soon fell asleep by Ye Zi. Ye Zi's eyes turned red from crying, and my heart was softened by her crying. So, I agreed that they lived in my house temporarily, but I didn't know how to face them, so I hid back to my parents' house. The results of the
paternity test came out, and the child really belongs to me. The
family agrees with me that we can raise the child, the child lives with my mother, or the child lives with Ye Zi, I pay monthly living expenses. But Ye Zi hoped that I would fulfill her promise when she was pregnant and marry her. She doesn't want her child to be so young without a father. When
learned of Song Xiao's existence, Ye Zi cried and threatened me. If I don't marry her, she will take the child to die. Afterwards, she apologized to me that she was a little depressed after childbirth and told me not to worry about her. I still avoid seeing her.
Occasionally when I go back to fetch things, I find that Ye Zi has arranged my little house clean and tidy and organized, which reminds me involuntarily of the beautiful scenes when interacting with her.
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In early March, Song Xiao suddenly broke up with me. I just learned that Ye Zi went to Song Xiao's school to find her.
I am struggling with conflicts. When I think of what Ye Zi has done to me, I can't help but hate her; but I have to admit that I have old feelings for her, coupled with having a daughter, the Tianping in my heart can't help but incline to her.
Seeing the child’s innocent smiling face, my heart began to soften a little bit. Suddenly I felt that Ye Zi was not so heinous, she was not bad in nature, but her husband was infertile, the victim of her husband’s birth, and the child was the most miserable !
So, on impulse, despite the opposition of my family, I decided to marry Ye Zi and assume the responsibility of a father.
At the beginning of April 2019, Ye Ye and I hurriedly obtained the certificate and performed a simple ceremony. After marriage, the leaves are considered virtuous. But with the deceptive stalk before, I can't turn that corner in my heart.
In May, the child turned one year old, and Ye Zi proposed that he wanted to go to work. My mother moved in to help us take the child. However, the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good because of different concepts and methods of parenting. Mom couldn't bear the quarrel with her, so she paid us to hire a nanny and went back to her home.
Ye Zi's mood is good and bad, and I feel both distressed and sad. I was so exhausted by her torment that I didn't want to face her even more. I don't want to go home after work every day, and often take the initiative to work overtime until late at night.
She came up with another trick, holding her baby downstairs in my unit to stop me. Ye Ye didn't take me home, but chased me with a knife, threatened me, and threatened to show me death in front of me if I ignored my family. Then Ye Zi went home and cried and apologized to me. The leader of
talked to me several times and asked me to handle housework well. I was embarrassed and overwhelmed, so I resigned from the unit on impulse.
has no job. I have a showdown with Ye Zi. Either divorce or as she wishes, I stay at home every day, quit the nanny, and I will take care of the children at home! With no financial resources, Ye Zi was panicked. She kept urging me to ask my parents for help and let me go out to find a job!
And I concentrated on taking care of my daughter, and I didn't hear what she said. The air at home was tense and cold.
Finally, until the May Day of 2020, I really can't make it through, and I officially filed for divorce with Ye Zi.
Me and Ye Zi, it was a mistake from the beginning. If we didn't meet her at the beginning, if we were not married, these latter mistakes would not happen. Unfortunately, there are not so many ifs! Since
is a mistake, let's end this farce sooner. Ye Ziye didn't agree with her life and death, she made a condition, unless I gave her the house and daughter, she would firmly disagree with the divorce. In addition, I have to pay 7,000 yuan a month for support.
The house is my pre-marital property, even if it is a lawsuit, the leaves will not be separated. Ye Zi's condition is that he is sure that my family and I will not agree. After careful consideration, I agreed to all the conditions of Ye Zi, but there is an additional condition that the house can only be used for self-occupation and cannot be traded. If there is a non-force majeure factor to sell the house, all the proceeds must go to the daughter. The daughter of
was an accident. I knew that I might not be by her side in this life, watching her grow up, but I can't abandon her.
In June, Ye Ye and I went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures. The moment I got the divorce certificate, I was relieved. My heart aches after losing my house and daughter. But maybe this is the price I have to pay for my growth. Image source of
: Vision China
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